Multifaceted Masculinity

In today’s episode, I’m inviting you into some things that are deeply personal to me. You all get to meet a very special person in my life. My queen. My life partner. The woman who has been an intricate part of my story the last year. 

Not only that, but today we’re diving into our King & Queen Journey… our first shared psychedelic ceremonial experience. 

In this episode you'll learn:

• Why working with psychedelics as a couple is important. 

Host: Josh Cearbaugh

https://joshcearbaugh.com 

https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshcearbaugh/ 

https://www.instagram.com/jcearbaugh/ 

https://facebook.com/joshcearbaugh 

https://www.jumpstartyourlife.com 

Guest: Kristen Waltrip 

https://www.instagram.com/kristenwaltrip/ 

https://www.facebook.com/kwaltrip7 

https://www.instagram.com/txwellnessevents/ 

https://www.facebook.com/txwellnessevents

Danny & Vanessa are hosts of the Sovereign Lovestream, a love, sex, and psychedelics podcast. 

Years in a toxic relationship they healed themselves and their relationship using plant medicines, meditation, and other healing modalities to create a beautiful marriage filled with love, joy, and gratitude. 

Vanessa and Danny share those techniques and healing modalities with their audience and also offer relationship coaching and intuitive readings. They love teaching individuals how to achieve spiritual sovereignty and how to bring centered balanced energy to their relationships. 

In this episode you'll learn:

• Red flags to look for in toxic relationships.

Host: Josh Cearbaugh

Website: https://joshcearbaugh.com 

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshcearbaugh/ 

Course: https://www.jumpstartyourlife.com 

Guest: Danny & Vanessa Velez-panzella 

Website: https://www.sovereignlove.nyc 

Podcast: https://www.sovereignlove.nyc/lovestream 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sovereignlovebrooklyn 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sovereignlove.nyc/ 

“Death of ego” is a common thing you hear in plant medicine circles. The question is, is the ego ALL bad? Today we dive into that very question. 

In this episode you'll learn:

• What is “the ego”?

Host Name: Josh Cearbaugh

https://joshcearbaugh.com 

https://www.instagram.com/jcearbaugh/ 

https://facebook.com/joshcearbaugh 

https://www.jumpstartyourlife.com 

Host Name: Seth Conner

https://sethconner.com

https://www.instagram.com/sethaconner/

https://www.facebook.com/iSethConner/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sethaconner/

Companies, Products & Places Mentioned

Ego is the Enemy

http://egoistheenemy.com 

What is “The Ego”

https://www.successconsciousness.com/blog/spirituality/what-is-the-ego/ 

Being cheated on is a deep emotional violation of trust that comes from the very person who is supposed to be closest to you. The question is, why do we cheat? Why do we look outside the relationship for comfort, sex, affirmation, etc? Today we dive into this painful topic to try and understand the underlying forces that move men from pursuing a woman to choosing actions that blow up the relationship. 

In this episode you'll learn:

• Why do men choose to violate trust and cheat?

Host Name: Josh Cearbaugh

https://joshcearbaugh.com 

https://www.instagram.com/jcearbaugh/ 

https://facebook.com/joshcearbaugh 

https://www.jumpstartyourlife.com 

Host Name: Seth Conner

https://sethconner.com

https://www.instagram.com/sethaconner/

https://www.facebook.com/iSethConner/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sethaconner/

Most of us have either been through a divorce ourselves or know someone who has.

In today’s episode, Josh and Seth discuss what it’s like to “ride the waves” of grief that come with the loss of a marriage. As two men who have had to navigate this world, they have some first-hand experience on how to move through the grief to find a beautiful life on the other side. 

In this episode you'll learn:

• What are the stages of grief 

Host Name: Josh Cearbaugh

https://joshcearbaugh.com 

https://www.instagram.com/jcearbaugh/ 

https://facebook.com/joshcearbaugh 

https://www.jumpstartyourlife.com 

Host Name: Seth Conner

https://sethconner.com

https://www.instagram.com/sethaconner/

https://www.facebook.com/iSethConner/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sethaconner/

In Episode Five, we welcome our first female guest and one who gives voice to Narcissistic Abuse Survivors and a perspective that might be hard to hear. Her story of being in a relationship with an extremely abusive, passive-aggressive, covert narcissist is not a rare story, but one that may rarely be heard.

However, with the release of her new book, “Misaligned Mind” the world has a resource to help them identify this form of toxic or distorted masculinity, and then empower its victims to walk away and find healing.   

In this episode you'll learn:

• Narcissism as a personality disorder (i.e. it’s behaviors)

Guest Name: Tricia Macalka

https://www.instagram.com/ncmermaid81

https://www.instagram.com/narcmisalignedmind

Host Name: Josh Cearbaugh

https://joshcearbaugh.com 

https://www.instagram.com/jcearbaugh/ 

https://facebook.com/joshcearbaugh 

https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshcearbaugh/ 

https://www.jumpstartyourlife.com 

Host Name: Seth Conner

https://sethconner.com

https://www.instagram.com/sethaconner/

https://www.facebook.com/iSethConner/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sethaconner/

Companies, Products & Places Mentioned

Narcissist Misaligned Mind: How My Faith And Rebirth Helped Me Escape The Abuse (Tricia Macalka) - https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09D1MHFBX&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_VXA2ZS352S7RN4G92DHV

Why Does He Do That (Lundy Bancroft) - https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B000Q9J0RO&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_9DJ3D5XYTRP9W4JD343J

Narc Abuse TV -

https://www.narcabusetv.com/

Mushroom Doctor (psilocybin micro-dosing)

The Power of TED (The Empowerment Dynamic) (https://www.amazon.com/POWER-TED-EMPOWERMENT-DYNAMIC-Anniversary/dp/0996871802)

Default Mode Network (https://psychedelicstoday.com/2020/02/04/psychedelics-and-the-default-mode-network/)

True Narcissists are douchebags! Well, they can be. Narcissism in relationships, Narcissism in the Church or other organizational leadership - it seems to be a hot topic lately and many are still trying to understand it. It tends to creep into even the most beautiful of environments and stifle initially benevolent intentions. In today's episode, Josh and Seth unpack Narcissism and its close proximity to our worlds and how it can negatively influence, control, limit and block a healthy reality or paradigm for where we’re at.  

In this episode you'll learn:

• Basic characteristics of narcissism and how it develops

• True healthy masculinity vs. toxic narcissistic masculinity

“The church environment, in my opinion, is a breeding ground for narcissism because of the whole service mentality.” - Josh

“Narcissism finds its safety in controlling” - Josh

“You can’t open your heart up and not be empathetic. Plant Medicine allows for you to be empathetic” - Seth

“They could be a complete asshole and you can still love them but that does not mean you’re supposed to stay in that relationship. Love is not always enough.” - Seth

[Looks like Nadya didn’t do quotes yet for this episode, so I didn’t think to listen for quotes, but I kind of remember some things we talked about, so maybe the above will work.]

Host Name: Josh Cearbaugh

https://joshcearbaugh.com 

https://www.instagram.com/jcearbaugh/ 

https://facebook.com/joshcearbaugh 

https://www.jumpstartyourlife.com 

Host Name: Seth Conner

https://sethconner.com

https://www.instagram.com/sethaconner/

https://www.facebook.com/iSethConner/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sethaconner/

Companies, Products & Places Mentioned

Mushroom Doctor (psilocybin micro-dosing)

The Power of TED (The Empowerment Dynamic) (https://www.amazon.com/POWER-TED-EMPOWERMENT-DYNAMIC-Anniversary/dp/0996871802)

Default Mode Network (https://psychedelicstoday.com/2020/02/04/psychedelics-and-the-default-mode-network/)

Have you ever felt like there was a wet blanket over your mind or your heart, making it difficult to think or feel good? One reason this may be happening is because of Codependency. We experience codependency in many ways; maybe with where we live, our careers, the climate of our lives in general, but in this episode, Josh and Seth discuss Codependency within relationships. Since they can be the most difficult to navigate, overcoming Codependency in relationships could ultimately help us to overcome it in other areas of our lives as well.  

In this episode you'll learn:

• How to identify Codependency in our relationships

“You’re using your need for Connection as a facade to justify violating her boundaries” - Josh

“I spent years in my marriage trying to conform to what she wanted me to be without knowing how to voice my needs in the relationship” - Seth

Links

Host Name: Josh Cearbaugh

https://joshcearbaugh.com 

https://www.instagram.com/jcearbaugh/ 

https://facebook.com/joshcearbaugh 

https://www.jumpstartyourlife.com 

Host Name: Seth Conner

https://sethconner.com

https://www.instagram.com/sethaconner/

https://www.facebook.com/iSethConner/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sethaconner/

Companies, Products & Places Mentioned

Mushroom Doctor (psilocybin micro-dosing)

John Hopkins University (Depression/Smoking Cessation/Etc) (https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/psychiatry/research/psychedelics-research.html)

Resources Mentioned 

The Power of TED (The Empowerment Dynamic) (https://www.amazon.com/POWER-TED-EMPOWERMENT-DYNAMIC-Anniversary/dp/0996871802)

Default Mode Network (https://psychedelicstoday.com/2020/02/04/psychedelics-and-the-default-mode-network/)

In this episode, Josh and Seth lay the foundation for season two of Multifaceted Masculinity with a discussion surrounding the use of Psychedelic Plant Medicine. Their conversation leads from their own personal journeys and gives a new perspective to those who are not familiar with the use of Psychedelics to assist in mental health. As Mindset and Integration Coaches, they champion the necessity of Psychedelic use for their clients. 

In this episode you'll learn:

• Why working with Psychedelics could save your life

“Psychedelics reverse some of the damage of depression, it’s opening up other pathways and literally expanding my mind, my consciousness, and helping me heal myself.” - Josh Cearbaugh

“One of the greatest reasons to ever use plant medicine is to increase your self-love, to fall back in love with ourselves, to have this level of self-love, so that we can begin to choose really good things for us in our life and the people around us see that.” - Seth Conner

Host Name: Josh Cearbaugh

https://joshcearbaugh.com 

https://www.instagram.com/jcearbaugh/ 

https://facebook.com/joshcearbaugh 

https://www.jumpstartyourlife.com 

Host Name: Seth Conner

https://sethconner.com

https://www.instagram.com/sethaconner/

https://www.facebook.com/iSethConner/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sethaconner/

Companies, Products & Places Mentioned

Mushroom Doctor (psilocybin micro-dosing)

John Hopkins University (Depression/Smoking Cessation/Etc) (https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/psychiatry/research/psychedelics-research.html)

People Mentioned

Timothy Leary (Wiki page) (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timothy_Leary)

Resources Mentioned 

Default Mode Network (https://psychedelicstoday.com/2020/02/04/psychedelics-and-the-default-mode-network/)

In this first episode of the new season, Josh introduces his new co-host of Multifaceted Masculinity, Seth Conner. Naturally, they discuss and comically recall the inception and nature of their relationship over the 10 years ago to include

• Failed Marriages

Seth Conner - Psychedelic Integration Coach:  sethconner.com

Josh Cearbaugh- Psychedelic Integration Coach:  joshcearbaugh.com

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A quick description of the episode:

• Failed Marriages

(Give a brief rundown of the guest, and a bit of their backstory.) 

In this episode you'll learn:

• Making assumptions of others can keep you from greatness

Host Name: Josh Cearbaugh

https://joshcearbaugh.com 

https://www.instagram.com/jcearbaugh/ 

https://facebook.com/joshcearbaugh 

https://www.jumpstartyourlife.com 

Host Name: Seth Conner

https://sethconner.com

https://www.instagram.com/sethaconner/

https://www.facebook.com/iSethConner/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sethaconner/

Companies, Products & Places Mentioned

Mushroom Doctor (psilocybin micro-dosing)

Marco Polo App (communication app)

Resources Mentioned 

What is Ayahuasca? https://chacruna.net/is-ayahuasca-a-drug/