My 2Cents

Scattering his house and breaking his car won’t make him take you back . Stop being silly because your relationship did not work 💆🏽‍♀️. If na me we break up and you come my house come scatter things even self break my TV join , you too pay 💰 💁🏽‍♀️ . Go see a therapist if you see yourself in this time of situation, you need to practice anger management.

If you want to cheat , go ahead but stop making excuses for it 🤦🏽‍♀️ there’s no reason at all to cheat . You cheated because you wanted to , not because your partner was unbearable ; Yes I know sometimes it do get to that but , you can ask for a break and not cheat . Or perhaps if you want to cheat , ask that you both go separate ways or break up so you can flenjor in peace ✌🏽. Just do your best and your beat in your relationships but , have it at the back of your mind , that people (both male/female) cheat because they want to . They have nursed it in their head for a while and was waiting for a perfect opportunity to do so .

Ladies let safe ourself stress and disrespect most of the time . Let’s stop enabling these men to disrespect just when they do please . If someone invites you on a date and you’re not comfortable, you could politely say so or suggest that you come with a friend . One friend is okay not 5, not 7 nor 10 please . If I’m to be the guy I will only pay for my meal and go home walai 🤦🏽‍♀️. And never forget to always carry your vex money cause this one right here will majorly safe you that stress and disrespect because , if the guy decides to not to pay as he did not invite you and your friends on a date then, you safe yourself by paying for the bills of you and your friends and next time when someone one asks you out on a date and it does not sit well with you due to the insecurity in the country , you could suggest you come with your fiend or politely say no or reschedule to when you’ll be comfortable .

What’s the essence of agreeing to meet with someone at the expense of your life 😂. You meet a girl , you’re now trying to impress her to either get her laid or get her attention to date her maybe 🤔. When both of you agree to meet , but you check out the restaurant and it’s expensive for your pocket ooo , it’s best you politely tell her that you can’t afford it and probably suggest that you both go to where you can afford than for you to go and come back to wail on social media 🤦🏽‍♀️

Women it’s high time we stop this attitude of badmouthing your ex , telling the world how you were there for him , how you fed him and sorted his bills and the almighty one; how he’s poor in bed . You knew all of this while you guys were dating , why does it become an issue once you both decide to go separate ways due to incompatibility? Ladies we can do better please . When a relationship ends or a marriage did not work out , it’s best to pick up your pieces and move on rather come to the media to rant on the things you did out of a place of love . Such characters give room to unnecessary questions like “did you marry him for love?” Or “you married him for his money and bedmatics?”

Relationship is made up of two persons . So if it goes down the drain , then it’s either you guys were not meant to be or , either of you got tired and wanted the relationship to end or just maybe , you both have tried to make it work out , done all the necessary but , yet it won’t just work out then , you split so you could both have some space to think and figure out what the problem is or was. Take responsibility when your relationship ends . Own it to yourself and work towards changing and being a better person

I mean if you caught your man cheating , why take the fallout on the lady he’s cheating on you with ? Why not take fall out with him ? He’s your man and he’s the one cheating or that cheated ; ladies stop fighting over MAN STOP PLEASE

Coming from the gender that loves affirmative words , claiming to see nothing wrong with Buchi’s love letter to Ariké

Before you can even think of inviting a lady over , let it be in the discussion , let a conversation lead to that, and not when you’re just getting to know her.

Social media does not ruin relationships , rather, it helps in spreading information both the good and the bad .