*UPDATE: I've changed my name! New website: ScarletLovella.com* Many people have a misunderstanding about BDSM and assume it's just whips, chains and heartlessness (or worse, get their information from mainstream media). They might also mistakenly assume all Dominants work exactly the same. Let me guide you through my philosophy and practice of BDSM as a Domme - from the sexy and merciless aspects, to the nurturing and practical aspects.

My BDSM Philosophy

ScarletLovella.com // Join Scarlet Lovella (formerly Zahvia) as she delivers real talk on BDSM, fetish, sexuality and this wild thing we call life. As a Domme, artist, performer and certified sexuality educator, she brings experience and insight to topics that many people consider taboo.

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Health & Fitness

I'm back with some kinky audio erotica to share with you. Today's episode is Kiss My Feet: a POV style (point of view) story I wrote with foot fetishists in mind. If you love sensual domination and feet, you're in for a treat.Listen to more stories and view all my links at:ScarletLovella.com/links

Kiss My Feet: a kinky audio story

What an intense year 2020 has been. Here is some encouragement for my kinky listeners during these stressful times. This is a message from the heart. || ScarletLovella.com

Encouragement for Living

*UPDATE: I've changed my name! New website: ScarletLovella.com* Would you like to become a better submissive? In this episode I talk about four foundational ways you can improve in your submission, including: respect, acts of true service, obedience and gifts. I'll also talk about a few things to avoid. Help yourself stand out from the crowd and really please your Dominant.

How to be an Excellent Submissive

*UPDATE: I've changed my name! New website: ScarletLovella.com* 10 steps on how to explore feminization and discover what you truly enjoy. This episode focuses on genuine exploration (not fetish). I am welcoming and affirming of people who are crossdressers, LGBTQ+ and/or questioning their identity.

My BDSM Philosophy

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