*UPDATE: I've changed my name! New website: ScarletLovella.com* Many people have a misunderstanding about BDSM and assume it's just whips, chains and heartlessness (or worse, get their information from mainstream media). They might also mistakenly assume all Dominants work exactly the same. Let me guide you through my philosophy and practice of BDSM as a Domme - from the sexy and merciless aspects, to the nurturing and practical aspects.