My black self

My black self

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My black self episodes

  • Good grief & old school gays
    In this weeks episode I discuss when it’s time to show up even through your own grief and trauma. Is the term old school gay gonna start to hit different? Are heterosexual men being catfished by spanks?
    29 min
  • Birthday cake
    In this week’s episode @ctgentsonthego and I discuss birthdays. How do you celebrate your birthday? We figure out when we were conceived, who pays the bill at the birthday dinner. We also discuss how long to keep your balloons and cards. Of course we have to touch on celebrating the deceased birthdays.
    56 min
  • The moments
    In this week’s episode I discuss how we over look the moments that change people. We tend to notice their flaws, sexual interest etc. How do we do better and not overlook people’s impactful most meaningful moments?
    21 min
  • The check-in
    In this week’s episode I discuss what it’s like to set boundaries and start to live your life the way you want to. Putting an end to traditions you are done with and creating new. Share your feedback. Watch this episode on my YouTube channel @myblackkself.
    30 min
  • Couch conversations
    In this weeks episode I sit down with the married Curtis and Luis to have a discussion on relationship types. We discuss sexual fetishes, polyamorous and more. Subscribe to my YouTube channel @myblackklself to discuss these topics and share your thoughts with us. Follow Curtis and Luis @ctgentsonthego for an in-site on their lives.
    38 min
  • The Mal-function
    In this week’s episode, Dr. Kreative and I traveled to the DMV to attend an event. We also discuss what should happen during Black History Month and men with receding hairlines.
    23 min
  • The healing era p.1
    In this weeks episode we dive into healing with Jerry. We discuss personal struggles, how we are healing, and we share some tips on things you can do to heal. We also share our love letters personally written by our dearest selves.
    50 min
  • Goodbyes vs. no goodbyes
    In this weeks episode Matt and I discuss how he was able to say goodbye to his grandparents. We discuss how grateful he is to have had the privilege to do so. I share my stories about not being able to say goodbye due to sudden death. I hope you take something from this episode.
    45 min
  • Losing a sibling
    In this weeks episode my cousin Britt and I discuss losing both of our older sisters. Remembering the day and how it affected us then and now. Coping with the loss of a sibling is one of the hardest things to do. Listen as we discuss our tragedies. Remember you are not alone.
    1 hr 7 min
  • The 5 stages of grief
    In this weeks episode I break down the 5 stages of grief and how they show up and how they’ve showed up for me. I also encourage you to grieve the way you want to. This process is about you and only you. The book I’m reading is titled “I wasn’t ready to say goodbye surviving, coping & healing after the sudden death of a loved one”. The website I read from is Betterup.com. I hope you take away something that will help you during this difficult time.
    26 min

About My black self

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This show is about my black self, discovering who I am while staying true to my culture and allowing you to get to know me. Many times I will run off topic, laugh at what I think is funny and go from…