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The veil is lifted on Pattaya's notorious nightlife as we welcome two fascinating guests to share their unfiltered perspectives from opposite sides of the bar industry.

Meet Fem, a 19-year-old ladyboy with just over a year in Pattaya who candidly discusses her initial shock at bar expectations and her growing online cam show business. With remarkable self-awareness, this shy, introverted performer explains how she's navigating this dual career path and saving for independence while dealing with the realities of her chosen profession.

When Ellie joins the conversation, we're treated to a rare perspective from someone who entered bar management directly from the corporate world. Following heartbreak, this articulate businesswoman now manages "Wet Pussy Bar" (yes, really) and shares fascinating insights on staff recruitment, bar operations, and how she specifically targets women from different Thai regions based on their appeal to various customer demographics.

The discussion expands into a revealing analysis of Pattaya's changing landscape. The once-dominant Western tourist has been supplanted by Malaysian, Chinese, and Indian visitors, forcing businesses to adapt their entire approach. The formerly common "mixed bars" featuring both women and ladyboys now barely exist, with establishments increasingly specializing to survive in this evolving market.

From high-end "throne-seated" cigar lounges charging 50,000 baht per smoke to secret bars requiring special entry codes, we explore how Pattaya's entertainment scene continues to transform while maintaining its infamous reputation. Whether you're curious about Thailand's nightlife or fascinated by the economics and sociology behind this unique industry, this episode offers genuine perspectives from those living it daily.

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Ever wondered what happens when a nightclub's policies clash with their profit motives? In this laughter-filled exploration of Pattaya's club scene, we reveal how venues like Juju are bending their own rules about ladyboy entry when paying customers are involved. 

The recently repaired "Soi Pothole" (finally!) provides easier access to Juju, where despite its convenient location near Soi Buakhao, we encountered repetitive music, predictable dance routines, and even a tense standoff over a partially spilled drink. We share the story of how management nearly lost thousands in future business over a 200 baht tequila shot - a perfect example of short-sighted customer service.

Things get hilariously awkward when we discuss the bathroom attendants who offer unrequested massages while patrons are using the facilities. Women's restrooms feature the entrepreneurial "Madame Pippi" selling everything from cosmetics to candy, creating a unique Thai nightlife experience that often surprises first-time visitors.

We also uncover fascinating cultural dynamics, including how bar workers informally rank nationalities based on perceived desirability as customers, and the surprising statistics about which countries are currently sending the most tourists to Thailand (hint: it's not who you think!). And don't miss our discussion about the frustrating clothing shopping experience for larger Westerners in a country that somehow manages to stock size 46 high heels for ladyboys but can't seem to stock XXL shirts.

Whether you're planning a trip to Pattaya or just enjoy anthropological deep dives into nightlife culture, this episode offers authentic insights beyond the typical tourist experience. If you're visiting Pattaya, reach out to us - we'd love to meet up and show you around!

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Forget everything you thought you knew about Pattaya. While this coastal Thai city has earned its reputation for wild nightlife, there's a whole different world waiting to be explored when bar burnout inevitably hits.

In this refreshing episode, Mike and Scott welcome Pim back to the podcast as they dive into the countless activities available beyond the typical drinking and partying scene. The conversation flows naturally from high-octane adventures like go-karting and off-road motorbike tours through rice fields and rubber plantations, to more relaxed experiences such as fishing trips where chefs prepare your fresh catch right on the boat.

The trio shares personal experiences that paint a vivid picture of Pattaya's diverse offerings. Scott details his sailing certification course and plans to explore Thailand's world-class golf courses, while Pim surprises everyone with stories of her past as a ladyboy boxing champion. Each anecdote reveals something new about this multifaceted destination that many tourists never discover.

What makes this episode particularly valuable is its practical advice. From approximate pricing (4,000 baht for three hours of off-road biking, 1,500 baht for a night of Muay Thai matches) to specific recommendations like the Naklua fish market where you can buy seafood and have it barbecued on the spot, listeners gain actionable insights for their own adventures.

Whether you're a first-time visitor planning your trip or an expat looking to break out of your routine, this episode serves as a reminder that Thailand offers incredible diversity beyond the bar scene. As Mike aptly puts it, taking occasional breaks from partying allows you to "enjoy the bars better" when you return. Ready to discover the other side of Pattaya? This episode is your perfect starting point.

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Ever wondered what it would be like to ride a motorcycle from Germany to Thailand? Our guest Tino did exactly that, embarking on an extraordinary seven-month journey across ten countries before discovering the charms of Southeast Asia that would keep drawing him back.

Tino shares the fascinating details of his global adventures, from traveling with a 25-year-old mountain bicycle through Malaysia and Borneo to swimming with sea turtles in remote Philippine islands. His comparison between Thailand and the Philippines offers invaluable insights for anyone considering travel to either destination. While the Philippines boasts stunning beaches and friendly locals, Tino explains why Thailand often wins out with its superior food quality, better value accommodations, and remarkable safety record.

We explore the hidden gems of both countries, with Tino recommending Cebu over Manila and explaining why Pattaya—despite its reputation—offers so much more than meets the eye. He describes finding affordable accommodations away from tourist centers, enjoying local cuisine at a fraction of Western restaurant prices, and experiencing the warm welcome of Thai communities in countryside villages.

What emerges is a thoughtful reflection on what makes a place feel like home. For many expats, including Tino, Thailand offers that perfect blend of affordability, safety, convenience, and community that's hard to find elsewhere. His stories reveal how the expat culture in Pattaya creates natural connections between travelers who might otherwise never meet.

Thinking about your next adventure? Whether you're planning a Southeast Asian getaway or dreaming of more ambitious journeys, Tino's experiences offer both practical advice and philosophical insights about slow travel, authentic connections, and finding your place in the world. His next dream? Motorcycling through South America—proving the traveler's spirit never truly rests.

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The veil lifts as Pim finally makes her on-camera debut, bringing vibrant energy to a conversation that takes listeners deep into the contrasting worlds of Bangkok and Pattaya. What begins as a lighthearted discussion about Pim introducing her boyfriend to her family quickly evolves into a revealing exploration of Thailand's tourist landscape.

Mike doesn't hold back as he describes his jarring Bangkok experience – from the 350 baht fried rice that should cost just 60 baht, to the aggressive mamasan behavior in Nana Plaza, to the unsettling frequency of drug offers from strangers on the street. His palpable disappointment provides a powerful contrast to the comfortable familiarity of Pattaya, which despite its notorious reputation, feels "like a village where everyone knows everyone." This isn't just travel talk; it's a window into how drastically different two tourist hubs can feel when experienced through local knowledge.

The conversation shifts into more vulnerable territory when Pim opens up about her romantic relationship, describing it as "50-50" serious compared to her previous "almost 100%" commitment. Her candid insights about trust issues and the complications of dating while working in bars reveal the complex emotional landscape navigated by those in Thailand's entertainment industry. Mike contributes thoughtful observations about what makes relationships succeed in Pattaya's unique environment, noting that "you cannot buy love" – a simple yet profound truth that many travelers learn the hard way. Their honest dialogue about temptation, age gaps, and financial expectations cuts through stereotypes to expose the human realities behind tourist-local relationships.

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Step behind the velvet curtain of Thailand's nightlife with June, a captivating PR manager at KRU ladyboy agogo who takes us on a journey through her 17-year career spanning Bangkok's infamous Nana Plaza to Pattaya's evolving entertainment scene.

June's candid insights reveal how Pattaya's entertainment geography is shifting dramatically - Walking Street now caters predominantly to Indian and Chinese tourists while western visitors flock to Soi Bukhao, creating a new cultural hotspot where ladyboy venues thrive in an intimate community atmosphere. Her perspective as both former performer and current manager offers a rare glimpse into the business mechanics of Thailand's bar scene, from drink quotas and bar fines to the pressure workers face maintaining their energy night after night.

The conversation delves deep into societal perceptions around ladyboys and the men who date them. Despite June's optimistic view that acceptance has grown, we explore the persistent stigma that leads some men to hide their relationships with ladyboys even while frequenting venues together. These moments of cultural analysis are balanced with practical insights about operating a successful ladyboy bar during low season and the delicate psychology of creating a comfortable customer experience.

What makes this discussion truly special is June's unfiltered honesty about both her personal journey and the industry at large. She challenges assumptions about ladyboy relationships, shares firsthand accounts of discrimination, and offers thoughtful observations about how economic pressures are reshaping tourism throughout Thailand.

Whether you're planning a visit to Thailand's nightlife districts or simply curious about the human stories behind the neon signs, June's perspective will forever change how you view this fascinatingly complex world. Listen in, then come visit her at KRU in Soi Bukhao - where the hosts themselves are regular visitors!

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Relationships in Pattaya are complicated, messy, and often misunderstood by both foreigners and Thai workers alike. Today's raw conversation pulls back the curtain on why finding genuine connection in Thailand's bar scene can be so challenging.

When Scott's budding relationship with a bar worker began falling apart over money issues, it opened up a deeper conversation about the fundamental misunderstandings between foreign men and Thai bar workers. Pim bravely shares her personal experiences working in bars, describing how repeated betrayals and disappointments gradually eroded her ability to trust customers who claim they want real relationships. "I don't trust what they say, but I trust from how they act," she explains, revealing the defense mechanism many workers develop after being treated as commodities rather than people.

The podcast explores the uncomfortable reality of bar buyouts, daily payments, and the unspoken expectations that come with financial support. We examine why many workers prefer short-time arrangements over potentially exploitative "relationships" where they're expected to be constantly sexually available in exchange for financial support. Most revealing is the discussion about why finding commitment in Pattaya is so difficult - not because genuine people don't exist, but because the environment itself breeds suspicion and transactional thinking on both sides.

Whether you're a traveler hoping to understand Thai dating culture better or simply curious about the psychological impact of sex work on personal relationships, this episode offers honest insights you won't find in travel guides. Subscribe now and join our growing community of listeners seeking authentic perspectives on life in Thailand.

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From warm welcomes to cold shoulders, our night exploring Pattaya's club scene revealed a troubling pattern of discrimination that contradicts Thailand's reputation for acceptance.

What started as a fun evening with friends at vibrant spots like Boho and Sun's Club quickly soured when our mixed group tried to enter Tunnel Club. Despite having visited before without issue, this time security blocked our ladyboy friends with a hostile "no ladyboys" policy. The rejection wasn't delivered with respect - it was confrontational and degrading.

When we moved to Myst Club hoping for better treatment, we encountered identical discrimination. It was only at Flex Club that our entire group was finally welcomed without prejudice. The stark contrast between venues highlighted how arbitrary these policies truly are, especially puzzling during low season when establishments should welcome paying customers.

Beyond the personal frustration, this experience raises important questions about Thailand's nightlife culture. The country's predominant Buddhist tradition recognizes three genders, and Thai society generally embraces gender diversity - why then do some venues enforce discriminatory policies? Is it misguided business strategy or deeper prejudice?

The night wasn't all negative. We witnessed the warmth and energy ladyboys bring to venues that welcome them - from impressive dance moves to generous bottle service purchases. The clubs practicing inclusion seemed livelier and more profitable than those turning people away at the door.

If you're planning a night out in Pattaya, consider supporting establishments with consistent, inclusive policies. Places like Boho, Sun's Club, and Flex demonstrate that successful nightlife doesn't require discrimination. By choosing where to spend our money, we can encourage more venues to create truly welcoming environments for everyone.

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Step into the neon-lit world of Pattaya with our guest Scott, a seasoned visitor who's developed what locals call "the Pattaya addiction." From his first visit in 2019 to his current seven-week stay, Scott pulls back the curtain on Thailand's most notorious playground with refreshing candor and surprising insights.

Scott shares a harrowing tale from Phuket's Patong Beach where a simple night out spiraled into bill padding, physical confrontation, and police intervention – contrasting sharply with Pattaya's surprisingly peaceful reputation despite its rowdier image. We explore the social stigma of visiting Pattaya and the linguistic gymnastics travelers perform when telling friends back home about their Thai adventures, often substituting "Banglamung" for the more recognizable destination.

The conversation takes a fascinating turn as Scott discusses his preference for ladyboys, estimating they comprise about 80% of his romantic encounters in Thailand. Our trio dives into the telltale signs for identifying ladyboys – from shoulder width to head size – offering practical advice for curious travelers while maintaining respect for the community. We also touch on the darker aspects of Pattaya's nightlife, including drug use among bar workers and the economic pressures that drive these behaviors.

For those considering an extended stay, Scott compares the economics of hotel living (around 3,000-1500 baht nightly) versus monthly condominium rentals (approximately 7,000 baht monthly), providing valuable insights for budget-conscious travelers. As Scott contemplates a potential move to Bangkok – a city he's only experienced through its airport – we witness the evolution of a traveler whose relationship with Thailand continues to deepen beyond tourist clichés.

Whether you're planning your first Pattaya adventure or you're a returning visitor, this raw, unfiltered conversation offers both practical advice and thoughtful reflection on one of Thailand's most misunderstood destinations. Subscribe to catch more authentic Thai experiences and support our new Patreon to help improve the show!

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Behind the neon lights and vibrant nightlife of Pattaya lies a story rarely told – one of connection, loss, and the silent mental health crisis affecting Thailand's ladyboy community. This deeply moving conversation features John, a British expat who has been visiting Thailand for 24 years before finally making it his home.

John takes us through his journey from casual tourist to someone deeply embedded in Thailand's complex social landscape. With remarkable candor, he shares how his relationships evolved from his seven-year marriage to a Thai woman to his meaningful connections with ladyboys that challenged his own preconceptions. His story provides a nuanced look at cross-cultural relationships that transcend traditional Western gender boundaries.

The heart of this episode centers on John's relationship with Minnie, a ladyboy he met at a bar called The House. Their genuine connection, which lasted about two years, ended amicably, but they remained in contact. When John received the devastating news of Minnie's suicide, it opened his eyes to a tragic reality affecting the community. We explore shocking statistics revealing that up to 27% of ladyboys in Pattaya have attempted suicide, with only 10% receiving any mental health support.

Together with our co-host Pim, who provides valuable insider perspective as a ladyboy herself, we examine the complex factors behind these statistics – from relationship difficulties and HIV stigma to substance abuse and the challenges of aging in a youth-focused industry. Most importantly, we discuss how breaking the silence around mental health struggles could save lives.

The conversation concludes with a powerful message borrowed from MMA fighter Paddy Pimblett: "I'd rather my mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." If you're struggling or know someone who might be, this episode offers both understanding and hope. Reach out, speak up, and remember that connection is often the strongest lifeline we have.

                                                    R.I.P Minnie

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