Nacho Baby Mama

Trauma bond, a term everyone should know and everyone should be aware of. If you've ever been in an abusive relationship, physical or emotional, and every time you try to turn and run , you just can't seem to break free from the invisible chain holding you there, you are most likely caught in a trauma bond. 

What is trauma bonding? Why is it harmful and what are the warning signs? And most importantly, how to break free? All of that and more on this week's episode. 

And 4 months into this journey, I'm back to provide an update! This episode is for everyone who listened to the first episode (ICYMI, please go listen to episode #16 "Only Fans Enters the Chat" first and then come back for Part 2). This has a lot of good-to-know content for those thinking about getting in the game or those just getting started as a creator themselves. But is also equally as much for those with curious minds. I had to throw in a few personal experiences and stories, as I always do. I also did my best to answer the questions you most often ask me about this unorthodox side hustle, and to provide some insight into the fascinating world of adult content creation. 

Did you hear she started an Only Fans? Is that even hard? Why doesn't she just get a real job? Does she actually make any money?...

Let's cut the assumptions and dive right into my personal experience as a very new adult content creator on the Only Fans platform and what it takes to be successful. SPOILER ALERT: it's not as easy as you think...

Check out my page (open to both men and women) and yes, especially if we know each other. Familiar faces are always welcome! https://www.krististoybox.com/

Are you a hater? Sounds like a simple enough question, but the answer won't be. A horrible DM a few weeks ago had me reeling and begged the question, where does hate come from, and why? How? From its early origins in the 900's, to the Urban Dictionary definition we know today, this episode talks all things hate-related. Find out if you are actually a hater, or just a heavy disliker. 

Having an addictive personality doesn't make you an addict. But it CAN make you more likely to develop an addiction. We'll discuss the traits and warning signs, take an addictive personality quiz, and dig into my own personal vices a bit. Addiction isn't for quitters, so let's go.

Resources: 
Quiz: https://fherehab.com/learning/addictive-personality-quiz/

HELP: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-treatment

Your favorite mother is back baby, just in time to ring in the New Year, with advice ranging from keeping you f*uckable, but not f*uckwithable, keeping you independent rather than co-dependent, and making sure those weaves stay nice and tight. 

Let's talk daddy privilege, dating younger men, being the "other" woman, and the one thing love doesn't do. Stories, as told and lived through, by my favorite blonde accessory, my weave. Hang on to your ponytails bishes.  

Bust out your notebook and favorite pen, I have homework for you. Stop groaning... it's good homework. We are going to Venn Diagram pieces of your life to help you find your life purpose based on the existing traits you already possess. It sounds so easy in theory, but the reality is, many of us don't have a f*cking clue on who/what this even is. 

Discovering the intersection between passion, skill, and money is truly life changing. You can (and should) spare 30 minutes of your life for this. It's worth it, I promise.

Good ol' Murph and his stupid law... damned if you do, damned if you don't. Are you truly living for you, or are you living for the perception of you? Do you care so much with what others think that it drives your behavior or are you staying true to who you are? Is Kim K ugly? Is Kanye weird? Why do I post pictures of myself on my own Instagram so often? How dare I... Are social media breaks good? Who is clapping for me?! Let's discuss all of this and more on today's episode. 

And a word to the wise, if you can't win no matter what you do, you may as well be living for you.

I Do... not? Is traditional marriage dead? Why is the government involved? How has society shaped how we think and view love and commitment? How has religion changed how we view what is moral and acceptable? Does monogamy even exist anymore? I'm asking all the questions and debating them openly. And truth be told, I'm in the gray area. I'm not really sure how I feel about some things, I just know it definitely isn't black and white.  Your favorite baby mama is back this week to stir the pot and ask the questions that nobody else wants to talk about. The floor is now open for debate. 

Follow along on IG: @kristi_eide xoxo

You’ve heard of Big Dick Energy (BDE). Or wait, is it Big Vagina Energy (BVE)? Personally I like the latter, but tomato, tomaaaaato. It wasn't until I hit my 30's that I realized I had been living a lie... that's all I'm going to say. If you’re looking to find your BDE/BVE, look no further.  Listen up and make it your mission to overcome the hurdles in life holding you back from being confident, loud, and proud as a mutha.

Link to article I mention in this podcast here: https://prsuit.com/impostor-syndrome-holding-back/

Download, follow, review if this podcast speaks to you. And as always, I love when you tag me & share your comments and stories related to the topics. Xoxo Nacho Fam. - K