Naked And Noisy: Manifestation Tools For The Professional Woman

When you know that your desire is your destiny, and you can't fuck any of this up... you understand that you have the power to say "no." When it doesn't work for you. When you don't like someone's approach or demeanor. When someone is violating your boundaries. When you simply don't want to do something. You have the power to say "no".

But when you think that opportunities for money, career advancement, or romance are rare... you allow things that cross your boundaries to continue. You have a willingness to act against your best interest.

In today's episode, we're cutting through that bullshit. Because it's not true. You have the freedom to say no. And I want more women to exercise that, no matter what they appear to be "losing". It's your life. You cannot, under any circumstances, fuck it up. Don't let them convince you that you can. Enjoy.

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In today's episode, we are talking about relationships! Specifically, we're having a discussion about navigating anxious attachment tendencies while you're on the hunt for your future husband.

And there is no one better to have this conversation with than today's guest.

She is a Relational Life Therapy Certified Relationship Coach, host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, and author of the Amazon Best-Selling book Bad Marriage Advice. Her mission is simple but powerful: to lower the divorce rate, improve marital satisfaction, and help people build the love stories they actually want. Through her podcast, coaching practice, and vibrant online community, she has helped thousands of couples ditch resentment and roommate syndrome— and get back to their happily ever after.

But today, she is here for the single ladies! If you have ever felt like anxiety runs the show in your relationships, or you keep attracting the wrong people no matter what you do— this conversation is for you. I thoroughly enjoyed recording, and got so many aha moments while we talked. I'm sure you'll experience the same. Enjoy!

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To close out season 4, I'm sharing several insights on how I'm currently dealing with romance from my most healed, grown woman self. Inside, there's a comparrison of how I showed up before versus how I'm showing up now. We're talking about holding boundaries and standards without losing the magick and hope and optimism. I loved this episode. Hope you do, too. Enjoy!

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As you grow, and become more and more of your desired, dream self... you are going to experience some jealousy. In today's episode, we're talking about navigating the jealousy and gossip of it all without playing small sabotaging your progress, or running away all together.

We're talking about overcoming jealousy, how I continue to shine anyway, and how I continue to move forward, even though my success and my leveling up and my happiness triggers some stuff in certain people. Enjoy!

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How you think impacts how you feel. How you feel determines how you vibrate. And your dominant vibration is your point of attraction: it magnetizes thoughts, people, experiences, and things into your world. In today's episode I'm sharing some stories about how I've been identifying and releasing some old patterns of thoughts that have been creating insecurity in my romantic life. And of course, I'm sharing what I've been feeling and thinking instead, too. I enjoyed this episode, and I hope you do, too!

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I want your desire to manifest in your life as a consequence of who you've chosen to become: magnetic, supported, loved, and unconditionally worthy. I don't want your desire to be the thing you're striving to create in an effort to run away from your fear, worries, and self-doubt.

I've said it a million times before: it doesn't matter where you go. You're going to take your mindset with you. You're going to take your energy with you. You're going to take the momentum that you have built up, and the stories you have been repeating in your subconscious mind, with you. You're going to take your habits with you.

In today's episode, I'm proposing something a little bit preposterous to you: the idea and concept that it's all right here. Everything you need to create your emotionally fulfilling life is in your current environment. That doesn't mean you won't move. That doesn't mean you cant get a new job or better client or new life in a new city. It just means you won't ever be able to run away from your current life in an effort to manifest your dream one.

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What if I told you that rejecting men more swiftly would lead to your dream relationship manifesting more quickly? In today's episode we're talking about the energetic power of rejecting men the moment you see that they're not exactly what you're looking for.

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Have you ever met a guy who genuinely felt good to you, but your first emotional response wasn't excitement… it was fear? Fear that your own judgment couldn't be trusted? That you'd fall, open up, let him in… and he'd just turn out to be another lesson? I've been there. Very recently.

After spending an extended period of time kind-of-sort-of unknowingly, connecting with a philanderer, re-entering the dating pool has really triggered my fears of choosing the wrong guy.

Recently, I met someone. At the gym. And he was… different in a way that really triggered me because I felt drawn to him, but what if I was wrong, again?

In today's episode, I'm going to share a bit of that journey with you. I'm going to tell you about a few unexpected encounters with men that genuinely helped me overcome my fear of choosing the wrong guy. And by the end of this episode, my intention is that you walk away with one unshakeable truth:

You already know. You've always known. Who is trustworthy. Who is worth your time. Who is a good guy. And who is a crazy motherfucker that you should stay away from.

This episode is about self-trust. It's about learning to come back to your own intuition after betrayal.

Let's get into it.

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If your self talk sounds like, "Where the hell is my husband?! And what the f*ck is taking him so long to find me?!" Or you've got a little bit of fear when you're dating someone new, and you can't help but think, "What if this guy rejects me?!" then today's episode is for you.

This is something that's been coming up for me, and my clients lately: the intense feelings of despair, fear, and pessimism around romance. And it's not something that's going to be soothed by a man choosing you. Like Beyonce said, "it's the soul that needs to surgery."

Tap in and let's talk about what to do when your emotions feel super intense, and things just feel risky and "high stakes" around your romantic life. Lately, I've been tapping into the energy of casual, lighthearted relationships. I'm building connection that doesn't feel like digging my claws into a man and trying to force him to be the one. Instead, I'm building connection that feels like enjoying the present moment, while also being secure in my romantic destiny.

Today's episode will help you shift things and lighten the pressure in all of your relationships whether they are romantic, platonic, or even business based! Enjoy!

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Warning: I did scream a few times this episode, I'm sorry I couldn't hold it in HAHAHA!

Real talk: they might not be coming with you. And it's not because they can't. It's because they don't want to. The truth about manifesting a new life is... you've got to be willing to release everything keeping you in unwanted bullsh*t. That means fears, doubts, mindsets, and even people become incompatible with where you're going. And at some point, you'll have to choose. Will you stay where you are, for the sake of being connected to them? Or will you elevate anyway?

At some point in your journey, you're going to be tempted to feel guilty. Because when you reach that next level... when you reach that income... when you get that engagement... or you move into that new apartment... the people who chose to stay stagnant won't be happy. and, more. importantly, they won't be main characters in the next chapter of your story. Because when you stop suffering, you two don't have anything to talk about. When you stop struggling, you won't relate to them, anymore. When you heal from your traumas, you won't see money, or religion, or life like they do, anymore.

If you know me, then you already know what I do. I believe in leaving people where they are. Anyone on the outside of my life looking in, is in that position as a natural consequence of choices they made. Everyone can't come with me because everyone didn't choose to grow with me. And that's on them. I enjoyed recording today's episode. Press play, and let's get into it.

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