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Summary

In this episode of Parent Coaches Unleashed, hosts Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld dive into the challenges of parenting emerging adults, particularly focusing on how to help them navigate significant life moments without taking over. They share personal anecdotes, including a relatable story about dealing with new insurance cards, which triggers a discussion on the balance between guiding children and allowing them to learn through experience. The conversation emphasizes the importance of equipping kids with knowledge and confidence to handle adult responsibilities, while also recognizing the emotional weight these situations can carry for both parents and children. Ultimately, they explore the question of whether it is a parent's responsibility to make big things feel smaller for their kids, advocating for a supportive yet hands-off approach that fosters independence.

Takeaways

• It's important to equip kids with knowledge before they face new challenges.
• Allowing children to experience failure can build their confidence.
• Parents should assess whether a situation is urgent before intervening.
• Teaching kids to ask questions can empower them in unfamiliar situations.
• Using resources like AI can help kids prepare for adult responsibilities.

Questions to help your kids through new situations:

At the mechanic:

1. Can you explain in simple terms what's wrong?

2. Is this something that needs to be fixed now or can it wait until next time?

3. How much will this cost?

4. How long will this take?

5. Is labor included?

At the doctor:

1. What do you think is going on?

2. What tests will I need and do the labs take my insurance?

3. Will I need a follow up visit?

4. Are there side effects from this medication? How long before I know if it's working?

5. Can you explain that in a different way?

Insurance

1. What does my plan cover?

2. What is my deductible?

3. Do I have out of network coverage or reimbursement? 

4. Do I need referrals for specialists?

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