I was sexually abused starting at 3yo and have struggled with obsessive thoughts my whole life. I lost my husband on our first wedding anniversary, and I lost my vision the same year; how do I overcome the grief? How do I distance myself from my unemployed 36yo son who is living with me? He was a professional skateboarder and lost it all. Shame has compromised my relationships, and I end up going back to isolating. Why can’t I finish projects, get out of my house, and speak to people?