I’ve been an addict since I was 13yo and am about to turn 61yo; how do I get help? I got my close alcoholic friend a couple of jobs, but he lost them because of drinking. After my tough love to not call until he gets treatment, what should my next step be? How do I talk to my daughter after her boyfriend beat my 14yo grandson with a belt, and my grandson is now in my custody? I molested my adopted child and turned myself in. During separation I started dating, and now my wife wants me back; do I leave my girlfriend and go back to my wife? I called you after I had hit bottom, and your godly advice has helped me so much!