I Got Issues - Week 3 - The Comparison Issue
John 21:18-22 Most assuredly, I say to you, when you were younger, you girded yourself and walked where you wished; but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and another will gird you and carry you where you do not wish.” 19 This He spoke, signifying by what death he would glorify God. And when He had spoken this, He said to him, “Follow Me.” 20 Then Peter, turning around, saw the disciple whom Jesus loved following, who also had leaned on His breast at the supper, and said, “Lord, who is the one who betrays You?” 21 Peter, seeing him, said to Jesus, “But Lord, what about this man?” 22 Jesus said to him, “If I will that he remain till I come, what is that to you? You follow Me.”
Jesus had zero sympathy for comparison.
Don’t worry about him, don’t worry about her… You follow Me!
THE CURSE OF COMPARISON
Comparison either produces inferiority or superiority.
And comparison uncontrolled will kill your contentment.
Don't compare your behind the scenes with somebody else's highlight reel.
Comparison produces anger towards God & Others
When we compare, God is not fair!
Comparison Opens The Door To Satan
James 3:14-16 But if you have bitter envy and self-seeking in your hearts, do not boast and lie against the truth. 15 This wisdom does not descend from above, but is earthly, sensual, demonic. 16 For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there.
Isaiah 14:12-15 “How you are fallen from heaven, O Lucifer, son of the morning! How you are cut down to the ground, you who weakened the nations! 13 For you have said in your heart: ‘I will ascend into heaven, I will exalt my throne above the stars of God; I will also sit on the mount of the congregation on the farthest sides of the north; 14 I will ascend above the heights of the clouds, I will be like the Most High.’ 15 Yet you shall be brought down to Sheol, to the lowest depths of the Pit.
When you allow envy into your heart, evil will enter your world.
THE CAUSE OF COMPARISON
Covetousness - Strong desire to have that which belongs to another.
Covetousness is rooted in ingratitude.
Colossians 3:5 Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.
THE CURE FOR COMPARISON
Romans 1:21-25 because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Professing to be wise, they became fools, 23 and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man—and birds and four-footed animals and creeping things. 24 Therefore, God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, 25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.
Ok, let me simplify this for you… what did they do? They took their eyes off of God and put them on other things, other people, God’s creation.
#1 Glorify God
_ You get tunnel vision.
_ You see the object of focus with greater detail.
#2 Be Thankful
Gratitude - Grace Attitude
#3 Renew Your Mind
Colossians 3:2 Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.
The only way you can renew your mind is to get in the Bible.
Psalm 1:1-2 “Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the path of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful; 2 but his delight is in the law of the Lord, and in His law he meditates day and night.
Meditate = think deeply about something.
2 Peter 1:14 since I know that the putting off of my body will be soon, as our Lord Jesus Christ made clear to me.