Ladies if you are the smartest person in the room. Then you are in the wrong room and have done nothing but stunted your growth in life. Life is about spreading your love and talents amongst each other. But my question to you is, are you the smartest woman standing in the room of your inner court? Do you have the grandest influence, and largest intellectual territory? No it's not okay for that to be your truth. You should always be surrounded by people who have arrived and gone where you are headed in life.
One thing we do is hold on to friendships that don’t benefit us , reek of bad character, and drain us mentally, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically, or sorry to say financially out of obligation for how long we have been friends.
While we should cherish our childhood friends we should also dismiss any weak friend that does more taking than giving. If your friendships do not have substance or reciprocation what is there to it? Nothing!!!
Okay now I’m going to give you something you need, truth. It may hurt, It may not feel at all good. However what these life vitamins will do is give you a volume of reality. If the above is the case. Oh my you don’t need to get rid of your friends you have, in most cases at least, you do however need to grasp opportunities to connect to women who think, act, achieve and move like you do. It's okay to pick up the pieces and move away from people or things that hold you back from your greatness. It's okay and most definitely not a big deal if you aren’t the biggest geek on premise.
Look around your inner circle what is reflected when you see inner workings of the women who surround you? Are you entangled in a web of friendships with no substance? Are you friends benefitting from you and you, them? If so, you're in a good company, and headed towards excelling.
As I always say write it down, Make it a journal prompt and don’t forget wise women don’t mix with fools who want nothing but to slumber, They are only attracted to meaningful connections that build them up and take them places. Never,should anyone look to just get from someone.Nope that plain usery. However, we should give as immensely as they do so in return. Life is about being uplifted not down traughten. Remember to check the blind spots for fakeness and users, Check it for friends who seek to gain not grow. You are worthy of great friendships. No doubt you are worthy of having winners in your circle.
