In this lively and eye-opening episode of The First Day from The Fund Raising School, host Bill Stanczykiewicz, Ed.D., is joined by Rachel Gerrol, founder and CEO of NEXUS Global, and her COO Liza Heavener, to pull back the curtain on the philanthropic habits of Gen Z and millennials. NEXUS Global isn’t just another networking group, it’s a global movement with 6,000 members across 70 countries representing $650 billion in family wealth. What started in a modest UN conference room has become a peer-led, agenda-free space where the next generation of high-impact givers connect, collaborate, and catalyze change. As Rachel puts it, they didn’t plan a movement, but “accidentally birthed” one.

Bill dives into the critical takeaway: fundraisers can't afford to keep thinking of millennials as college kids in shared apartments. They're homeowners, parents, and yes, major donors. But here’s the kicker, these next gen donors don’t wait for titles or trust funds to make a difference. Their influence in family philanthropy is real and potent. One heartfelt suggestion from a grandkid can steer six-figure giving. Rachel and Liza emphasize that ignoring these influencers just because their name isn’t on the board is like leaving money, and meaningful connection, on the table.

But don’t come at them with your checkbook hand outstretched. Liza and Rachel stress that authenticity and values-alignment are the name of the game. These donors crave genuine relationships, not transactional asks. They want to do philanthropy, rolling up their sleeves at volunteer events, engaging in learning journeys, and sitting at intimate salon dinners, not black-tie galas. And please, ditch the glossy mailers, they’ll hold up that $10 invitation and wonder why you're wasting donor dollars. The advice is golden: ask for advice, and you might get a gift. Ask for a gift right away? You might never hear from them again.

The episode wraps with a call to action: nonprofits must evolve not just in how they ask, but in how they operate. Today’s donors look at everything through a values lens, from where you host your gala to how you bottle your water. And forget traditional silos, Gen Z and millennials blur the lines between philanthropy, investing, and entrepreneurship. They’re collaborative, global, and impatient. They want results, impact, and purpose, not pomp and circumstance. So fundraisers, ready or not, the future is here... and it’s bringing a values-based, story-driven, influence-wielding donor with it.