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In this inspiring episode, David Fenwick sits down with Eddie Tate, a 54-year-old husband, father of five, writer, pastor, business leader, and founder of Forged Men. Together, they explore what it means to live intentionally and invest in your future self—especially in the “next third” of life.

Eddie shares how a 12-year-old dream of writing was buried for nearly 40 years before reawakening in midlife, sparking a flood of creative work: fantasy novels, devotionals, courses, and curriculums. He discusses the deep purpose that comes when you stop coasting and choose to cultivate your spiritual, emotional, and physical pillars with intention.

They talk about the power of pruning, both self-imposed and through life’s hardships, and how failure isn’t final—it’s formative. Eddie shares vulnerably about being diagnosed with pre-diabetes and reclaiming his health, as well as building multi-generational legacy at home and in ministry.

The conversation ends with a bold call to men: stop shrinking back, and start sharpening one another. There’s more inside you waiting to be revealed—and it’s never too late to become who you were always meant to be.

connect with Eddie: https://www.instagram.com/eddie_tait/

00:00 – Investing in Your Future Self with Eddie Tate  
02:03 – Living With Intentionality in the Second Half of Life  
04:06 – Awakening a Childhood Dream at Age 50  
07:04 – Seeds, Roots, and the Purpose of Timing  
09:45 – Redefining Success in Midlife  
13:10 – Living Full: Family, Ministry, and Mission  
17:20 – Rejecting Excuses: Health, Diabetes, and Discipline  
22:08 – Physical Transformation as a Catalyst for Growth  
29:10 – The Power of Pruning to Reveal True Identity  
36:03 – Iron Sharpens Iron: Why Men Need Each Other  

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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This episode I sit down with my friend Eddie Tait to unpack what real manhood looks like today. Not the pop-culture version of masculinity or the tired clichés—this is about identity, legacy, and what it truly means to be present as a man, a father, and a friend. Eddie’s raw honesty and the powerful life experiences he shared made this conversation one of the most moving I’ve had.

We talked about everything from suppressed anger, emotional connection, and the epidemic of absentee fathers to how men can reclaim their voice and influence. Eddie shared how a single vision from God set him on a lifelong mission to call men into brotherhood and identity. His personal story—and the breakthroughs he's witnessed—will stir something in you. This is the kind of talk that pulls you forward, whether you're 25 or 65.

If you’re feeling stuck, unseen, or unsure how to reconnect with your purpose—or your family—this episode is for you. It's never too late to step into who you’re made to be. Stick around to the end—Eddie drops truth that every man needs to hear. And if you’ve ever questioned your impact or identity, you’re not alone. Let’s make the next third your best third.

Connect with Eddie: https://www.instagram.com/eddie_tait/

⏱️ Timestamps:
00:00 - Welcome to Season 2: The Fight for Manhood
01:13 - From Youth Pastor to Men’s Leader: Eddie’s Calling
02:30 - Why Men Crave Connection (But Rarely Ask)
04:06 - Identity Over Issues: Rethinking Men’s Ministry
06:04 - Speaking Life into Men: The Power of Affirmation
10:08 - Redefining Leadership: Not Loud, But Purposeful
14:03 - Reinventing Yourself in Your 50s
19:04 - Emotional Suppression & the Cost of Avoidance
28:31 - Fatherhood, Failure, and the Power of Vulnerability
36:59 - Brotherhood and Accountability: Why Men Need Each Other

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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This past year has been nothing short of incredible. I started Next Third Best Third with nothing but a vision, and here we are—one year, 52 episodes, 200,000 views, and 3,000+ hours of listening later. It's been completely organic growth, and I’m so thankful to every single person who has listened, shared, and supported this journey. It’s clear: people are hungry for real transformation. We’ve been talking about five pillars—your thought life, physical health, emotional wellness, intentional relationships, and healing from the lies you’ve believed—and how they shape not just who you are now, but who you’re becoming.

What’s made this so personal for me is that I’ve actually lived these conversations. My thought life has changed—learning to speak life over myself has brought a new peace. Emotionally, acting classes gave me a safe space to process feelings I’d buried for years. Physically, I’ve hit some setbacks, but I’m aware and making adjustments. And relationally? I’ve been intentional about connecting deeper with friends like Taylor, investing in the legacy I want to leave—not just wealth or accolades, but people. Men need real brotherhood. Vulnerability. Courage. That’s what I’m going after in year two: more connection, more truth, more transformation. I’m working on a book on legacy, we’re planning live gatherings for men, and we want to equip others to do this in their own communities.

We’ve had some powerful guests—Ron Atkins’ story of redemption after 500 years in prison, David Dorman on “highest and best use” of our lives, Tyson Morlet on embracing our fathers’ strengths despite their flaws—and the impact has been real. Men are realizing it's never too late to change. I’m living proof of that at 66. Taylor’s walking it out at 37. Whether you’re rebuilding after divorce, parenting in a way you never saw modeled, or simply waking up to the man you want to be—it starts now.

If you’ve been impacted by an episode, let us know in the comments. And if there’s something you want us to talk about, we’re all ears. We’re here to serve you, encourage you, and see you make the next third of your life your best third. Let’s keep going.

Chapters:
00:00 – Intro & 1‑Year Celebration
01:00 – Milestone Metrics & Gratitude
02:00 – The Five Pillars Recap
04:00 – Flagship Episodes: Boundaries & Use What You’ve Been Given
06:00 – Ron Atkins’ Redemption Story
08:00 – Overcoming Shame & Emotional Restoration
12:00 – Parenting with Compassion & Malware-Free Legacy
16:00 – Intentional Male Friendships & Vulnerability
22:00 – How I've Lived the Pillars Personally
26:00 – Year‑Two Goals: Book, Live Events & Men's Groups

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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I’m David Fenwick, founder and host of Next Third Best Third, and today I had the honor of sitting down with the incredible Lisa Archer. Lisa isn’t just a board‑certified master herbalist and functional medicine coach—she’s also someone who nearly lost her life seven years ago and rebuilt from the ground up. In this episode, we unpack how our thoughts, beliefs, and emotional state physically shape our biology—and how you don’t have to be broken to begin healing. We dive into the science behind emotional health, the power of grounding, and why reframing labels can redefine your entire wellness journey.

Lisa guides us through mineral balancing—the literal foundation of our body’s cellular systems. From how stress depletes magnesium to using specific electrolytes to support energy, calm, and focus, she breaks down how restoring mineral harmony can transform everything from cognition to hormone balance. She also shares powerful stories: reversing menopause symptoms, reclaiming brain function with lion’s mane and mushrooms, and why even genetic predispositions don’t have to be your destiny.

But perhaps most inspiring is Lisa’s reminder: “You’re not broken, just out of balance.” Together, we explore how simple habits—like grounding in the grass, speaking affirmations, and tuning into your nervous system—can reignite cellular health and spiritual purpose. This episode is for anyone who wants radical transformation that starts from the inside out. Tune in, be encouraged, and get ready to make your next third your best third.

Chapters:
00:03 – Welcome & Episode Intro  
01:00 – Meet Lisa Archer: Credentials & Healing Journey  
02:07 – Emotional Health: Your First Foundation  
03:18 – Thoughts Impact Biology: Bruce Lipton Science  
05:10 – Don’t Own the Label: Diagnosis as Data  
07:03 – Self‑Care & Grounding: Daily Practice  
10:00 – Electrical Body: Minerals as Cell Batteries  
12:26 – Mineral Balancing Explained: Foundation First  
16:53 – Real‑Life Transformations: Menopause & Cognition  
20:05 – Practical Tools: Affirmations, Minerals, Mushrooms  

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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Do you actually like yourself?

Not just love yourself in theory—but enjoy who you are, accept your flaws, and walk in real confidence?

In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I dive deep into one of the most overlooked pillars of men’s mental health: self-acceptance. After decades of working with men, I’ve seen how often we suffer in silence—struggling with negative self-talk, comparison, and the pressure to perform. This isn’t just a mindset issue—it’s a spiritual battle. As a Christian man, I’ve learned that we can’t love others well until we learn how to love—and like—ourselves.

We talk about the power of gratitude, self-care, emotional resilience, and breaking the cycle of shame that holds men back. I’ll share tools I’ve used to grow in confidence, positive identity, and emotional strength—from rewriting your inner narrative to honoring your boundaries, building healthy friendships, and learning to celebrate your wins without pride.

If you want to grow in emotional intelligence, authentic masculinity, and become the kind of man who leads with integrity and lives with purpose, this conversation is for you. The world doesn’t need more perfect men. It needs more whole men—men who are grounded, kind, and powerful because they’re no longer at war with themselves.

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Chapters:
00:00 - Do You Even Like Yourself?
02:57 - The Comparison Trap That’s Crushing Men
07:00 - 6 Tools to Rebuild Confidence and Self-Worth
13:00 - Your Past Doesn’t Disqualify You
20:45 - Real Masculinity Starts with Self-Acceptance

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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In this episode, I sit down for an incredibly raw and real conversation about dreams, identity, and the bucket list mindset. For most of us, a bucket list is filled with things we want to do before we die—but what happens when those dreams are tied to our self-worth? What if they don’t come true? And what if they do… and still leave us empty?

We go deep into the psychology behind goal-setting, failure, and fulfillment, highlighting how an unchecked bucket list can actually backfire. I open up about some of the darkest seasons of my life—moments where I stopped dreaming completely—and how a concept called the reverse bucket list helped me shift my mindset. Rather than always reaching for more, it taught me to reflect on the victories I’ve already had, big and small.

This isn’t just about travel or thrill-seeking. It’s about becoming more intentional with your time, relationships, and future. Whether you’re navigating a life transition like divorce, trying to re-ignite your sense of purpose, or just wanting to start fresh, this conversation is for you. Subscribe, share, and let us know in the comments: what’s on your bucket list—and what’s already worth celebrating?

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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Are we doing retirement all wrong?

At 66, I’ve lived through the dreams, the mistakes, and the hard resets that come with chasing the elusive promise of “retirement.” In this honest conversation with Taylor, 37, we bring two generations together to explore what it really means to retire—beyond money, beyond golf, beyond just "rest."

We’re not talking about retirement accounts here—we’re talking about purpose. What do you retire towards, not just from? What happens when your career ends and your identity goes with it? Is retirement even real—or is it just an outdated American myth?

In this episode, we unpack the emotional, relational, and physical costs men face in retirement, and why legacy is about memories, not money. Whether you’re 35 or 65, this conversation will challenge how you see your future. I share how I’m starting over with passion and purpose at 66—acting, podcasting, parenting, and building again. It’s never too late to reimagine the next third of your life.

Stick with us through the full discussion—we touch on personal regrets, national statistics, family legacy, and real-life inspiration. If you’re thinking about the future, this is the video you didn’t know you needed.

Connect with Taylor Leys: jesusoneveryscreen.com

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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If you've ever battled fear, shame, or felt stuck in your past, this message is for you. It’s not just about prison — it’s about reclaiming your worth, redefining identity, and letting go of the lies you’ve believed about yourself. Stick around — this story might just help you write your next chapter.

Connect with Ron and his ministry: 
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ronald.adkins.313924
Ministry FB: https://www.facebook.com/Radicalrestorationministries 

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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In today’s episode Ron Atkins and I dive deep into a powerful but often misunderstood concept: the difference between perspective and perception. As we unpack our life experiences—from solitary confinement to spiritual growth—we explore how your mindset affects not just your reality, but the decisions and direction of your entire life. Our goal isn’t just philosophical—it’s practical. We want to help you see differently, so you can live differently.

For many of us, especially men, life can feel like a prison—physically, mentally, emotionally. But what if that perception is part of the problem? What if the truth is: “It’s good right now,” even when it doesn’t look like it? We challenge you to step into a God-given lens, one where purpose exists even in pain, and community becomes a lifeline. We also talk about the importance of surrounding yourself with people who see the gold in you, even when you can't.

If you're walking through hardship, stuck in old thinking, or isolated in your struggle, this conversation is for you. You’re not alone. You're not doomed to stay where you are. You’re on the edge of a breakthrough—if you’ll embrace a new perception. Subscribe, share, and let us know how today’s talk landed for you. Let’s make this next third of life the very best one yet.

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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In this very personal episode of Next Third Best Third, I open up with my first-ever State of David Address. This isn't just a life update — it's a raw, honest reflection on the past, present, and future. I share how a devastating life event, including my unexpected divorce at 59, became the catalyst for profound personal growth and transformation. Vulnerability, grief, hope, and courage all played major roles in shaping the man I am today, and I hope by sharing my journey, it will inspire you to take a powerful step in your own.

Throughout this conversation, I dive into how intentional living, community support, fitness, mental health, and pursuing lifelong dreams like acting and podcasting, helped me rebuild a thriving, purpose-driven life. I discuss why accountability groups like Dragon Slayers matter, the importance of investing in yourself, and how even when you feel alone, you’re never truly isolated if you make the decision to stay connected. Life’s best years don't happen by accident — they happen by deliberate choice.

If you’re navigating hardship, feeling stuck, or simply wondering what’s next for you, know this: your best third can still be ahead of you. I believe in the power of dreaming again and making daily choices that honor your future self. I’m living proof that at any stage in life, you can turn pain into purpose. Thank you for being here — your presence matters.

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!