Nigerian In My 20s

Chitchat about my small wakawaka in Lagos & where I’ve been😅

In a society where we are conditioned & groomed to be mothers & wives, choose to be more! Explore, travel, live independently, date for the fun of it, go on unplanned weekend trips, girl trips etc before choosing to share your life with another person. You’re young only once…enjoy each year! Make money & spend it too! Save! Just be independent & happy Baby because marriage comes with responsibilities (big ones). And if you want to marry early, by all means DO! Marry someone who supports you as you grow & learn together. ⚠️BOTTOM LINE: Marry when you are ready & not when your family is ready!!!⚠️

First episode + where I’ve been🤷🏾‍♀️ Woh, I’ve been in the city, doing omoluabi tings ni…no vex❤️ Also, new soundtrack, who dis?! HAPPY NEW YEAR LOVES✨✨🎉

Selected four things running through my mind to share with you❤️

A total but somewhat entertaining mess. An attempt at playing music & talking…sorry, A FAILED ATTEMPT.

Answering the epic questions “why are men so emotionally laidback & insensitive?” & “why are women so dramatic & sensitive?”, I give you an insight into why we seem so different despite being human beings with almost the same organs😂😂…enjoy xx❤️

Heavy stuff.

Yes, that’s all.

It comes in 3 parts because I kept adding to the episode.

Also,

I sniffed a lot because it’s morning & I have asthma mahn…clogged airways. Please help me to manage🙏🏾

Warning ⚠️

My eyes got blurry with tears while preparing for this & my heart broke over & over as I recognized some things.

I’m doing this for those of us who are confused as to why we act the way we do.

Doing this for acceptance, love & healing. Childhood trauma, impact & ways to heal.

Cheers xx

Hey there! Got my 2nd dose of the vaccine about a week ago & I documented my reactions to it. Plus, spilled a little tea about being a great friend and person in general. ⚠️⚠️ I WENT THROUGH VARIOUS EMOTIONS IN THIS EPISODE. It’s like the weirdest thing ever😂✨✨

So you’re in your 20s yeah? Okay, so here’s 5 relatable dilemmas we all have faced at one point or the other & the “dark” choices we may have to make.