Nigerian In My 20s

Aka Weray dey Disguise! Hey You, did you miss me? No? Ugh, never mind that. I’m here again with something that affects all of us regardless of gender. People that like you & pretend to be your friend instead of coming out straight. Listen, talk let’s know what exactly you want because pretending won’t get anywhere except earn you disdain & distrust from the person🤷🏾‍♀️

On today’s episode, my friend Dayo takes over the reins of my podcast & I become the interviewee😂 I’d like to maintain that I SAID WHAT I SAID & that’s on P for Period❤️🗣

Yup...you read right. This is an episode about mangoes & the role genotype plays in relationships but yeah Mango🥭

“Sugarbaby”, “Sugardaddy”, “Gigolo”, “Old Cargo”, “Gold Digger” etc are a part of the many words used to describe people in relationships with older or younger people. Should Age really matter in affairs of the heart? Does a huge age difference play a major role in relationships? Are the concerns of family & society grounded in some unspoken rule? Many questions I try to unpack in this episode...

This is me checking in & testing the mic I abandoned months ago.

Everyone has things they look out for in a partner before getting into a relationship but how about you shelve those & open yourself to other people in the dating pool?

It’s been a tough year, be nicer to people. There’s a lot that’s left unsaid & judging from outside is just plain wrong

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Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nigerianinmy20s/message

Ever heard of the phrase “Love Language”??? Well, this is a beginners guide to this interesting concept & the important role it plays in relationships🙂

Pained? Heartbroken? Sad? Crying? Tired of the flashbacks? Don’t let the pain push you into becoming a bully on the internet. It may seem like a good idea but it is not. It takes you back on your healing journey, makes you look extremely foolish & incapable of emotional control.

I called some of my friends to borrow me N50,000 ($129) & I died from their reactions😂