We all agree (well most of us) that representations matters but how effective is it really in the grand scheme of things. Does it matter how well you feel you connect/ or know the person? For me, there are layers to this. Let me explain... What do you think?

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I wanted to get this off my chest! I hope you receive this well!! 

(This is me trying out #FridayThoughts - A video podcast that will be extra episodes, under 10mins) 

It's a bit late but oh...the revelations this week, I even surprised myself!!

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I'm talking about my birthday, making rugs & how I think I'm gonna find my husband!

Check out the podcast I have my sister: "Me & My Sister (MAMS) podcast" we've been doing it since 2018, and available on ALL podcast platforms, Search MAMS podcast!

Here are some of my fav MAMS episodes;

(2022) S4 Ep17 "Listen at your own risk..." - https://open.spotify.com/episode/6hk77X9nC1pmmYTrWNDbH1?si=fPPhiw2oRACviYcTNWXk8A

(2019) S1 Ep24 "Worse sexual experience ..." https://open.spotify.com/episode/67hE3QTG9CNdThr8r0tgH3?si=laBnYsE6TBmTlGxdsTUtGA

(2018) S1 EP12 "Colourism in the family..." https://open.spotify.com/episode/0Vnt2LaUVq3ozaB7bFEHx3?si=rsvv-vu8TUmJ6rqtyh3v8Q

(2018) S1 Ep13 "Would you rather...?" - https://open.spotify.com/episode/28aDZ3TkEXS1kltXU2tsV3?si=8sw2OOhnTh2QpGpuLPQBmg

I dunno wagwan with life right now but I think I'm officially done with Online dating at the same time I'm like how my gonna met people? *sigh*  Hahaa.. plus I think we doing weddings wrong man...

Leave your thoughts, about Online dating & marriage Guests on Spotify or on anchor, if you have me on Whatsapp hit me up there!

I am really trying to jump over my fears and trick myself into taking action hoping that I'll create a habit ... lol I don't know, if that makes sense but have a & listen and let me know your thoughts!!

Below are the books I mentioned;

The Four Tendencies By Gretchen Rubin 

Atomic Habits By James Clear  

The Compound Effect By Darren Hardy

1% rule: https://nextbigideaclub.com/magazine/get-1-better-every-day/19161/

The five minute rule; https://www.inc.com/justin-bariso/emotionally-intelligent-people-embrace-5-minute-rule.html

Early wednesday evening I read Jason latest blog post (https://jason-rt.com/2022/05/03/never-been-loved/ ) It directly informed this weeks episode and thoughts. So here me out while I explore the idea of being vulnerable! You can also listen to the episode with Jason as a guest on this podcast here; https://open.spotify.com/episode/1OaHMCdtwnUXKxU3qZ3z3r?si=cf2a5ff6944c4940 

Let me know your thoughts!!

Yo I am in a completely different state of mind. Who knew 3 months could change my life so dramatically... Here is what I think happened and why & what I've realised!!

Join me having a catch up a moment or three... plus Yo, I would be a dope wife & mother!!

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