Most of us know a thing or two about Attachment Theory, but in this episode I will really dig deep into it. I'm starting it off with how Attachment Theory was developed, the experiments involved, and how it's viewed in child/primary caregiver relationships. Then I will relate Attachment Theory in the context of adult romantic relationships, speak on the (oh so common) Anxious Avoidant trap, and then get to the TEA of my attachment style, how I developed it, and how it's affected my relationships. Ending with how we can possibly learn to form secure attachments in relationships.

In this episode I give my listeners a crash course on Bell Hook's book "The Will To Change", speaking about the ways our society (the patriarchy and feminism) has set men up to fail, how men have shut off their emotions (making it really difficult to have intimate relationships), men's obsession with sex, the dominator role men take on, my personal experiences, how men can recover the emotional side of themselves and get to know how to love, and how we can support them.

I am incredibly homophobic... but only to myself.

In this episode I open up about having internalized homophobia and how that affects me as a bisexual woman. I also debunk stereotypes, speak on biphobia from both heterosexual communities and the queer community, as well as the fetishization of bisexual people.

This week I explore what it means to have a Savior Complex, the toxicity it brings, how to overcome it, the complex on an interpersonal scale versus societal scale, as well as my personal experience with having a MAJOR Savior Complex and the toxic acts I've done as a result.

In this episode I address the Madonna and the Complex, what it is, what causes it, cultural references, and my personal experiences with men that adopted it.