Ever feel like your dad was more competitor than coach? Or like your parents raised you with love—but also a load of pressure?

In this episode, we get real about the quiet tension that builds between parents and sons as boys grow into men. From tough love that cut too deep, to fathers who saw challenge instead of change, we’re unpacking the real roots behind the drama. Is it generational? Cultural? Or just emotional stuff no one talked about?

Whether you’re raising kids now or still working through how you were raised, this one's for you. Let’s break the cycle—without losing our cool.

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Ever feel like you're parenting your parents? You're not alone. Turns out, millennials are officially the sandwich generation—caught between raising kids and raising... well, their own parents.

So why is it that the very people who told us not to stay out late, not to spend recklessly, and not to ignore our health are now breaking their own rules? And more importantly—how do we handle it without losing our sanity?

In this episode, we unpack the reality of parenting your parents, how birth order and culture play a role in this weird reversal, and the unexpected emotional toll it takes. So... when did you first realize the roles had flipped? Let’s talk about it.

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Sibling dynamics: why do some siblings stay close while others drift apart? We're taking a deep dive into the role that family, culture, and even gender play in shaping how siblings relate to each other.

Have you ever wondered why your sibling relationship isn’t what you expected? What role does your upbringing play in it? Listen now and see if you’re guilty of the same sibling missteps or if you're nurturing a bond built to last.

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Why aren’t men pursuing women like they used to? In this episode, we dive into the shift in dating dynamics—why some men feel it’s just not worth the effort anymore. Are women setting too many “hoops” to jump through? Or have men simply grown tired of the chase? Tune in—and ask yourself: Are we making it too hard to connect with each other?

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We’re breaking down how cultural shifts are redefining relationships. Is the 50/50 mindset killing romance? Can modern men really handle traditional women or is it a fantasy until reality kicks in? Can women truly balance being a boss outside and submissive at home? Let’s talk about it.

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Studies show that year seven is the breaking point for many couples—but why?

In this episode, we dive into the stats, the psychology behind the “seven-year itch,” and the biggest reasons marriages fail (hint: it’s not just about love). What’s pulling couples apart? And most importantly—how can you beat the odds and make your relationship thrive long-term? Whether you're married, engaged, or just thinking about the future, this is one conversation you don’t want to miss.

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2. Atomic Habits by James Clear

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Does marriage actually affect wealth? We hear it all the time—marriage is just about love, right? But what if we told you it has way more to do with financial stability and long-term success than you think?

In this episode, we’re discussing potential reasons why Black marriages are on the decline.

🎧 Tap in. You don’t want to miss this one!

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Millennial parents, let’s talk. Remember when we thought we’d have a village helping us raise our kids? Turns out, that village is looking real different (or nonexistent).

Why does it feel like past generations had more support? Is it because we moved away, set more boundaries, or are we just expecting too much? And let’s be real—at what point do you stop hoping and just buy your village instead?

In this episode, we’re discussing the realities of raising kids without the village we thought we’d have. If you’ve ever felt alone in this journey, you’re not—let’s talk about it.

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What do women really want? If you’ve ever asked this question (or been too afraid to), this episode is for you. Are women truly as complicated as they seem or are men actually over-complicating things by looking for a “final answer”?

We’re breaking down some of the misconceptions about what women desire. And here’s the real question—do women even know what they want? Or are they figuring it out as they go?

Whether you're trying to understand your partner or just avoid another “you should know by now” moment—don’t miss this one. Tune in now!

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Can men ever truly afford to chase happiness when leading a family—or is it a distraction from their real purpose?

In this episode, we’re tackling the saying: ‘Happy Wife, Happy Life’. Are men responsible for creating happiness for their family or does this mindset entirely miss the mark? Tune in.

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