In this conversation, Whitni Miller and Tuesday Feral discuss the challenges and strategies for non-binary and trans individuals in navigating pleasure and intimacy. They explore the impact of dysphoria on sexual experiences and the importance of finding ways to feel comfortable in one's body. They also discuss the use of accessories and clothing to affirm one's gender identity during sexual encounters. Communication and consent are emphasized as crucial in creating positive experiences, and the importance of individual preferences and authenticity in defining pleasure is highlighted. They also discuss the concept of gender dysphoria and how it can impact sexual experiences. They emphasize the need for trans-affirming and sex-positive support for individuals who may be struggling with their sexuality. They also address the issue of hyper-sexualization of trans people and the negative impact it can have on their self-esteem and relationships.

Mx. Tuesday Feral, of Feral Resiliency, is a neurospicy educator, coach, therapist, and consultant. From creating and facilitating support programs, offering sexual health and gender exploration support as a coach, to working as a licensed counselor and sex therapist, Tuesday has been supporting trans and nonbinary folks and their families in Western North Carolina since 2008. With a unique, trauma informed, kink and CNM aware perspective, Tuesday also finds great fulfillment in teaching workshops and courses as well as providing consultation to individuals and groups who want to better support nonbinary and trans people in their work and their lives.

Tuesday lives with their beloved feline companion in a small cabin surrounded by delightfully overgrown gardens, and in their free time they can be found gazing at the moon lovingly, tending their gardens and plants (and trying to outwit the resident groundhog to no avail), engaging in creative endeavors, dancing with abandon, nerding out about trauma and attachment or other topics of interest, and connecting with loved ones.

Learn More From Tuesday:
https://www.feralresiliency.com
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Other resources mentioned by Tuesday:
https://tranzmission.org/
https://openpathcollective.org/

Learn More From Whitni:
https://www.bde-moves.com
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IG - @bde.moves
FB - groups/bdemoves
YouTube - Podcast Channel = @BDE-Moves Old Channel = @BdeTalks