Tell me if this has ever happened to you. You were solid with your messaging. You had that dialed in, and you'd engaged the decisionmaker and gotten them to the point where they're interested in your stuff.
And then when you pivoted to the pitch and named the price, they didn't buy.
Maybe they said things like, maybe next year. Or, I'm not sure this is right for us at this time. Or some other thing that tried to let you down gently, but didn't result in the investment you were asking for.
I hear some version of this scenario from Nonprofit leaders all the time. And when I have them replay the lead-up and the pitch for me, it almost always turns out they were making the same big mistake that lots of folks make, that winds up trampling their great messaging and reducing its effectiveness.
When we're able to fix that, the results change pretty fast. But the catch is, it's really hard to analyze that mistake yourself, because it's very likely something you're doing completely unconsciously. So the first thing we have to do is notice it before we can get to work on fixing it.
Today, I'm going walk you through how this set of mistakes shows up and some things you can do right away to start solving this problem.
In this episode, I’m sharing:
- The wrong conclusion so many people draw when their big ask fails to get a yes
- How an attempt to make it easier for the decisionmaker to hear a big ask is actually planting doubt
- Three common language and voice shifts during the ask that cause the decisionmaker to back away
- Two simple ways to identify the language and voice mistakes you’re making
- How to uncover the hidden obstacles that are causing these mistakes
- The 3-step process to fixing the mistakes that are costing you the most in your ask
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