What if your worth has never depended on your achievements?

From a young age, we’re taught to chase grades, promotions, titles, and milestones. Somewhere along the way, many of us begin believing that who we are is defined by what we accomplish.

In this episode of Normalize the Conversation, Francesca Reicherter is joined by leadership coach and author Becca Pearce for a conversation about breaking free from perfectionism, redefining success, and learning that you don’t have to earn love through achievement.

Becca shares how losing her CEO position and later facing a brain tumor forced her to question everything she believed about success, identity, and self-worth. Together, they explore identity shifts after college, changing friendships, people-pleasing, the importance of community, and practical tools for challenging the stories our minds create.

Whether you’re navigating a life transition, questioning your career, or simply feeling like you’re never doing enough, this episode offers hope, perspective, and the reminder that your value has never depended on your productivity.

Connect with Becca Pearce: https://morebeccapearce.com/ 

Connect with Francesca Reicherter (host): francescareicherter.com

What happens when the person you see in the mirror suddenly feels like a stranger?

After brain surgery left John Kippen with permanent facial paralysis, he spent more than a decade hiding from the world. In this episode, he shares the moment that changed everything, how he rebuilt his confidence, and why embracing what makes us different can become our greatest strength.

Together, we explore self-acceptance, overcoming shame, finding joy after adversity, the power of vulnerability, and how one simple act of reaching out can change someone’s life.

If you’ve ever struggled with confidence, felt defined by your past, or wondered if you’ll ever feel comfortable being fully yourself, this conversation is for you.

Connect with John Kippen: https://kippen.coach/ 

Connect with Francesca Reicherter (host): francescareicherter.com

What if you aren’t behind? What if you’re becoming exactly who you’re meant to be?

In this episode of Normalize the Conversation, Francesca Reicherter and Susy Markoe Schieffelin explore the realities of healing, anxiety, recovery, and self-worth. Together, they discuss why growth isn’t linear, how shame keeps us stuck, and what it means to support your nervous system instead of fighting it.

Susy shares her journey from rock bottom to recovery, the practices that helped her heal, and why choosing hope is often a series of small decisions—not one life-changing moment.

Whether you’re navigating anxiety, feeling stuck, or simply need a reminder to be kinder to yourself, this conversation offers hope, practical wisdom, and the reassurance that healing is possible.

Because maybe you’re not behind. You’re becoming.

Connect with Susy Markoe Schieffelin: https://thecoppervessel.com/about 

Connect with Francesca Reicherter (host): francescareicherter.com

When someone says they’re struggling, most of us instinctively ask, “Why?” But what if that’s the wrong question?

In this episode, Francesca Reicherter sits down with parenting coach and emotional intelligence expert Nadim Saad to explore a better way to support children, teens, and adults through difficult emotions.

Together, they discuss emotional intelligence, self-compassion, negative thoughts, loneliness, social media, parenting, and practical communication tools that help people feel heard instead of judged.

Whether you’re a parent, teacher, friend, or simply trying to understand yourself better, this episode will change the way you approach conversations about mental health.

Connect with Nadim Saad: https://www.happyconfident.com/

Connect with Francesca Reicherter (host): francescareicherter.com

Have you ever felt guilty for saying no?

For many of us, being “the helpful one” becomes part of our identity. We answer every call, solve every problem, and put everyone else’s needs ahead of our own—until we’re exhausted.

In this episode, Francesca sits down with poet and bestselling author Arielle Estoria to explore what happens when we stop believing our worth is measured by how much we sacrifice.

Together, they discuss people pleasing, boundaries, transactional friendships, burnout, identity, and why self-preservation isn’t selfish.

If you’ve ever struggled to choose yourself without guilt, this conversation is for you.

Connect:

• Arielle Estoria: arielleestoria.com 
• Francesca Reicherter (host): francescareicherter.com
  

Most parents would do anything for their child. But what happens when love isn’t the same as feeling understood?

In this episode of Normalize the Conversation, Francesca Reicherter sits down with John Trautwein, founder of the Will to Live Foundation, whose 15-year-old son, Will, died by suicide.

Through remarkable honesty, John shares what he wishes he had known before losing his son—and how that experience transformed the way he approaches parenting, communication, and mental health.

Together, Francesca and John discuss:

• Why children often stop sharing what they’re really feeling
• How validation can be more powerful than fixing the problem
• The importance of asking better questions
• Why peers and “life teammates” play a critical role in mental wellness
• How parents can create conversations that reduce shame and isolation
• Small acts of connection that can make a lasting difference
• Why talking about depression and suicide doesn’t create risk—it creates opportunity for support

Francesca also shares her own lived experience with depression and the moments that helped her survive, making this conversation deeply personal while offering practical guidance for families, educators, coaches, and anyone who wants to better support the people they love.

If this episode resonates with you, please follow Normalize the Conversation, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from it.

Because the conversations we avoid are often the ones that matter most.

Connect

• John Trautwein:  www.johntrautwein.com
• Francesca Reicherter (host): francescareicherter.com

What happens when speaking up about mental health puts you at risk?

In this episode of Normalize The Conversation, Francesca Reicherter sits down with psychologist and mental health advocate Rooshan Alam, based in Pakistan, to talk about grief, mental health misinformation, online harassment, misogyny, and what it means to use your voice when speaking up comes with a personal cost.

Rooshan shares why grief isn’t limited to losing someone to death. We talk about grieving friendships, relationships, identity, and the versions of ourselves we leave behind as we grow and change. We also explore how stigma can make it harder to sit with difficult emotions and seek the support we need.

The conversation then turns to mental health misinformation online, including harmful beliefs about therapy, medication, vaccines, and mental health treatment. Rooshan explains why misinformation can have real consequences—and why correcting it can sometimes make the person speaking up a target.

She also opens up about experiencing online harassment and threats as a woman speaking publicly about mental health in Pakistan, while sharing the moments that remind her why she continues her advocacy.

Most importantly, this conversation is about finding ways to make a difference without sacrificing your safety. Whether that means publicly speaking out, sharing accurate information, supporting someone else, or simply taking one small action in your own community, advocacy doesn’t have to look the same for everyone.

If you’ve experienced grief, felt overwhelmed by conflicting mental health information online, or wondered whether your voice can actually make a difference, this episode is for you.

Topics include:

• Grief beyond death and loss
• Identity grief and personal growth
• Mental health stigma
• Therapy and medication misinformation
• Social media and mental health
• Women’s mental health and online harassment
• Advocacy and speaking up
• Small actions that create change
• Hope and resilience

If this conversation resonates with you, follow Normalize The Conversation, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who may need it.

What if grief isn’t something you “get over”? And what if healing looks nothing like what you thought it would?

In this deeply honest episode of Normalize The Conversation, Francesca sits down with author and grief advocate Marisa Renée Lee for a compassionate conversation about grief, uncertainty, healing, hope, and how to care for yourself through life’s hardest seasons.

Marisa opens up about navigating long COVID, chronic illness, exhaustion, and what it means to hold onto hope when life feels uncertain. Together, they unpack the emotional weight of grief, the pressure of “shoulds,” and why comparison often keeps us stuck in shame rather than healing.

If you’ve ever wondered:

• Why grief still feels heavy years later

• How to cope with loss when life changes overnight

• Why adulthood feels uncertain or overwhelming

• How to stop comparing your healing to everyone else’s

• What it actually means to have hope during hard times

…this episode is for you.

Marisa, author of Grief Is Love and Waiting for Dawn, shares a powerful reframe around the five stages of grief, why grief is deeply personal, and how losing someone also means grieving the version of yourself reflected back through that relationship. Francesca vulnerably shares her own experiences with loss, caregiving, and learning to ask for help after years of trying to carry everything alone.

You’ll also hear a meaningful conversation around emotional wellness, caregiver burnout, self-compassion, and why joy and grief can coexist. From navigating uncertainty to learning how to ask for support, this episode offers practical insight and emotional validation for anyone moving through change, loss, or healing.

Whether you’re grieving someone you love, struggling with a major life transition, or simply feeling overwhelmed by uncertainty, this conversation is a reminder that healing doesn’t happen on a timeline and you do not have to go through hard things alone.

If this episode resonates with you, follow Normalize The Conversation, leave a review, or share it with someone who may need this reminder today.

When love feels scary, relationships feel confusing, or self-doubt won’t quiet down, the roots often go deeper than we realize.

In this deeply honest conversation, I sit down with Sheleana Aiyana, founder of Rising Woman and author of Becoming One, to explore how childhood wounds quietly shape our adult relationships, emotional triggers, nervous system responses, and sense of self.

Together, we unpack what inner child healing actually looks like in real life, beyond buzzwords and therapy language. We talk about attachment wounds, why some of us crave closeness while simultaneously pushing people away, and how early experiences can shape the stories we tell ourselves about love, safety, and worthiness.

Sheleana shares her own healing journey following deep heartbreak and explains why healing isn’t about endlessly revisiting pain; it’s about creating more freedom, joy, connection, and self-trust.

In this episode, we discuss:

• What inner child work really means

• Why childhood experiences impact adult relationships

• Attachment wounds and the “come close, go away” dynamic

• Nervous system regulation and emotional triggers

• Learning to respond instead of react

• Healing self-worth and letting go of survival patterns

• How to reconnect with yourself through curiosity and nature

• Reclaiming joy, play, and childlike wonder

We also talk openly about mental health struggles, feeling disconnected from yourself, and what it looks like to stop living purely in survival mode.

If you’ve ever struggled with trusting people, feeling emotionally overwhelmed, self-doubt, relationship anxiety, or understanding why certain patterns keep repeating, this conversation is for you.

Listen now and, if this episode resonates, follow Normalize The Conversation and share it with someone who may need this reminder: healing is possible, and you don’t have to do it alone.

Why does therapy sometimes feel harder before it finally starts helping? And how do you know when healing is actually happening?

In this deeply honest conversation, Fran sits down with filmmaker, healthcare worker, and creator Mark Labella to talk about PTSD, therapy stigma, emotional overwhelm, people pleasing, boundaries, grief, and learning to trust the healing process.

Mark opens up about delaying therapy after serving in the military, navigating mental health stigma in Filipino culture, and what finally pushed him to seek help through the VA. Together, Fran and Mark unpack what cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) really looks like beyond the clichés, including why therapy can feel emotionally exhausting before meaningful change begins.

They also explore the hidden impact of empathy, emotional burnout, and carrying other people’s pain, especially in caregiving and leadership roles. Mark shares his experience working on the frontlines during COVID-19, processing grief through writing, and how trauma shaped both his healing journey and his creative work.

This episode also dives into:

• PTSD and emotional regulation

• Therapy stigma and asking for help

• Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) tools

• Setting boundaries and overcoming people pleasing

• Managing stress and emotional overwhelm

• Learning not to care so much about other people’s opinions

• LGBTQ+ identity, self-acceptance, and authenticity

• Healing through creativity and storytelling

Mark also shares the powerful story behind Nurse the Dead, a heartfelt comedy inspired by Filipino nurses, grief, community, and healing after loss.

If therapy has ever felt overwhelming, if you struggle with boundaries, or if you’re learning how to stop carrying everyone else’s emotions, this conversation is for you.

Listen, follow Normalize The Conversation, and share this episode with someone who needs a reminder that healing isn’t linear, but it is possible.