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As a therapist I have only one rule: you are not allowed to die. On this podcast I will answer questions about therapy, mental health, coaching, or anything else folks want to pick my brain about. I b... more
FAQs about Not Allowed to Die:How many episodes does Not Allowed to Die have?The podcast currently has 210 episodes available.
May 13, 2025Mother's Day BluesIn this episode Mariska and I talk about several clients who have struggles with finding joy on a day celebrating family and Mothers in particular. ...more16minPlay
May 07, 2025How to tell a 4 year old his Father diedIn this episode Mariska and I unpack hard conversations of talking about death with small children and some victories both for former client and the incredible feeling for a therapist when a client breaks through shame and shares their trust. ...more20minPlay
April 29, 2025Wiley Coyote is a bad exampleIn this episode Mariska and I talk about what to do when someone you care about has run off a cliff and refuses to look down because they don't want to face reality and drop. How to help them see reality and hopefully have a softer landing. ...more19minPlay
April 09, 2025Are you lazy or recharging?In this episode Mariska and I discuss helping clients determine if their avoidance of life and issues is a healthy pause or something that might be building negative inertia to becoming their healthiest self. ...more20minPlay
April 02, 2025Mind Matters Podcast CollaborationIn this episode Mariska and I are guests on the Mind Matters podcast where hosts Ben and Kabeer ask us questions about managing mental health challenges as a teen, and give us a chance to talk about Paws for Patrick. ...more54minPlay
March 25, 2025Perks of Being a Wallflower endorsementIn this episode Mariska and I talk about the incredible book Perks of Being a Wallflower and why I'm taking my kids to a museum about lynching for spring break. ...more19minPlay
March 18, 2025Is 30 min enough for a therapy session?In this episode Mariska and I discuss how I decide which clients can do 30 min sessions and also the challenges of collaborating with other providers (eg. couples counselors and psychiatrists). ...more22minPlay
March 12, 2025Is being Trans a delusion take 2Once again Mariska published a podcast without listening to make sure it was correct. This is the real episode where Markisa and I vent our frustration about a conservative social worker mischaracterizing trans people as if they are delusional just for existing. ...more23minPlay
March 11, 2025Is being Trans a delusion?In this episode Mariska and I try to stay professional as we react to a podcast where a social worker implies that being trans is a delusion. Spoiler alert: It's not. ...more20minPlay
March 04, 2025Hard truths: when your partner is F@*&ing other people.In this episode Mariska and I discuss when therapists need to call their clients out and share hard truths with them, even when we know the clients may not want to hear it. ...more20minPlay
FAQs about Not Allowed to Die:How many episodes does Not Allowed to Die have?The podcast currently has 210 episodes available.