No matter a person's background, religion, or age, we all long for connection and closeness with others. In this program, guest teacher Aaron Pierce explains why establishing trust is an essential first step in leading someone to Jesus. Learn what you can do to build authentic relationships with those who have drifted or are far from God.

Main Points

Tribalism:

• Us versus Them
• Tribalism is a toxic trait of modern-day culture
• Tribalism existed during Jesus’ day (example: Jews and Samaritans)
• Jesus defied tribalism in a radical, counter-cultural way - John 4
• Jesus offended the religious people because He spent so much time with sinners - Luke 15:1-2 

The power of friendship:

• Friendship humanizes “them”
• Friendship allows you to demonstrate the Gospel in actions. - Philippians 2:3-4
• Friendship helps you really understand their perspective and communicate the Gospel effectively.
• Friendship allows you to earn the trust to challenge their views and speak truth.

Relevance versus holiness:

• Be distinct and clear that you are a Jesus follower… but not obnoxious or a “Jesus robot”
• Don’t be offended that non-Christians act like non-Christians (language, lifestyle, philosophy, etc.)
• The goal is not to “flaunt” your moral superiority, but the goal is that we allow them to see our supernatural hope, love, joy, and peace.

Adopt a missionary mindset:

• Start by actively pursuing people in your “Oikos,” or sphere of influence.
• Expand your “Oikos” by being relationally present in secular places.
• Ask the Holy Spirit to lead you to a “person of peace” and give you supernatural favor.

Principles to remember when engaging in secular places:

1. Relax, be yourself, and have fun
2. Harness the incredible power of asking questions and listening
3. Find common ground and genuine ways to affirm them.

Broadcast Resource

• Not Beyond Reach Resources
• Message Notes

Additional Resource Mentions

• Dale Carnegie - "How to Win Friends and Influence People"

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