Not Your Mommy

Not Your Mommy

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Not Your Mommy episodes

  • Lauren Shuster's Surrogacy Journey

    Liz chats with Lauren Shuster, a friend of the pod's, about her traumatic birth and journey to pursuing surrogacy. Lauren shares how she went from sending a letter to almost every woman she's ever known, asking for help on this unknown and overwhelming path to motherhood, to having an old friend from elementary school carry her two beautiful babies. Lauren's gorgeous daughter, Charlie makes a cameo and Liz asks all the questions you might be wondering about what it's like to have another woman carry your child. Lauren was so open and vulnerable about her experience—you're going to learn so much from her story.


    Very Important Episode Links:

    Lauren's Instagram



    Keep Up With Your Girls:

    Katie on Instagram

    Katie on Tiktok

    Kokomo's Website

    Liz on Instagram

    Liz's Website

    Katie's Amazon Storefront



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    50 min
  • Vasectomies, taking our meds, why Katie cried in yoga

    Before Katie jets off to Hong Kong/ Bali, the girls catch up on what's been happening in TikTok, US politics (sorta), influencer pregnancy announcements, and their recent relationship with pharmaceuticals. Katie pronounces a word in an entirely new way and they discuss the details of what Katie will be packing and reading on her trip.


    Very Important Episode Links:

    Hysterical - Podcast

    My Husband - Maude Ventura

    Circle Wellness


    Keep Up With Your Girls:

    Katie on Instagram

    Katie on Tiktok

    Kokomo's Website

    Liz on Instagram

    Liz's Website

    Katie's Amazon Storefront

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    1 hr
  • Katie's Daily Habits (and how she manages her cortisol)

    In this solo episode, Katie takes us through her daily habits that help her manage her cortisol, stress levels, and overall health. She dives into everything from her approach to screen time, supplements, workouts, planning her life around her cycle, meal prep, going fragrance free, and lots of other Katie-coded practices that actually work!


    Very Important Episode Links:

    Dr TJ (Naturopath)

    Woman Code Book

    Minerals for Water

    Magnesium

    Kion Aminos

    Kaha Creatine

    The rest is here: Katie's Amazon Storefront




    Keep Up With Your Girls:

    Katie on Instagram

    Katie on Tiktok

    Kokomo's Website

    Liz on Instagram

    Liz's Website


    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    59 min
  • The Motherload with Sarah Hoover

    Liz chats with author of the must-read motherhood memoir of 2025, Sarah Hoover! They dive into her experience of living through and writing about postpartum depression, marriage after kids, female rage, second babies and so.much.more. Listen to this epi then read her book immediately!



    Very Important Episode Links:

    The Motherload

    Sarah's Instagram

    More of Sarah's Writing


    Keep Up With Your Girls:

    Katie on Instagram

    Katie on Tiktok

    Kokomo's Website

    Liz on Instagram

    Liz's Website

    Katie's Amazon Storefront

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    58 min
  • It's 2025 and we're mall girls

    After a holiday break, the mommies catch up and share (in detail) some of their recent adventures at the mall. They discuss Paige & Craig's breakup, Meghan Markle's new show, sparkly eyeshadow, and Liz's identity shift from hipster princess to wannabe Parisienne girl. Your girls talk about Mel Robbin's Let Them Theory, the cinnamon ritual, and their comfort creators they love following.


    Very Important Episode Links:

    Mel Robbins - Let Them Theory

    Lalalivia on TikTok

    Meredith Hayden on TikTok

    Urban Decay Moondust Liner

    BFF Sparkle Shadow


    Keep Up With Your Girls:

    Katie on Instagram

    Katie on Tiktok

    Kokomo's Website

    Liz on Instagram

    Liz's Website

    Katie's Amazon Storefront

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1 hr 4 min
  • God is a woman (& other truths)

    In the last episode of the year, the mommies chat Christmas traditions with kids, wellness hacks for the holiday season, and Liz's newfound love for Travis Kelce. They divulge some staggering stats about our listenership, speculate what Taylor is doing post-Eras Tour, and the secret to ordering the perfect martini.


    Very Important Episode Links:

    Liz's Joe Fresh Fleece

    Buy a Kokomo gift card here!


    Kokomo gift card details:

    Spend $100, get $120

    Spend $200, get $250

    Spend $500, get $650


    Keep Up With Your Girls:

    Katie on Instagram

    Katie on Tiktok

    Kokomo's Website

    Liz on Instagram

    Liz's Website

    Katie's Amazon Storefront

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1 hr
  • Katie shops the US, Christmas day culture, aging vaginas

    A prolific convo about everything from books, marriage, Lindsay Lohan, and the enduring pressure to be perky and puffed as a woman! It's one of our better episodes and yet, we have no idea what we chatted about for an hour. Enjoy!




    Very Important Episode Links:

    Liz's Article in Hard Copy

    Buy a Kokomo gift card here!


    Kokomo gift card details:

    Spend $100, get $120

    Spend $200, get $250

    Spend $500, get $650


    Keep Up With Your Girls:

    Katie on Instagram

    Katie on Tiktok

    Kokomo's Website

    Liz on Instagram

    Liz's Website

    Katie's Amazon Storefront

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1 hr 13 min
  • The adjacent tangent, T Swift, Christmas decor

    This episode goes on an array of wild tangents, so buckle up! Liz recaps her trip to Toronto and Taylor Swift; Katie shares another chaotic Temu haul and has an existential crisis about Christmas decor. She also reveals a hidden talent and shocks us all by actually getting an idiom right! Sic 'em Rex!


    Very Important Episode Links:

    Katie's Amazon Storefront

    Ina Garten Memoir

    Margo's Got Money Troubles: A Novel

    Glerup Slippers

    J Crew Pjs



    Keep Up With Your Girls:

    Katie on Instagram

    Katie on Tiktok

    Kokomo's Website

    Liz on Instagram

    Liz's Website

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1 hr
  • Neurodivergent-affirming parenting & advocacy with Leila Toigo

    Fellow writer, mother, and founder of the growing online community, Sprinkled Spectrum, Leila Toigo joins us to talk all about her experience of parenting a neurodivergent, gesalt language processing daughter. She shares what she's learned about herself through the process of receiving her daughter's diagnosis, and what inspired her to start sharing videos and education online. Leila also offers tips on how parents of neurotypical kids can advocate for autistic individuals. You'll love learning from Leila!


    Very Important Episode Links:

    Sprinkled Spectrum on Instagram

    Sprinkled Spectrum on TikTok

    Sincerely, Your Autistic Child

    Uniquely Human: A Different Way of Seeing Autism



    Keep Up With Your Girls:

    Katie on Instagram

    Katie on Tiktok

    Kokomo's Website

    Liz on Instagram

    Liz's Website



    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    39 min
  • The BIG catch up: Giggly Squad, Liz's trip to Hawaii, Martha Stewart, dirty diet coke

    The mommies get all caught up after what's felt like YEARS apart. They talk about some of their fave pregnant reality TV stars and TikTokers, Katie's journey with retinol, matching family pjs, and so much more! Your gals might not understand insider trading or politics, but they do know a thing or two about niche reading recommendations, supplements, holiday coffees, Malanaia, the list goes on.


    Very Important Episode Links:

    Katie's Amazon Storefront

    Ina Garten Memoir

    Margo's Got Money Troubles: A Novel

    Glerup Slippers

    J Crew Pjs



    Keep Up With Your Girls:

    Katie on Instagram

    Katie on Tiktok

    Kokomo's Website

    Liz on Instagram

    Liz's Website

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    53 min

About Not Your Mommy

From the publisher's feed

Katie Ruddell and Liz Hammond are two working moms searching for the answer to the question: How the f**ck are we supposed to do it all?!


We were both looking for entrepreneurs sharing…