Odelites🌺

So many ways to talk about this, i chose the simplest - Giving up is easy for most because they have done it so many times before. It takes a few moments to decide, the few times you avoid committing and all of a sudden letting go of the pressure feels so good. Not until it haunts you, and you need to maintain it. 'Giving up' is just diverting the commitment from fighting for the success of the dream or goal, to fighting to stick to the decision to let go and not fall apart.

The good and bad of every (travel) experience we encounter in life leave imprints in you. It may be small day to day or significant events that cumulatively results in baggage. It is important that with every touchdown we don't just grab/claim our baggage and move on to the next adventure without unpacking, seeing the new impacted you and how you now see things, reorganize, wash or dispose of what needs to be. And being intentional about rather carrying around baggage regardless of size and weight that serves us some good and who/whatever we impact as we journey on.

We do not know or want to acknowledge most of our bad traits. However, these are brought to our attention in arguments, through caring friends and family but we often don't take kindly to them. Running away from these truths results in those traits sticking to you, and people who have encountered will definitely perceive you as such. Embrace them, grow from them and see yourself being a better person.

There's a lot to learn from things in life, one of them being Strawberries. Learning from its characteristics you definitely can learn more about me😅, i am a strawberry. This however is just dictions of purpose by a great writer that can color your soul for purpose. I share nuggets with you to strawberry you. The strawberry says Blossom where you are planted | be tasteful | Drink in the sunshine | Keep close to earth | Savor Life's sweetness | Let good ideas ripen | Jam with friends! Look out for more segments in this episode for more on these very tasteful nuggets as you serve your purpose.

Depression will drive you into deeper despondency if you do not recognize it as an abuser. It will make you feel like you are the cause of your state, while the problem is the abuser who will disarm you of your power with an intent to harm you and keep you in shackles & robbing you of your right to expression to make itself feel more powerful. Rid yourself or another of the abuser.

Love in itself is a feeling, however, what most do not understand yet ultimately face challenges based on is the general universal default and uncommunicated expectation of the responsibility to commit to sustainining it by being accountable to them ..while just feeling it feels like is enough.

We often chose to settle for 'compromise' or 'letting go' instead of having a conversation. I believe this is so because we've been burnt in the attempt to be confrontational in past experiences. We dread it but it is the most value adding integral part of human life to our quality of life. Just as we've mastered avoiding it, over time we can master different ways to make it a normal part of us as it should be. Our lives after each encounter improve, it does more good to life if it's in a healthy way.

Understand what it is to be a keeper in my view. I think besides the basic date nights, cooking favorite dishes, not be a nag, being respectful, gifting loved ones and all which i think how/when they are expected changes over time and causes frustration. You are 'for keeps' and 'can keep' if you are fluid emotionally, mentally and all other related aspects that elevate and give your better half a full experience of life. Be in the business of nurturing, redeeming, cultivating, achieving, keeping abreast of one's change and know how to decode it and bring it back for a more valuable experience.

Everybody is striving to be great, chasing things of the world to fill the void. I think that that is because we were made to be great in nature by a great God. It is therefore uncomfortable, most times unexplainable, to remain mediocre. Your being will always yearn to settle into its true self.

We are reliant on people's bias and imperfect perceptions of us to determine our value. Your value remains what it was intended to be by God regardless of the upsides or downsides of your life. Long as you know it and understand it, your value is constant. It fluctuates as we receive and agree to what others see it to be.