Don't respond in retaliation.
Respond in wisdom & love.
Don't take offense, the key learning from/of the offender's diction is what's important. Focus!
That joke, those questions, comparison, mockery or rhetorics.
Our statements, actions and judgements come from a perspective and beliefs.
That by now, we should know we all have and that they differ.
It is offensive and by no means right. However...
often we speak in defense and it warrants more vacillation.
Silence/ witholding responses somewhat seem like validation for their behavior, like 'it's ok, they're right'.
But i tell you today, receive the offenders message and note their stand point. That's what you need to walk away with.
What you say from this revelation will not require a response from them, your statement of fact that is. Throw it back to them and wish them luck. Merely state that you're glad to know how you are perceived, who they are and what their true behavior and intent is. Don't be vindictive but make them aware that the inhibition of their offense is to them, not you. And wish them luck.
#1Corinthians13:5
#Proverbs19:11
#James1:19
#Matthew18:15-17