Oh Here We Go

🛑 Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault was mentioned in this episode. You can skip to 16:15 to continue safe listening if you'd like!

Lacey and Stephanie bring on their very first STRIPPER today. Melanie has been dancing in Colorado for years — though some of you might have already been introduced to her as ✨Venus Virga✨😉.

To kick it off, the girls discuss their curiosities about how people's perception changes about Melanie once they find out she's a stripper, which led Lacey into opening up about her own experiences with Sexual Assault and not being respected sexually. This makes them reflect on just how powerful and healing the #MeToo movement was because it gave victims a chance to be heard.

Melanie answers all of the questions we've always wanted to know. From why she got into it, how it makes her feel, her financial freedom, ~creepy~ guy stories, and her personal pole tricks. (She does it in a headstand, y'all. 🤭🤩)

As self-proclaimed boundary pushers, you know we couldn't just leave it at that. So when we say we get PERSONAL this episode, we dive aaaall the way into questions like "Do you get 💦 down there while performing?" and "Do guys get 🍆 while you're dancing?"

This was one of the most fun episodes we've done to date, and especially with all of the stigma that can surround stripping and sex work in general, it was honestly so refreshing to chat with Melanie about what it's taught her about herself and empowerment, the close connections and security it's brought her, and most importantly how much she LOVES her work.

This entire interview lead us to…

✨F*%K it, we're becoming strippers.✨

Keep up with us online: Melanie (✨Venus✨) IG: https://www.instagram.com/melly_ebxth/

Oh Here We Go's IG: https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/

Stephanie's IG: https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/

Lacey's IG: https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

Honey, get ready because today the girls are bringing on their very first Drag Entertainer, Dixie Krystals. Lacey and Stephanie were both so enamored by the energy of Dixie and how she has been doing drag for over 25 years. With her story starting all the way back to being a young kid just trying to get into the bar for free, Dixie goes on to share her journey within the Drag world and what all putting on a wig, makeup, and costume has done for her and those around her.

In this episode we discuss: -How Dixie started doing Drag -Drag Entertainers -Most Positive and Negative Experiences doing this -The History of Drag: How it originated & where it is now -What all drag has taught and done for Dixie -Cancel Culture -Helping/Supporting kids who are interested in Drag

Connect with us online:

Dixie's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/dixiekrystals/

Dixie's Podcast: https://anchor.fm/dixie-krystals

Oh Here We Go's socials: https://linktr.ee/Ohherewego Lacey's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

Stephanie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/

…..OOF. Buckle up, baby….we're going there. Lacey and Steph were on the hunt to interview and learn about "Sugaring," aka Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies. The girls also open up and share more of their own sexual experiences….And Stephanie leaves Lacey a lil bit bamboozled about some intimate stuff..

The girls initially got connected with today's guest, Jacqueline Valentine, for their curiosity about "sugaring" however right before the interview the girls discover that Jacqueline is not just a sugar baby and that she's actually a pornstar. Mind blown, the girls rework the entire interview and focus on how Jacqueline is not only a sugar baby but is mainly an adult entertainer who makes and produces her own porn, does fetish bookings, web-camming, and so much more. Stephanie and Lacey are INFATUATED with all of the stories that Jacqueline shares, but are also shocked to hear how she grew up Mormon and is actually sober in this industry. (DISCLAIMER: Everything that Jacquelines shares in this episode only comes from her experiences. She does not speak on the adult entertainment industry as a whole, only her perspectives and personal experiences.)

In today's episode we discuss: -Being a Pornstar -Shooting and producing her own Porn -Being a sugar baby and how to find clients -Web-Camming -Stripping -Fetish Bookings (including her most interesting experiences) -Growing up Mormon -Being sober in the adult entertainment industry -Plastic Surgery

Keep up with us online: Jacqueline's Twitter: (@urlilvalentine) https://mobile.twitter.com/UrLilValentine Jacqueline's Instagram: (@Jacquelinevalentine69) https://www.instagram.com/jacquelinevalentine69/ Jacqueline's OF: (@jacquelinevalentine)

Oh Here We Go's Instagram: (@ohhherewego) https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/

Stephanie's Instagram: (@stephanieparsley)https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/

Lacey's Instagram: (@thelaceyclaire) https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

This week, Stephanie and Lacey are diving into yet another ~*~ReLiGiOn~*~ to debunk. But first, the girls share more of their own past religious experiences and how they were raised. With each of them growing into their own spiritual beliefs, gaining respect from their parents has been quite the challenge over the years….but it's getting there….hopefully.

So…Mormonism….WTF? Today's guest is Liz Gunnell, an Ex-Orthodox Mormon, who left the Mormon church 6 years ago. Together the three girls dive the feck in.

***TRIGGER WARNING***

They discuss: -The Origin Story of Mormonism/Latter Day Saints -Joseph Smith and the Golden Plates -….Why Utah? -So….this is a cult, right? -Anachronisms (things to be found false) within the Book Of Mormon -Liz's upbringing and childhood experiences growing up in the church -Mormonism & LGBTQ+ -Grooming children -Polygamy- AKA, "The Sister Wives"- -Liz's healing journey and where she's at now

Keep up with us online:

Liz's IG: https://www.instagram.com/lizgunnell/

Liz's Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lordliz Link to Jeremy Runnell's CES Letter to the Mormon Church: https://cesletter.org

Oh Here We Go's IG: https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/

Stephanie's IG: https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/

Lacey's IG: https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

This week, Stephanie and Lacey are getting to know the ends and outs of a STRIP CLUB. The girls fly in Logann, a former bookkeeper of one of the most popular strip clubs in Dallas Texas, to dive in about… so much. Logann talks about how she was in charge of all of the HR hiring/firing, adjusting the books throughout the night to keep up with the activity in the club, keeping track of the dancers paying their club fees, doing all of the check-ins/check-outs for the wait staff, etc. Essentially she made sure every person in the club was doing their job, paying the club enough money, making sure that the owner was getting paid all while keeping the books straight … and legal. Not only do Stephanie and Lacey get to learn all about the business side of strip clubs, the girls also get to hear stories of all the internal chaos (pimps!!!) that goes on…and it is quite entertaining. Keep up with us online! Logan's IG: @_glitch444 https://www.instagram.com/_glitch444/ Logan's Business IG: @_glitchcreations https://www.instagram.com/_glitchcreations/ Oh Here We Go's IG: @ohhherewego https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/ Stephanie's IG: @stephanieparsley https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/ Lacey's IG: thelaceyclaire https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

After a lot of requests, Stephanie and Lacey are bringing on an Enneagram Coach and Specialist, Gayle Lessman (@peaceloveandenneagram) to break down all things Enneagram for them! In this episode the girls review the 9 Enneagram types, the Wings, the mistyping, the Instinctive, Feeling and Thinking Centers, the Subtypes, Tri-Types, and last but not least, how to figure out your own Enneagram number. There are so many layers to this that Stephanie and Lacey had no idea about and this interview could have been so much longer because there's so much information to cover. However, covering the importance of knowing your own enneagram number and the number of those close to you is key because it really allows to recognize your core fear and core motivation. If you can understand those 2 things, you can really understand why you do what you do and how to channel your energy. This is a great tool to have in order to keep growing towards your own personal liberation.

Keep up with us online!

Gayle's Instagram: @peaceloveandenneagram https://peaceloveandenneagram.com/blog/

Our Instagram: @ohhherewego Lacey's Instagram: @thelaceyclaire Stephanie's Instagram: @stephanieparsley

Lacey & Steph dive into their past experiences with the churches they grew up in & share their opinions on Christians vs "Christians."

While both feel that religion contributed to teaching them structure, morality, compassion, and selflessness, all of these lessons can also be taught in other more secular ways. Being religious isn't a requirement in being a good person; spirituality and morality are not necessarily synonymous.

With love being at the top of both of their core values, the overall lack of activism for anti-racism, pro-LGBTQ+, and the environment gives Lacey and Stephanie pause in terms of subscribing to any kind of organized religion.

And this all ties into the conversation they have with today's guest, Kennedy, an ex Jehovah's Witness.

They go over Kennedy's upbringing within the Kingdom Hall, unethical acts that have happened within the Jehovah's Witness community, interesting beliefs & practices that they follow, their "Heaven" (aka "Paradise") and the 144,000 people allowed in. The three also discuss why she left the practice, how all of this has affected her mental health, as well as how she's healing from her experiences today.

This episode is a major jaw dropper and the two are so thankful for Kennedy's bravery in coming on the show to share her story and educate them about the innermost details about this religion that over 8 million people globally adhere to.

If you liked this episode, please give us a 5 rating, reach out & let us know what you think! You can find us on Instagram, (@ohhherewego) Facebook, (Oh Here We Go) Twitter, (@ohhherewego) TikTok, (@ohhherewegopodcast) & YouTube (Oh Here We Go).

Kennedy's IG: @kennedy.alexandra https://instagram.com/kennedy.alexandra?utm_medium=copy_link

Our IG: @ohhherewego https://instagram.com/ohhherewego?utm_medium=copy_link

Lacey's IG: @thelaceyclaire https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

Stephanie's IG: @stephanieparsley https://instagram.com/stephanieparsley?utm_medium=copy_link

Stephanie and Lacey are lettin' the Good Times Roll today, y'all. The girls start reminiscing on how back in 2017 was the start of how their whole lives changed and how discovering electronic funk music was a big part of that. For today's guest, they bring on Jeremy Salken with Big Gigantic and it's just a full circle moment that Stephanie and Lacey can't believe. The girls ask Jeremy all about his upbringing, how he met the saxophonist, Dominic Lalli, and the rise and consistent build of Big Gigantic, along with everything in between.

Keep up with us!

Jeremy's IG: @jewunit https://www.instagram.com/jewunit/

Big Gigantic's IG- @BigGigantic https://www.instagram.com/biggigantic/

Dominic Lalli's IG: @dominiclalli https://www.instagram.com/dominiclalli/ https://www.biggigantic.net/

Oh Here We Go's IG: @ohhherewego https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/

Stephanie's IG: @StephanieParsley https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/ Lacey's IG: @TheLaceyClaire https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

**TRIGGER WARNING** Sexual assault and rape were both mentioned in this episode.

This week, we're getting INTIMATE. Lacey and Stephanie open up about some of their sexual experiences and with all of this recent talk about having sex with another woman....the two think they could be possibly manifesting something

Lacey and Stephanie bring on Kelli Tennant, Host of The Kelli Show, Ok Babe, and CEO of Soul Fire Productions — aka a podcast queen.

Her social media is a "juicy intersection of spiritual and sexual liberation helping women break free from toxic lies and rules," and Steph and Lacey are HEREFORIT. Not only are the two inspired by the messages Kelli shares, but they also look up to everything she's gone through in her relationship with her now-fiancé, Conner. Kelli shares with Lacey and Stephanie how she and Conner got into having threesomes with other women, her sexual awakening & coming into her desires of being with another woman, her & Conner's first threesome, Somatic Sexological therapy, healing from traumatic sexual experiences, boundaries, jealousy, and deepening her own intimacy.

Keep up with us!

Kelli's IG: @kellimtennant https://www.instagram.com/kellimtennant/

Kelli's podcast- @TheKelliShow https://www.instagram.com/thekellishow/

Ok Babe Podcast: @OkBabeShow https://www.instagram.com/okbabeshow/

Oh Here We Go's IG: @ohhherewego https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/

Stephanie's IG: @StephanieParsley https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/ Lacey's IG: @TheLaceyClaire https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

Fuckboy (or girl) — but make it ethical. ✨

On today's episode, Stephanie and Lacey bring on Shark, a Denver hairstylist who has been dipping her toes into sex and intimacy coaching, to teach them all about relationship dynamics and how to be an "Ethical Fuckboy (or girl)."

They talk about how and why starting a relationship with transparent honesty is extremely important in order for people to fully express all their needs and desires while avoiding the trap of falling into a false version of ourselves.

They also touch on different attachment styles and how those can play a role in relationships, as well the difference between jealousy and "compersion." (If you've never looked into your attachment style, you should get on that, baby.)

Shark really brings so much to the table when it comes to discussing the intricacies of all sorts of relationship dynamics. We all know communication and being your true self is where it's at, but what does that mean and how does it present itself in your relationships? Well, this episode likely has some insight into that for you.

Books recommended:

Attached by Amir Levine

Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan Love, Freedom, and Aloneness

Connect with us online!

Shark's IG: @hairshark & @hi.imshark

https://www.instagram.com/hairshark/

https://www.instagram.com/hi.imshark/

Shark's Onlyfans: https://onlyfans.com/certifiedblowpro

Oh Here We Go IG: @ohhherewego

https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/

Lacey's IG: @thelaceyclaire

https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

Stephanie's IG: @stephanieparsley

https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/