Oh Here We Go

This week we're getting queer up in here. 🌈💕✨

Steph & Lace are getting real vulnerable & open up about their sex lives & their recent experiences in that lil realm. Aside from their own sexual experiences, the two wanted to learn about Lesbian Sex & discuss what it's like experiencing those same connections with women, while educating themselves and everyone else along the way.

This episode has A LOT of tips they've used for their own lives and, honestly, for anyone who has any interest in pleasing their partner no matter where they fall on the sexuality and/or gender spectrum.

So, today's guest joins the conversation to teach them all about her own sexual experiences with women & the Lesbian community. She shares her story from coming out to now, where she's happily with her girlfriend — along with clueing in Lacey & Stephanie to a bunch of queer terms (power bottom energy, anyone?), their own sexualities, and ✨doing you✨ in life, in relationships, and — yes — the bedroom.

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In this episode Lacey and Stephanie get a little fired up remembering some pretty emotionally scaring dating experiences they've had in the past. The two discuss today's guest, Lee Hammock, and how Lacey originally found his videos on TikTok & began to wonder if she's actually dated a narcissist herself due to the similarities she was learning from Lee's videos. Lacey started sharing stories with Stephanie and the two of the them actually believe they both dated narcissists & to some degree have been emotionally abused. Lee Hammock, also known at @mentalhealnesss, comes on the podcast to talk about Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Lee is a self aware narcissist and was diagnosed with NPD in 2017. Since his diagnosis he has been making videos to bring attention & educate people on NPD & what it's like inside the mind of a narcissist. In this episode we discuss signs and symptoms of NPD, Love-Bombing, Bread-Crumbing, the ego, how you can determine if you might be dating or know a narcissist, and how the disorder can potentially develop. Lee's socials: IG: @mentalhealnesss (https://instagram.com/mentalhealnesss) TikTok: @mentalhealness (https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeCBLan5/) Our socials: IG: @ohhherewego (https://instagram.com/ohhherewegol) Stephanie's IG: @stephanieparsley (https://instagram.com/stephanieparsley) Lacey's IG: @thelaceyclaire (https://instagram.com/thelaceyclaire)

Stephanie and Lacey sit down and talk about their upbringing in Arkansas and how grateful they are to have been raised there — while also being grateful they were able to "get out."

In this episode they talk with fellow Arkansas native, Mark Monroe, to discuss their commonalities of being raised in the South and what it was like to make it out. Mark is an artist, designer, stylist, and creator that has been consistent in everything he does. He initially got his start transforming and uplifting the LGBTQ+ community by forming the House of Avalon in Arkansas, to now working with Lizzo doing her most iconic looks, as well as creating the designs for Symone on Season 13 of RuPaul's Drag Race.

Tune in and listen to the many layers that is Marko Monroe, including making it LA, his "wtf" moment, the impact of his new creative responsibilities, and what it's been like reinventing himself while staying true to himself, as well as staying inspired within his chosen family, The House of Avalon.

Mark's IG: @mark_monroe https://www.instagram.com/marko_monroe/

House of Avalon IG: @houseofavalon https://www.instagram.com/THEHOUSEOFAVALON/

Avalon TV: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8IFVxOvacdBrEvcZ5PL2sg

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Lacey & Stephanie share their first time experiencing LSD, their opinions on it, how it's changed them, and how their world view has shifted. With Stephanie & Lacey personally being passionate about psychedelics, they wanted to bring someone on who is actually involved in the decriminalization of these substances.

Today's guest, Courtney Barnes, is a partner at Barnes Caplan LLP, a boutique law and policy firm in Denver, Colorado. In addition to her work as an attorney, she is also a passionate psychedelic advocate. Courtney is the policy advisor for Decriminalize Nature and serves as General Counsel for SPORE (the Society for Psychedelic Outreach Reform and Education). In this episode the three discuss the healing benefits of psychedelics & how they are now being tested in therapeutic settings to treat things such as depression, anxiety, trauma, etc. and what that looks like for the future of medicine & the pharmaceutical industry. The girls also discuss that a critical part in moving forward in the drug policy reform movement is rectifying past injustices caused by the war on drugs. Courtney's IG: https://www.instagram.com/cbgoes_global Courtney's Law Firm: https://www.barnescaplan.com/ Decriminalize Nature: https://linktr.ee/decriminalizenature Heroic Hearts Project: https://www.heroicheartsproject.org/ Spore: https://linktr.ee/TheSPOREorg Connect with our socials Oh Here We Go socials: https://linktr.ee/Ohherewego Lacey's socials: https://linktr.ee/LaceyClaireRogers Stephanie's Socials: https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/

Lacey & Stephanie welcome on one of Lacey's ex's....Tristan Tales, a professional storyteller & social media creator. Tristan & Lacey met back in 2016 when both of them were trying to navigate the power of social media. Stephanie met Tristan during the Fyre Fest fiasco, where the 3 got stuck in Miami together. Tristan is a professional storyteller who got his start on social media through his interactive stories on Snap Chat where his audience gets to play along & choose his destiny. He then brought his stories & doodles to Instagram, then to YouTube vlogging, and now is writing & producing books, digital series, TV Shows & movies. Listen to hear the progression of Tristan's career, the ups and downs of having a career in social media, the importance of identifying your "why," and how Lacey & Tristan have turned their past into a supportive friendship. Tristan's IG: @tristantales https://instagram.com/tristantales?igshid=geek9uwf5k3m Tristan's YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/c/TristanTales Oh Here We Go Instagram: https://instagram.com/ohhherewego?igshid=19xrx9ah5enwf Lacey: https://instagram.com/thelaceyclaire Stephanie: https://instagram.com/stephanieparsley

Lacey is joined by Stephanie in Los Angeles and the two get to catch up and realize how busy they always are when they are together. Lacey also discusses deeper the story and background she has with the guest they have on. Todays guest is Whitney, a newer medium, that reached out to Lacey after seeing some orbs dancing around in her videos on Instagram. Once the two connected, Whitney was pulled to tell Lacey a lot of personal information that Lacey's grandmother had been trying to tell her during the past few months. Stephanie and Lacey decide to bring Whitney on to ask her a few questions about "Christian witchcraft" and to get a reading on Stephanie. However, each time the girls start getting messages from spirit, the internet goes out. After the interview the two then find out via phone call with Whitney that this may be due to some paranormal activity from Stephanie's past and that she might have a darker attachment causing some annual life hardships. Whitney's IG: @spellbingingghostgirl https://instagram.com/spellbindingghostgirl?igshid=t9x16axdj0zy [ Keep up with us here ] YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeoBhFtVgNLC629I5VUqCSA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/ Stephanie: https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/ Lacey: https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

Stephanie's in Los Angeles this week to join Lacey in their new studio. The two sit down to talk about some dating experiences and they discuss the anxiety that OnlyFans has been bringing Lacey recently. Joining them on this topic is Erika Costell, a top OnlyFans creator.

Some of you may know Erika as the first female daily vlogger who gained 1,000,000 followers in 24 hours and as a former Team 10 member. However, Lacey and Stephanie brought Erika on because she's also a badass entrepreneur, model, singer, and social media content creator.

The three sit down to discuss the start and growth of Erika's career, OnlyFans, how her career path might have affected the relationships in her life, passions, and other projects she's been working on.

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Stephanie and Lacey are in Denver for NYE and they sit down to reflect on their intentions for the upcoming year. They discuss pandemic dating and what's been the source of some anxiety for Lacey lately.

The two have their first in-person interview (with masks of course!) with nurse, Emily Lane. Emily worked in the front lines in NYC during the 2nd wave of COVID earlier in 2020. She was working in a unit that was turned into an End of Life unit, where she wasn't necessarily helping save lives, but more so helping them die peacefully and not alone.

We get to learn about Emily's experience working as a nurse during this time, Covid treatments, the vaccine, testings & more! This was such an eye-opening — and emotional, wow — episode.

Wear your mask!

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Wuddup, y'all. We're Stephanie Parsley and Lacey Claire Rogers, and welcome to the Oh Here We Go podcast. In this first episode, you'll get to know us, how we met, lil updates on our personal lives, and all about our intentions for future episodes!

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Well, Stephanie and Lacey are single now (things change quick lol), and they sit down to catch up on literally all things that have been going on in their personal romantic lives – from Stephanie exploring the idea of open relationships to Lacey choosing herself above settling.

We bring on Melissa Fabello, PhD for a really amazing (and life-changing tbh) conversation about polyamory, open relationships, body politics, and the overall importance of boundaries and open communication in ANY relationship. Melissa has a PhD in Human Sexuality Studies and is the author of Appetite: Sex, Touch, and Desire in Women with Anorexia. She's a digital content creator, educator, writer, consultant, and social justice activist. Not to mention one of the coolest people we've ever (virtually) met.

www.melissafabello.com instagram.com/fyeahmfabello Patreon: patreon.com/mfabello **GET HER BOOK: routledge.com/Appetite-Sex-Touch-and-Desire-in-Women-with-Anorexia/Fabello/p/book/9780367904081 [ Keep up with us here ] YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeoBhFtVgNLC629I5VUqCSA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/ Stephanie: https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/ Lacey: https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/