Podcast Swap: In this powerful and heartfelt episode of The Journey to Becoming Podcast, I sit down with Joy Johnson: Coach, Speaker, Host Of The Top 1.5% Globally Ranked Podcast “The Journey To Becoming” And The Founder Of The Joyful Fit Life Community. 

Joy is a fellow California girl! She lives in California with her husband and her two wonderful children. She says, "Today, my life is better than I could ever imagine." Listen as Joy and Rhonda share some valuable insights regarding Mentorship, Motherhood and Faith.

Together, we dive deep into biblical motherhood, mentorship, healing, and the importance of learning from the women who have gone before us. Rooted in the wisdom of Titus 2, this conversation explores how God designed women to encourage, disciple, and strengthen one another through every season of life.
Rhonda shares wisdom from over 40 years of helping women build “no regrets” lives, offering practical encouragement for mothers, grandmothers, and women seeking to grow deeper in their walk with God. I also open up about my personal testimony, the healing journey that transformed my parenting, and how I learned to create biblical boundaries in motherhood.
We talk about:
•What it means to mother from healing instead of pain
•Why your children are not extensions of you
•Biblical motherhood and the Titus 2 woman
•Christian mentorship and generational wisdom
•Emotional, mental, and physical health for women
•Becoming an advocate for yourself as you get older
•Healing family patterns through Christ
•The importance of healthy boundaries in parenting
•Faith-filled encouragement for moms in every season
This episode is filled with biblical truth, encouragement, wisdom, and practical insight for Christian women, mothers, and grandmothers who desire to grow in faith, healing, and purpose.
If you’ve been longing for encouragement in your motherhood journey or wisdom from women who have walked before you, this conversation will remind you that God is still shaping your story — and your healing matters for generations to come.
Listen now and share this episode with a woman who needs encouragement today.
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"This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Mother's Day is beautiful for many women.

But for some of you — it's complicated.

Maybe you grew up with a mom who was harsh. Critical. Absent. Selfish. Or just simply not what you needed her to be. And every Mother's Day, while the world celebrates with flowers and brunch and sentimental cards — something inside you quietly aches.

This episode is for you.

Rhonda Stoppe takes us straight to one of the most disturbing mother-daughter stories in all of Scripture.

Herodias.

You may know her as the woman who demanded John the Baptist's head on a platter.

But what you may not have considered is this —

She didn't carry that platter herself.

She sent her daughter to do it.

Herodias was so consumed by her own bitterness, her own need for revenge, her own undealt-with sin — that she used her daughter Salome as a weapon. And in doing so, she robbed that girl of half a kingdom — and trained her to become just as vile as she was.

It is one of the saddest mom stories in the entire Bible.

And Rhonda refuses to leave you there.

Because here is the truth that this episode builds to — the truth that Rhonda has watched transform women across decades of ministry:

Having a bad mom does not mean you have to become one.

In Christ — you can be the thread that changes everything in your family line. The one who says, the cycle ends with me.The one who chooses forgiveness — not because the pain wasn't real, not because what happened to you was okay — but because forgiveness is the first step to freedom.

And freedom, friend, is exactly what God has for you.

In this powerful episode you will discover:

• The shocking story of Herodias and what her revenge truly cost her daughter
• Why confronting sin in love is one of the most caring things you can do — and how to do it well
• The truth about sexual immorality that every mom needs to speak boldly into her children's lives
• Why walking in purity positions your children to make the most important decisions of their lives led by the Spirit of God
• How to forgive a mother who was harsh, abusive, or negligent — and why your freedom depends on it
• The liberating truth that in Christ you are a new creation — fully equipped to break free from whatever you were raised with

Whether you had a wonderful mom or a heartbreaking one — whether you are carrying wounds you have never spoken out loud or patterns you are terrified of repeating — this episode will meet you with grace, truth, and the hope that only comes from Jesus.

Because in Him — your story does not have to look like hers.

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Share this episode with the woman in your life who needs to know — her past does not have to be her children's future. In Christ, the cycle can end today.

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"This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

What would you grab if you had sixty seconds to leave your home forever?

It's a question most of us have never had to answer. We did during the California Wildfires. And Lot's wife did too. And her answer — told not in words but in one devastating backward glance — cost her everything.

Lot's wife had a home. A life. Possessions. A community she had built in Sodom. And when God said go — she couldn't resist one last look at everything she was leaving behind.

And in that one moment of looking back, she was gone.

Now before we shake our heads at Lot's wife — Rhonda wants us to look in the mirror first.

Because if we're honest?

We do it too.

We look back at the comfort we've lost. The life we planned. Things we thought we deserved. Stuff we accumulated can quietly become more important than our obedience to God.

And Rhonda's phrase for this episode will stay with you long after it's over —

"People over possessions."

IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL DISCOVER:

• The sobering story of Lot's wife and the one backward glance that changed everything
• Why God's command to not look back was about so much more than direction — it was about the condition of her heart
• The powerful phrase Rhonda returns to again and again: "People over possessions"
• How our attachment to comfort, stuff, and security quietly competes with our obedience to God
• The liberating truth that when we choose people over possessions — we gain something no stuff could ever give us

KEY SCRIPTURE REFERENCES:

• Genesis 19 — The story of Lot's wife
• Luke 17:32 — "Remember Lot's wife" 
• Matthew 6:19-21 — "Store up treasures in heaven"
• Luke 12:15 — "Life does not consist in an abundance of possessions"

RHONDA'S KEY PHRASE FOR THIS EPISODE: "People over possessions."

Write it on a sticky note. Let it be the filter through which you make decisions this week and always.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

📚 Moms of the Bible: Life-Changing Lessons from the Fearless, Flawed and Faithful — Rhonda Stoppe Available at NoRegretsWoman.com and wherever books are sold

🎙️ Watch all Moms of the Bible chapter teachings FREE on Rhonda's YouTube Channel Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman (Watch This episode Here)

📩 Sign up for Rhonda's monthly newsletter and receive a FREE download of Chapter 1 of Moms of the Bible at NoRegretsWoman.com

SHARE THIS EPISODE with the mom in your life who needs permission to let go — of the stuff, the plans, the backward glance — and run forward into everything God has for her.

Because the life God is calling you toward is always better than the one you're looking back at.

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Pull Up a Chair: The Conversation Every Mom Needs to Hear —Rhonda Stoppe &

Deb Weakly Get Real_A Podcast Takeover You Don't Want to Miss

What happens when two women who have spent decades pouring into moms, marriages, and families sit down together and just talk?

You get this episode.

Rhonda Stoppe of Old Ladies Know Stuff and Deb Weakly of Help Club for Moms are taking over each other's podcasts — and the wisdom they serve up in this conversation is the kind you only get from women who have lived it, prayed through it, failed at it, repented of it, and come out the other side still standing — and still deeply in love with Jesus.

In this warm, honest, laugh-out-loud and occasionally tear-jerking conversation, Rhonda and Deb tackle the real stuff — the things moms and wives are thinking about at 2am when they can't sleep:

You'll hear Deb share the single piece of parenting advice that stopped her cold — one look at her daughter's tiny hands that changed everything about how she showed up as a mom.

And you'll both laugh and nod along as these two women remind you that the gray hairs are earned, the lessons are hard-won, and the best is absolutely still ahead.

Because here's what Rhonda and Deb both know to be true:

God chose you — in this moment in history — to raise this generation. And He will not leave you to figure it out alone.

This episode covers the best marriage advice nobody tells you, the danger of making your children your best friend, what Eve's "just a little bit more" moment has to do with your scrolling habits, why stepmoms matter more than they know, the power of Scripture memory at 2am when anxiety won't let you sleep, and why linking arms with other women isn't optional — it's obedience.

Come for the wisdom. Stay for the friendship. Share it with every mom and wife you know.

Because old ladies really do know stuff — and they want to share it with you.

FIND RHONDA: NoRegretsWoman.com | Moms of the Bible | Podcast: Old Ladies Know Stuff FIND DEB:HelpClubForMoms.com | Podcast: Help Club for Moms

Deb Weakly | Co-Founder | Executive Director | Content Creator | Mothering Kit Mentor

Deb Weakly is a co-founder of Help Club for Moms, a ministry that encourages women in their faith and offers practical resources to help them thrive. She is a contributing writer to the book of the same name, The Help Club for Moms: Inspirational and Practical Help for You, Your Home, and Your Family, and to its companion series of books titled The Wise Woman. Deb and her husband, Randy, have two grown children and one grandchild.

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"This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

What if the tension in your marriage isn't a sign you married the wrong person — but an invitation to know God more deeply? Dana Che, host of the popular: Rebuilding Us Podcast and author of Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples, joins Rhonda to talk about the "long middle" of marriage — that stuck, stalled, going-through-the-motions season so many couples quietly endure. You'll walk away with fresh eyes on why couples drift apart, how contempt silently kills a marriage, and how spiritual intimacy is the missing piece that holds everything else together. Real talk. Real scripture. Real hope.

Rebuilding Us Podcast

Get Dana's Free Resources: Here

Dana's Book: Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples 

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Are you dealing with someone who's mean-spirited, manipulative, or narcissistic? Have you been praying for something for YEARS and God still hasn't answered? Do you feel stuck, alone, and wondering if God even sees you?

Hannah gets it.

In this powerful episode of Old Ladies Know Stuff, Rhonda Stoppe unpacks the story of Hannah from 1 Samuel 1-2—a woman who faced infertility, a narcissistic rival wife, and years of unanswered prayers. But her story doesn't end in despair—it ends in influence that shaped generations.

In this episode, you'll discover:

✨ How to recognize narcissistic behavior (in family members, friends, spouses, or even yourself) and what to do about it

✨ What to do when spiritual leaders let you down—and why church hurt shouldn't drive you away from God's people

✨ The power of persistent prayer—Hannah never stopped asking God for a child, and her faithfulness changed history

✨ How to find joy even when circumstances are painful—Hannah's secret wasn't her situation; it was her satisfaction in God alone

✨ Why keeping your promises to God matters—even when it doesn't make sense (like Hannah giving Samuel back to Eli, who wasn't exactly father-of-the-year material)

✨ The difference between being a consumer of church and being part of the body—Rhonda gets real about why watching online isn't enough

This episode is for you if:

• You're in a relationship with a narcissist and feel trapped
• You've been praying for something and God keeps saying "not yet"
• Someone in your life is mean, manipulative, or constantly making you feel small
• You've been hurt by church leaders and are tempted to walk away
• You're waiting for God to answer a prayer and wondering if He even hears you
• You need a reminder that your identity isn't in your circumstances—it's in Christ alone

Rhonda gets vulnerable about her own experience living with a narcissistic sister, shares powerful insights about how to set boundaries, and reminds us that faithful motherhood isn't about what we DO for our children—it's about how we lean into God through the journey.

Hannah's story proves that what you're walking through right now isn't wasted. Someone is watching. And your faithfulness in the hard seasons will become a legacy that outlasts you.

Listen now and let Hannah's story of persistent prayer, unshakable joy, and patient waiting inspire you to keep trusting God—even when life feels unfair.

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"This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Have you ever whispered to yourself at night, "I'll be a better mom tomorrow"—but tomorrow never comes?

Maybe you're carrying guilt from your past. Decisions you regret. Sins you're ashamed of. Things you wish you could go back and undo.

And you wonder: Can God really use someone like me?

In this powerful episode of Old Ladies Know Stuff, Rhonda Stoppe introduces Chapter 1 of her new book Moms of the Bible: Life-Changing Lessons from the Fearless, Flawed and Faithful by unpacking the incredible story of Rahab the prostitute—a woman with the shadiest past imaginable who became part of Jesus' family line.

In this episode, you'll discover:

✨ Why Rahab is called "the harlot" throughout Scripture—and what that means for moms who feel defined by their past

✨ How a prostitute became a hero of the faith mentioned in Hebrews 11 and the lineage of King David and Jesus

✨ The woman at the well's story—why Jesus went out of His way to meet her in her shame and how He turned her into the first evangelist

✨ What "though your sins are as scarlet, He will wash them white as snow" actually means for your motherhood today

✨ Why Satan wants you to stay stuck in shame—and how to break free from regrets that hold you back

✨ How God uses "shady ladies" to raise world-changers—proving that your past doesn't disqualify you from faithful motherhood

This episode is for you if:

• You're carrying shame from past sins and wonder if God can still use you
• You've made decisions you deeply regret and feel disqualified from being a "good mom"
• You're struggling with the lie that you're not worthy of God's calling
• You need to know that redemption is real—and available to YOU today

Rhonda vulnerably shares why she would have been the woman at the well without Jesus, and how studying these biblical "shady ladies" gave her hope that no matter what your past looks like, God's grace is bigger.

Here's the truth: Romans 5:8 says God showed His love for us while we were still sinners. You don't have to clean yourself up first. Jesus meets you in your mess and washes you clean.

Your past doesn't define you. Your Savior does.

Listen now and discover the fearless faith that cleanses all sin and shame.

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"This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Are you a single woman praying God will bring the right person? Or a mom watching your son or daughter date someone and thinking, "Please, Lord, don't let them marry that person"?

This episode is for BOTH of you.

In this powerful conversation, Rhonda Stoppe draws from 44 years of marriage, raising four married children, and mentoring countless couples to share the hard-won wisdom every single woman—and every worried mama—needs to hear about choosing a spouse.

For Singles: You've heard all the advice about "waiting on God" and "trusting His timing." But what does choosing wisely actually look like? How do you know if the guy you're dating is the man you should marry? And what red flags are you ignoring because you're tired of being alone?

For Moms: Your daughter is head-over-heels for a guy who gives you pause. Or your son is dating someone you're not sure about. How do you guide without controlling? When should you speak up? And how do you pray effectively when you see warning signs they don't?

In this episode, Rhonda tackles:

• The difference between godly attraction and settling out of loneliness
• Red flags that predict marital disaster (chemistry can't overcome these)
• Green flags that actually matter (hint: it's not how romantic he is)
• Why "equally yoked" means more than just both being Christians
• The questions that MUST be asked before engagement—about faith, finances, family, and the future
• What missionary dating is—and why it never works
• How moms can guide their adult children without pushing them away
• When to speak up about concerns—and how to do it with grace
• What to do when your child won't listen to your warnings

Whether you're praying for your own future spouse or interceding for your child's relationship, this episode will equip you with biblical wisdom, practical discernment, and the courage to have hard conversations.

Because the choice made at the altar shapes everything that follows. Choose wisely, friend—or help the ones you love choose wisely. Eternity hangs in the balance.

CALL TO ACTION

📖 Want to go deeper?

• Grab Rhonda's book Real Life Romance for more biblical wisdom on marriage
• Check out Moms of the Bible for encouragement in your motherhood journey

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Your marriage matters. Your child's marriage matters. Let's choose wisely—together.

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"This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Ever feel like reading the Bible is something you "should" do rather than something you genuinely want to do? You're not alone! In this engaging episode of Old Ladies Know Stuff, Rhonda Stoppe welcomes Keith Ferrin—author, speaker, and "Your Bible Coach"—for an inspiring conversation about transforming your Bible reading from duty to delight.

Keith shares his powerful personal journey of the exact moment (April 18, 1993!) when everything changed for him, taking him from feeling obligated to read Scripture to becoming passionate about God's Word. Discover the simple mindset shift that positions you to actually ENJOY the Bible, practical tools to understand and remember what you read, and the biggest mistake people make when approaching Scripture.

Whether you're a longtime Bible student who's lost your spark or someone just starting to explore God's Word, this conversation is packed with wisdom, humor, and actionable insights. Keith breaks down why reading the Bible relationally—not just informationally—changes everything, and shares his "simplest way to study any Bible passage" (it fits on one page!).

Get ready to laugh, learn, and rediscover that the Bible isn't just true and relevant—it's awesome! No matter your age or stage of life, this episode will inspire you to open your Bible with fresh eyes and a hungry heart.

Resources mentioned: Keith's books, courses, and the BibleLife Community™

Bio:

Keith Ferrin is an author, speaker, and word-for-word biblical storyteller. He is also "Your Bible Coach" on YouTube. He founded his ministry in 1996 and travels around the U.S. and internationally, speaking at conferences, churches, retreats, and universities. He utilizes humor, practical workshops, and word-for-word presentations of whole books of the Bible (we're not kidding!) to help people fall in love with God's Word and its Author.

After earning his undergraduate degree in Psychology, he spent six years as a youth and worship pastor at a church plant in Tacoma, WA. He earned his M.Ed. in Guidance & Counseling and spent a couple years counseling at a public elementary school. Since then, Keith has been speaking, writing and creating videos and resources full-time.

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Best of 2025 Episode: The Power of Imperfect Motherhood: Mandy Arioto on Raising Kids with Authenticity and Grace

In this deeply inspiring conversation, Rhonda Stoppe sits down with Mandy Arioto, CEO of Mom.Co (formerly MOPS), to discuss the profound spiritual calling of motherhood and why moms are some of the most underrated influencers on the planet.

Mandy shares her unexpected journey from turning down a job offer to packing a U-Haul eight days later after a divine wake-up call, reminding us that God's plans often don't make sense in the moment but become crystal clear in hindsight. From managing a ministry reaching over 10 million moms annually to launching the new podcast "The Mandy Show," Mandy brings wisdom, humor, and refreshing honesty to the conversation.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why 93% of moms strive for perfection—and why our kids don't need perfect moms, they need real ones
• How to stop raising your children for what people think of you (this perspective will set you free!)
• The fascinating truth about why marketers call moms "the most powerful evangelists on the planet"
• How to find redemption when you feel like you've failed as a mom
• Why the mundane tasks of motherhood are actually profound acts of eternal significance
• How God uses our trials not just to shape us, but to validate our testimony to those watching

Mandy vulnerably shares her own parenting failures—from catching three kids throwing up in her hands to telling her son "you deserve it" when he got sick from smoking pot—and how modeling authentic apologies shapes our children far more than projecting perfection.

Whether you're in the trenches of toddlerhood, navigating the teen years, or preparing for the empty nest, this conversation will remind you that your influence as a mom matters far more than you realize. Your everyday faithfulness is writing a legacy that will outlast any career achievement or social media following.

Resources mentioned:

• Mom.Co groups and communities
• MomCon 2025 (September 24-26, Orlando, Florida)
• New YouVersion devotional on Motherhood in the Bible
• "The Mandy Show" podcast (launching September 2025)
• Mandy's books: Have More Fun, Starry Eyed, Wild Hope, and Breathing Room

Connect with Mandy at MandyArioto.co and find a Mom.Co community near you at TheMom.Co.

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