This episode was supposed to be a full 1% Better deep dive… and then the hard drive humbled us. 😅 We lost the core conversation, but the “Yada Yada” trending segment was so real we decided to drop it anyway.

In this one, we start by reacting to a viral clip about raising a bully instead of a victim and end up unpacking how we were taught to fight, save face, and prove we’re not “soft.” The fight stories are funny, but the bigger question is serious: how do you teach your kids to protect themselves without passing down your trauma or glorifying violence?

From there, we tap into the Russell Wilson Thanksgiving clip — the one where another NFL player calls his family dinner “lame.” We talk about why being a present husband and father gets labeled “corny,” why the internet loves toxic over healthy, and how too many mid-level dudes feel entitled to tear down men who are actually winning in real life.

The energy shifts when Alex brings up the passing of the oldest living survivor of the Tulsa Race Massacre. That opens up a heavier conversation about how America rewrites our history, links between Tulsa, Emmett Till, Rodney King and today’s headlines, and why diversity and representation aren’t “handouts” — they’re survival tools.

This episode is exactly what the title says: we’re yapping. But in the middle of the jokes and side stories, we’re really asking:

What are we normalizing — in parenting, in manhood, and in how we remember (or erase) Black pain and progress?

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