One Voice Evolving

White privilege isn't just a buzzword—it's a reality that demands our attention and action. Through candid discussions about personal journeys and the societal structures that perpetuate inequality, we promise you'll gain a deeper understanding of systemic racism and the barriers that often hold white women back from engaging in these crucial conversations. Rejecting the outdated notion of being "colorblind," we emphasize the importance of recognizing privilege and the courage it takes to confront our own biases.

With special guest Mary Rarick, we dive into the roles white women can play in dismantling racism and the power of collective action for meaningful change. Mary is a caffeine-addicted super connector, former managing editor and digital communications consultant turned political activist. Leveraging her guilt and rage hangover from 2016, Mary stepped out of her introverted shell and began showing up at grassroots political events in 2019. Since then she's learned that even when she's terrified, there's a huge payoff in showing up, making mistakes, and doing her best. Today she communicates fearlessly to make connections, build trust and be a catalyst for change.

Social media isn't just for selfies anymore—it's a powerful tool for advocacy and change. This episode explores the transformative power of TikTok and other platforms in amplifying voices and fostering allyship. Curated videos are more than just entertainment—they're a medium for shared experiences that resonate deeply with audiences. We delve into the nuances of privilege, allyship, and the discomfort of being called out, offering a roadmap for using our platforms and voices to empower others. We also highlight the varied ways individuals can engage in activism, whether through direct actions or quieter support efforts, all while respecting personal limits and strengths.

Online activism is a double-edged sword, offering both opportunities for impactful collaborations and challenges like dealing with trolls. We discuss how digital communities can build meaningful relationships and drive social and political causes, with a nod to inspiring initiatives like the "Friday Power Lunch" Zoom calls. The importance of self-care in activism to prevent burnout is also a key focus, underscoring the need for balance. This episode doesn't just talk the talk; it walks you through resources like "Sundown Towns" and "The Color of Law" to provide a well-rounded perspective on tackling racism. Listen in as we celebrate the power of unity, learning, and the relentless pursuit of equity.

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Meet an extraordinary mystic and intuitive in her eighth decade, taking us through a rich tapestry of experiences that have shaped her understanding of growth, identity, and race. Growing up in Brooklyn and Long Island, Aubrye Arbe was deeply influenced by her mother's teachings on equality and justice, which set the foundation for her lifelong journey.

Her vivid reflections on the racial dynamics of her early years and the transformative era of 1960s New York City offer a unique perspective on embracing diversity and staying true to oneself amidst societal pressures. 

As we navigate this enlightening conversation, Aubrye shares insights from her seminars on self-love and the distinction between the soul essence and ego personality. At 82, she continues to work on self-growth with the aid of a protective prayer, underscoring the importance of evolving at one's own pace.

She challenges conventional ideas like being "colorblind" and asks us to truly see and appreciate the diversity of racial identities and experiences. Through her lens, we explore the power of authentic connections and the ongoing commitment to societal change, including pressing issues like white privilege and reparations. 

This episode closes with a heartfelt exploration of community, gratitude, and wisdom as we consider the future of our world. Aubrye reflects on the beauty of personal expression and the deeper meanings behind what we choose to reveal, urging us to foster resilience and adaptability for future generations. It's a call to embrace unity and authenticity, leaving listeners with a warm and hopeful outlook for what's to come.

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Mary Jo Honiotes (Honey-Otis) comes to us from Denver, Colorado and joins us this episode to highlight the importance of moving past superficial conversations to truly understand the barriers faced by marginalized communities. She owns and operates a medicaid agency, helping people who are living in poverty find affordable, independent housing. Prior to this work, and continuing through this work, Mary Jo is a mindfulness educator and student. She has a BA in communications and an MA in Consciousness Studies. She is a gifted facilitator, an experienced public speaker, spiritual coach and director. People are the spice of her life and she comes from a legacy of "equity" for all.

Through her role at Centers for Spiritual Living and involvement with the RAARE Women Collective, she has learned the value of listening and building trust within multicultural settings. We discuss how white women can become safe spaces for authentic discussions about racism and equity, and the necessity of integrating racial equity into our daily lives. We shared a moment of reflection on Kamala Harris's nomination and the growing responsibility of white women to step into spaces of racial equity, even when it means confronting our own fears of making mistakes.

We then focus on the distinction between being an ally, advocate, and operative, and how active engagement in support roles can drive meaningful change. Together, we explore practical strategies for civic engagement, the importance of support systems, and building trust through tangible actions. By embracing uncharted territories with courage, we illustrate the potential for unprecedented learning and growth. Join us on this heartfelt journey towards collective success, grounded in the bravery required to venture into new paths.

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Join us on this transformative journey as we explore the "messy middle" of life's significant transitions.

In this episode, I share personal stories of perseverance, touching on the challenges of burnout and depression that often accompany career changes, relationships, and personal projects. We examine the unique ways men and women handle midlife changes and the power of taking small, steady steps toward progress, even when it feels overwhelming. Amid the current political climate, we emphasize the importance of staying engaged and proactive as we approach a crucial election. Discover the transformative power of patience, resilience, and collective action.

We also explore the emotional rollercoaster that white individuals may experience as they confront the loss of perceived privileges. The host discusses the stages of grief and the importance of finding supportive communities. She shares her journey with the RAARE Woman Collective (R-A-A-R-E) and highlights the upcoming town hall summit featuring Dr. Nikki Lanier, which aims to equip white women with the tools and knowledge to take meaningful action ahead of the November 5th election.

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This episode of the podcast offers a compelling and hopeful perspective on advancing racial equity. Dr. Nikki Lanier's approach, grounded in grace and compassion, provides a roadmap for women to lead meaningful change without alienating those around them. As we look toward a future where Black and Hispanic populations will become the demographic majority, the urgency of this work cannot be overstated. Join us in this enlightening discussion and discover how you can contribute to a more equitable and inclusive world.

For more insights and resources, be sure to check out the full episode and explore the initiatives of the Rare Woman Collective. Together, we can create lasting change and build a world where racial equity is not just an aspiration but a reality.

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Today our guest is Lynn Schussler-Williams, who is a certified Reset-It specialist, speaker, and author. Lynn teaches a remarkable process to release what doesn't belong to you and changes perspectives and results. For over 20 years Lynn has worked with individuals and groups, helping them accelerate results, create richer, more fulfilling lives. She's on a mission to help people learn to reset their programming and conditioning that holds them back or keeps them stuck. She and I are both involved with the RAARE Woman Collective, which is headed by Dr. Nikki Lanier.

Our racial equity focus is being absorbed by the greater movement of women of all races, nationalities, backgrounds, religions, political structure coming together for a common good and a common goal. So for about the next 84 days, we are going to be giving our listeners tips, tools, and tricks to help you get unstuck from uncomfortable places, so you can keep moving forward in harmony with our sisters around us. Now, our intention is that this doesn't stop at 84 days, but that this is the catalyst that brought us together in a way that nothing else could have, so that we can then move for the good of all, going forward in a much more effective and much more organized manner.

Lynn is the author of the nationally recognized book 9. Little words to change your results, releasing old patterns and moving forward with 3 short phases as seen in Oprah magazine. She is a recognized speaker on topics, and champion of women entrepreneurs, women in leadership, women in business. 

Please enjoy this time with us. It's conversational, it's personal. It's a little political, and it is a safe space for you to begin to examine what it is you want out of this one and only life for yourselves, for your community, and in my case, for your children and your grandchildren, but especially your granddaughters.

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Explore how to process emotions within your body to overcome trauma and create a life of freedom and joy. Unleash your true potential and break free from generational and collective traumas.

With the conversation shifting here at One Voice Evolving, there's been a natural evolution of including political dialogue in our discussions and topics. As a result of this, it was timely to undergird this expansion with a close look at how somatic healing can aide in our quest to foster healthy civil discourse.

Tara Hettrick is a somatic healing coach dedicated to helping high-achieving, heart-centered individuals uncover their true essence and reach their full potential. Using a blend of behavioral, unconscious, mental, and emotional techniques,

Tara guides clients towards clarity, joy, freedom, and the ultimate reclamation of self. Rooted in the wisdom of the body and intuition, her approach honors each unique journey. Tara supports clients in embracing their inner queen or king, transforming emotional blocks into catalysts for growth, and leading lives of purpose and fulfillment. With Tara, clients delve deep, release limitations, and empower themselves to shine brightly.

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Have you ever been told you were too much, high maintenance or not enough?

Based on the viral video that birthed the Too Much Woman movement, Gina Hatzis was featured in a Los Angeles article as one of the 3 most important events to empower women in 2019 which is the year that I met her.

We recorded the day after 'Answer the Call 2024' white women's call occurred and It was a fascinating conversation. Gina tells us that the power of the Phoenix isn't just that it rose from the ashes but that it was brave enough to set its own nest on fire. The energy and the enthusiasm and the movement that is arising among women in our country right now is going to shift this planet.

Be part of it. Gina's passion is contagious and her commitment is clear. Get the word out that we are in this together.

This is a message whose time has come.

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Meet Laurel K. Rutledge, your Chief Navigation Officer™! She's not your average coach. She’s your business and organizational strategy consultant and advisor with some super deep coaching mixed in. With a background in in accounting, consulting, risk management, and HR, across multiple industries, Laurel is the secret sauce for successful business owners.

Holding a myriad of professional certifications, she is a graduate of The Center for Houston’s Future Business/Civic Leadership Forum and a member of the NASDAQ Entrepreneurial Center’s Milestone Circles. Laurel is intent upon using her expertise to help woman business owners/co-owners step into their CEO energy and build the businesses and cultures they wish to work in.

The key to success is Laurel’s AlignmentVisionAction© Model, based on her nearly 30 years of corporate experience. It is the framework for connecting strategies to intentional actions leading to expected outcomes. As her entrepreneur, individual and corporate clients can attest, whether you are building a business, a career or a life, AVA© is the key. When she's not serving business owners and corporate leaders through retained strategic services, intensives, or customized programs, Laurel is working on the next iteration of her long-running podcast, listening to other podcasts or learning something new to share with her clients. And maybe throwing in some reading and attempts to work on her golf game in the mix.

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What is intersectionality? Intersectionality is a concept coined by Kimberlé Crenshaw in 1989 to describe how various forms of social subcategories, such as race, gender, and class, intersect to create unique dynamics and effects. When we recognize that individuals can't be defined by a single aspect of their identity, we begin to see the full picture of their lived experiences.

This deeper understanding enables us to address the complex realities of discrimination and oppression. This is particularly true in this political season. The ‘gotcha’ mentality comes from a biopic perspective on humanity - there’s one way, the right way, my way. That has never been helpful for creating safe spaces for people to connect.

I share about intersectionality and civil discourse and how we can have a significant impact living in a racial world.

In this 10th episode of our podcast, I reflect on the first episodes and zero in on the past month's conversations and eagerly share my learnings and areas of growth in leading the mission of One Voice Evolving to come to fruition.

Thank you for being on this journey with me. I invite you to like, share, comment and subscribe so we can join together to advance the important work of racial equity.

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