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Join host Debra Pascali-Bonaro focuses on breaking down barriers and healing shame surrounding sexuality and childbirth. In this episode, she dispels myths around pain during childbirth, explaining that it is manageable and that there are ways to bring comfort and pleasure to the experience. The conversation encourages individuals to have open conversations with their healthcare providers about their desires for intimacy and pleasure during labor, as well as having a supportive team.
In this episode:
Key Takeaways:
Tweetable Quotes:
"Each birth deserves fullness of experience and feeling safe and honored" - Debra Pascali-Bonaro
"We must come together and help every woman that's preparing for birth to do it in her way to be heard, to be seen, and to create safe environments. So birth can be the fullest for every person." - Debra Pascali-Bonaro
Connect with Debra!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/debra.pascalibonaro
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/
Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable
births.
Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the
World!
Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood.
Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth, as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
Jessica Pin is an advocate for inclusion of detailed clitoral anatomy in medical literature and curricula, training standards for vulvar procedures, and correction of medical misinformation about vulvas. She has gotten 12 major medical textbooks, 2 top anatomy apps, and multiple online resources to update their content, and more to promise future updates. She has also published a cadaveric study with plastic surgeons, convinced OB/GYNs to publish a cadaveric study, and effected changes in OB/GYN and plastic surgery board certification, standardized consent forms, and residency curricula. She holds a degree in Biomedical Engineering from Washington University in St. Louis.
In this episode:
Key Takeaways:
Tweetable Quotes:
"Women should advocate for themselves and help medical providers realize that it's not just a matter of hormones and psychology." - Jessica Pin
"The role of pleasure in childbirth is often overlooked, but studies suggest that it can desensitize us to pain. We need to pay more attention to the clitoris and protect it during birth and surgery." - Jessica Pin
"The clitoris has been disregarded because of taboos around female sexuality, separating reproduction from pleasure even though it doesn't make sense." - Jessica Pin
Connect with Jessica:
Social Media: Instagram, Tiktok, Twitter
Connect with Debra!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/debra.pascalibonaro
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/
Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable
births.
Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the
world!
Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood.
Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
Barbara Harper is an internationally recognized expert on waterbirth and gentle birth. She founded Waterbirth International in 1987, with one goal in mind – to ensure that waterbirth is an "available option" for all birthing families. She has published dozens of professional articles and interviewed in hundreds of magazines, newspapers and talk shows. Her 2015 bestselling book and DVD, 'Gentle Birth Choices,' has been translated into 9 languages, including a 2016 Mandarin Chinese edition. During the past four decades Barbara has worked as an obstetric and pediatric nurse, midwife, midwifery instructor, childbirth educator, doula and doula trainer and Blissborn Hypnosis instructor and professional trainer. She has used her vast experience in maternity care to develop unique seminars which she teaches within hospitals, nursing schools, midwifery and medical schools and community groups worldwide. Prior to Covid Barbara traveled and taught in 75 countries. She is asked to return for training in hospitals yearly in many countries including China, Argentina, UAE, Israel, Spain, Mexico, Chile, and locations all over the US. She lives in Boca Raton, Florida, and currently is the Director of Education for the Bliss Birth and Wellness Center in West Palm Beach. She is a community volunteer and midwifery and doula mentor.
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Key Takeaways:
Tweetable Quotes:
"It's easier for the mother to assume that upright posture to put her hands on her perineum, to guide the baby out herself. It's easier for her to connect and to release all of the 33 hormones that birthing requires." - Barbara Harper
Connect with Barbara:
Website:www.waterbirth.org
Connect with Debra!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/debra.pascalibonaro
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/
Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable
births.
Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the
world!
Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood.
Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
I recently saw an incredible video Anatomy of the Clitoris: Learn Integral Anatomy with Gil Hedley. I smiled, I had met Gil many years ago when he was having his children, I trained his sister as a doula and have loved following her path as she is now a midwife. Even Gils mother trained as a postpartum doula with me and we worked together for several years. So now to see his work so well describe the clitoris describing in his words 'a beautiful gift and the blessing of the clitoris', I knew I had to reach out to invite him to join me to share with you all his thoughts about the clitoris and any thoughts about the role it may play in labor and birth and his insight for an Orgasmic Birth
In this episode:
Key Takeaways:
Tweetable Quotes:
"There's nothing in our body that is of of single purpose Everything is multipurpose and it's beautiful." -Gil Hedley
Connect with Gil:
Website: https://www.gilhedley.com/
Social Media: Youtube
Connect with Debra!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/debra.pascalibonaro
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/
Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable
births.
Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the
world!
Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood.
Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
Stephanie Larson, the visionary founder of Dancing For Birth™, is a renowned expert in childbirth and movement. Her revolutionary childbirth method has helped countless women and birthing individuals achieve blissful and effortless births. Birth professionals can attend the Dancing For Birth™ Professional Training to learn and utilize this proven method. Parents worldwide can also benefit from the powerful combination of fitness, childbirth education, and celebration offered in Dancing For Birth™ classes taught across seven continents. Join Stephanie in empowering your body and birth experience through movement and instinct.
In this episode:
Stephanie Larson is the visionary founder of Dancing for Birth, a revolutionary childbirth method that promotes blissful birth through movement and instinct
Stephanie's personal experience of dancing through labor inspired her to create Dancing for Birth and help women give birth with ease and pleasure
The importance of following your body's sensations during labor and how movement can help with childbirth pain relief and promote a positive birth experience
The euphoric potential of birth and the role of movement and dancing in releasing happy hormones like oxytocin and endorphins
Using dance as a tool to connect with and love your body during pregnancy, birth, and postpartum, and celebrating the body's capabilities
Key Takeaways:
Childbirth is natural and can benefit from movement and dance
Caregiver approach can impact the birth experience and outcomes
Empowerment can come from trusting one's body, intuition, and making personal choices
Sensing labor can help honor the body's needs and provide space and positioning for birth.
Dancing during labor releases endorphins and oxytocin, creating a positive birth experience.
Pregnancy, birth, and postpartum are ideal times to connect with and love your body by celebrating it
Connect with Stephanie:
Website: https://www.dancingforbirth.com/
Tweetable Quotes:
"If we feel something in our body and then we follow that, then we're really honoring how our body needs to birth and how our baby needs us to birth." - Stephanie Larson
Connect with Debra!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/obirth
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/
Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable
births.
Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the
world!
Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood.
Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
In this episode, Debra shares how expecting mothers can positively prepare for an orgasmic birth. From researching birth options to expressing feelings and wishes through birth art, Debra helps create a birth plan that reflects their preferences. She discusses ways to make labor enjoyable, such as using movement, creating a safe environment, and limiting vaginal exams. With valuable tips on communication, pain management, and making cesarean births positive, this episode is a must-listen for soon-to-be parents.
In this episode:
Good communication with the care team is key to having a positive birth experience
Recognizing the baby's own path and being prepared for a fluid process is essential to achieving an orgasmic birth
Research and understand the different options available for the place of birth and the caregivers, including physicians, midwives, and doulas
Write a mission statement about the core beliefs and values of the birthing experience and stay positive when stating preferences in the birth plan
Key Takeaways:
Creating and communicating birth preferences, or birth desires, is an essential part of preparing for a safe, gentle, and pleasurable birth.
It's important to put time into understanding and researching your options for childbirth, to craft your desires and discuss them with your care team
Understanding birth options is essential to have choices during childbirth, and communication with caregivers is key to ensuring a positive birth experience
Knowing the difference between physicians, midwives, and doulas is vital in choosing a caregiver that aligns with your birth preferences, and open communication with them is crucial
Tweetable Quotes:
"Always remember that birth is a dance for two, and that you'll create your preferences and labor will let you know what's safest and best for you and your baby." - Debra Pascali Bonaro
Connect with Debra!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/obirth
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/
Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable births.
Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the
world!
Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood.
Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
Kaitlin McGreyes is the founder of BeHerVillage, a gift registry for parents to find and fund the care they need as they welcome their babies. She began her career as a birth doula in 2014, providing support to hundreds of families through their parenthood journeys. Kaitlin has since founded a doula team, mentored aspiring doulas, and advocated for the rights of birthing people. She is also dedicated to helping birth workers enter the retail baby gift industry.
Welcome Kaitlin
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Key Takeaways:
Tweetable Quotes:
"It was not about having an intervention-free birth. It was about having a birth where I felt in charge and in the driver's seat." - Kaitlin McGreyes
Connect with Kaitlin McGreyes!
Website:https://behervillage.com/
Social Media: Instagram, Facebook, TikTok
Connect with Debra!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/obirth
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/
Use promo code ORGASMICBIRTH25 to get a 25% discount on any paid partnership or certification course offered by BeHerVillage.
Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable births.
Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the world!
Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood.
Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
Dawn Leonard is a womb healing practitioner who has devoted over a decade to the art of healing the womb space, including both the physical uterus and the energetics of the "second chakra". Her journey began with fertility and has since led her through a range of experiences, including pregnancy, birth, loss, menstruation, ceremony, and energy healing. Dawn specializes in the initiatory experiences inherent in the body of a woman or person with a uterus, and her passion is to empower others on their own journey towards womb healing.
Welcome Dawn
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Key Takeaways:
Tweetable Quotes:
"Intimacy requires safety, Learning how to feel safe in our bodies, when we feel safe in our bodies we can birth easily and sex is a lot more expansive." - Dawn Leonard
Connect with Dawn Leonard!
Website: https://sacred-rhythms.com/
Social Media: Instagram
Connect with Debra!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/obirth
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/
Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable
births.
Check out Positively Prepare for Birth with Pleasurable Birth Essentials: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/pleasurable-birth-essentials/
Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood.
Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
Besides being a Medical Doctor, Nienke Stoop was trained to be an Acupuncturist, Master Face Reader, Life Coach, Fertility Expert and Healer. She is dedicated to bridging Western science and Eastern wisdom, facilitating the dawn of a new paradigm in Personal Health, Medicine and Healing. Nienke is the co-founder of de Geboortenis Foundation, a Dutch initiative in the support of integral - body&mind focussed health in childbirth and healthcare in the first 1000 days.
In 2021 she published her first book in the Netherlands called Life Force- your first 1000 days in a new light. I have been grateful to have met Nienke in person joining her to speak about Orgasmic birth and also as a part of our Birth Your Dreams Mastermind as we learn from Marie Forleo's B-School so that we can transform our birth business with pleasure too.
In this episode:
Key Takeaways:
Tweetable Quotes:
"Birth is a magical window because if we can allow birth to be a gentle process, a joyful transition and a moment of sacred meeting, you know you will fall in love with your baby in that birthing process." - Nienke Stoop
Connect with Nienke Stoop!
Website: https://lotuscoach.nl/ , https://geboortenis.nl/birthing-a-healthy-community
Social Media: Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook
Free Fertility Call: https://bookme.name/nienkestoop/gratisfertilitycall
Connect with Debra!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/obirth
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/
Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable births.
Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the world!
Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood.
Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
My guest today is extra special to me. Clancy McCarty is a registered nurse, and student-nurse midwife who spent over a decade as a documentary film producer with Every Mother Counts, the maternal health advocacy non-profit founded by Christy Turlington Burns that aims to make pregnancy and childbirth safe globally. Prior to becoming a student nurse-midwife, Clancy completed her doula training with Debra. She is the co-founder of Pregnancy Pathways, a consulting company providing education, resources, and guidance on how to find birth teams and settings for expecting parents in Los Angeles. She most recently became a mom, giving birth at home surrounded by midwives. She is here to talk with us about
Storytelling and Birth Work. Welcome Clancy!
In this episode:
Key Takeaways:
Tweetable Quotes:
"Because as everybody knows, it takes a village to give birth." - Clancy McCarty
"Your birth and postpartum, it isn't just so straightforward as your vital signs look good and your baby's growing and then you're off. It is an all-encompassing, holistic experience that you're going through, and so if there's other things in your life that are causing some difficulty, it is very worth it to address those other areas." - Clancy McCarty
Connect with Clancy!
Website: https://www.thepregnancypathways.com/
Social Media: Instagram
Connect with Debra!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/debra.pascalibonaro
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/
Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable
births.
Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the
world!
Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood.
Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
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