Our Better Half

How do we communicate sexually? Is it verbal? Non-verbal? A combination of each? On today's show, Jane and Ashley discuss what the research says about sexual communication and the results of our first listeners' survey. As always, they've got tips for you. Give a listen, and enjoy!

Research we discussed on today's show: Fleishman, J. M. (2016). Coming of age at the time of Stonewall: Internalized homophobia, sexual communication, resilience, relationship satisfaction, and sexual satisfaction in aging adults in same-sex relationships. (Unpublished dissertation).Widener University, Chester, PA

Holmberg, D., & Blair, K. L. (2009). Sexual desire, communication, satisfaction, and preferences of men and women in same-sex versus mixed-sex relationships. Journal of Sex Research, 46(1), 57-66. doi: 10.1080/00224490802645294

Kaplan, H. S. (1974). The new sex therapy. New York: Brunner/Mazel.

Mader, A. (2013). Older adult experiences of their sexuality: A phenomenological inquiry. (Unpublished dissertation). Widener University, Chester, PA.

Masters, W. H., & Johnson, V. E. (1970). Human sexual inadequacy. Boston, MA: Little, Brown & Company.

Timm, T. M., & Keiley, M. K. (2011). The effects of differentiation of self, adult attachment, and sexual communication on sexual and marital satisfaction: A path analysis. Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy, 37, 206-223. doi: 10.1080/0092623x.2011.564513

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This week we talked to Joan Price, the author of The Ultimate Guide to Sex After 50, Naked at Our Age and Better Than I Ever Expected. In this episode Joan speaks about her inspiration for her books, the changes in the field of sexuality and aging, sex toys and tips for both older adults and younger folks in regards to sex and aging. For more information on Joan Price and to check out her books go to http://www.joanprice.com/.

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What do we mean when we talk about body image? What are the researchers saying about it? How does body image affect us as we age? And what are the implications on our sexuality? Join us as Jane and Ashley discuss the latest research and give some tips.

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Research we discussed on today's show: Koch, P. B., Kernoff, P. M., Thurau, D., & Carey, M. (2005). "Feeling frumpy": The relationships between body image and sexual response changes in midlife women, Journal of Sex Research, 42(3), 215-223. click here to reach the abstract.

Mader, A. (2013). Older adult experiences of their sexuality: A phenomenological inquiry. (Unpublished dissertation). Widener University, Chester, PA.

This week we talked to Joan Ditzion, one of the authors of Our Bodies, Ourselves. In this episode Joan speaks about the history and inspiration of the legendary book and how it has evolved throughout the years. And she has tips for women on different aspects of aging.

For more information on Our Bodies, Ourselves or to check out their great web resources, visit https://www.ourbodiesourselves.org

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This week we cover a few topics that affect us as we age. We have the great pleasure to have Dr. Mitchell Tepper, a sexologist who focuses on sex and disabilities on our show this week. Mitch discusses his research and an extraordinary documentary he and Dr. Mark Schoen are creating called, "Love After War." It's an in-depth look into the lives of active duty service members and veterans who have returned home with physical and/or psychological health challenges that are creating difficulties in their intimate and sexual lives as they age. Here's a link to the film so you can see the trailer. Another excellent resource on sexuality and health disparities that Mitch discussed is The Morehouse Center for Excellence for Sexual Health. And please write to Mitch if you're interested in any of the articles he cited.

Continuing our exploration into Black History Month, we translate some recent research results about Black women's sexuality and aging from Dr. Erika Evans-Weaver, whose doctoral research results can be found at the Widener University Wolfgram Memorial Library.

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Show Notes #50

Interview with Patti Britton

On this show, we have an interview with the fabulous Dr. Patti Britton talking about her work, her loss, and how her work moves her through her grief. Find out more about Sexology University and Sex Coach U here at Dr. Patti Britton's website.

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As this is the start of Black History month, we wanted to raise up the work of Black women who've expanded our knowledge of sexuality and why Black Lives Matter. So stay with us. We talk about talented and courageous Black women: Audre Lorde, Angela Bowen, Mandy Carter, and Imani Woody. And we explain why Black Lives Matter to us as two white women.

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Resource links:

You can learn more about how to support Black Lives Matter working to elevate the issues of race and racism in our society.

The Women of Color Sexual Health Network (WOCSHN) is an inspiring group of sexuality educators and they've just released a new curriculum. We've worked with many of these great women and love their work. You can learn more about them here.

Jennifer Abod's documentary film about Angela Bowen is inspirational, informative, complex, and humorous. Check out the trailer and enjoy the film.

Ta Nehisi Coates' beautiful book, Between the World and Me is an important read for our times. Here's the link.

Ashley mentioned The Hate You Give, by Angie Thomas. Here's the link.

With the new publication of the landmark model for sexuality, Circles of Sexuality, Ashley interviews her mentor and creator of the model, Dr. Dennis Dailey. Dennis is humorous, humble, and an honor to have with us. So check out the show. We love our listeners and welcome your feedback. Please write to us at this address. And thanks for listening!

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Articles cited in today's show:

Dailey, D. M. (2017). Sexual expression and aging. Quarterly Journal of the Life Planning Network, 4 (4), 34-53. To access Dr. Dailey's article, just click here.

You don't want to miss this episode. It all starts with Jane's rant about sexual harassment with tips on what to do and where to turn for help. We also talk about prairie voles who are not only adorable but they mate for life. So check out the show. We love our listeners and welcome your feedback. Please write to us at this address. And thanks for listening!

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Articles cited:

1. Ferkin, M. H., Leonard, S. T., Heath, L. A. and C, G. P.-y.-M. (2001), Self-Grooming as a Tactic Used by Prairie Voles Microtus ochrogaster to Enhance Sexual Communication. Ethology, 107: 939–949. doi:10.1046/j.1439-0310.2001.00725.x
2. Garcia, J. R., MacKillop, J., Aller, E. L., Merriwether, A. M., Wilson, D. S., & Lum, J. K. (2010). Associations between dopamine D4 receptor gene variation with both infidelity and sexual promiscuity. PLoS One, 5(11), e14162. doi: 10.1371/journal.pone.0014162
3. Young, L. J., Nilsen, R., Waymire, K. G., MacGregor, G. R., & Insel, T. R. (1999). Increased affiliative response to vasopressin in mice expressing the V1a receptor from a monogamous vole. Nature, 400(6746), 766-768. doi: 10.1038/23475
4. Zietsch, B. P., Westberg, L., Santtila, P., & Jern, P. (2015). Genetic analysis of human extrapair mating: heritability, between-sex correlation, and receptor genes for vasopressin and oxytocin. Evolution and Human Behavior, 36(2), 130-136. doi: 10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2014.10.001

Dr. John DeLamater died on December 13, 2017. A leader, a teacher, a mentor, and a researcher of older adults' sexuality, Jane and Ashley recount his significant research to continue his legacy. Jane rants about disasters awaiting the latest DC tax "reform" and wants us all getting involved locally. Ashley's into S'Naps and self-care. Great show so check it out! We love our listeners and welcome your feedback. Please write to us at this address. And thanks for listening!

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Articles cited in today's show:

1. DeLamater, J. (2012). Sexual expression in later life: a review and synthesis. Journal of sex research, 49(2-3), 125-141. doi: 10.1080/00224499.2011.603168
2. DeLamater, J., Hyde, J. S., & Fong, M. C. (2008). Sexual satisfaction in the seventh decade of life. Journal of sex & Marital therapy, 34(5), 439-454. doi: 10.1080/00926230802156251
3. DeLamater, J., & Moorman, S. M. (2007). Sexual behavior in later life. Journal of Aging and Health, 19(6), 921-945. doi: 10.1177/0898264307308342
4. Karraker, A., DeLamater, J., & Schwartz, C. R. (2011). Sexual frequency decline from midlife to later life. Journals of Gerontology Series B: Psychological Sciences and Social Sciences, 66(4), 502-512. doi: 10.1093/geron/gbr058