Food can be a major bonding experience in relationships, but when two people have different dietary preferences, it can add unexpected stress to dating. Think about it—if you’re a vegan and he’s ordering steak, or he’s a foodie, but you’re a picky eater, these differences may feel small at first. Over time, though, they can add up and create real friction, especially if food is something that brings him joy. Food can play a huge role in daily life. Whether it’s a romantic dinner, cooking as a couple, or trying new restaurants, food can bring two people closer—or it can drive them apart.

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Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

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When it comes to dating, the question of age often comes up—how old is too old? The answer isn’t straightforward, as it depends on factors such as your stage in life, what you’re looking for in a relationship, and how flexible you’re willing to be. Age can play a role in compatibility, but it’s far from the only factor.  It’s important to recognize that the “right” age range isn’t one-size-fits-all—it’s something you need to personalize based on your own life circumstances. Whether you’re in your 20s, 30s, or beyond, your approach will naturally evolve over time. Expanding your dating pool by adjusting your age range might even open you up to new, exciting possibilities you hadn’t considered before.

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Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

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In today’s dating world, it’s easy to feel like you're just another face in the crowd. But here’s the thing—standing out and becoming someone he genuinely wants to date isn’t about playing games or changing who you are. It’s about being the best version of yourself, living a full life, and making sure you bring something valuable and unique to the table. In this episode, we’ll discuss how to highlight your best qualities, show your true personality, and make a lasting impression that keeps him coming back for more.

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Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When it comes to dating, we can sometimes find ourselves stuck in a routine, only saying "yes" to people who check off a narrow list of preferences. But what if expanding your horizons could actually bring you closer to finding the right person? In this episode, we’re going to explore how to step outside of your comfort zone in dating—whether that’s trying different backgrounds, locations, or even rethinking what you’re attracted to. By making small changes, you could be giving yourself more opportunities to meet your perfect match.

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Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Sometimes, getting a second date can feel confusing, but it often comes down to a few key areas. From how you present yourself to how engaged you are during the date, these factors play a significant role in whether someone is interested in seeing you again. In this episode, we’ll break down the reasons you may not be getting a second date and what you can do to improve your chances.

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Books:

- ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠

- ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠

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Couples therapy can be a powerful tool for healing and strengthening a relationship, but it also comes with its own set of challenges and considerations. For many couples, the idea of seeking professional help might feel like admitting failure, while for others, it's an essential step toward growth. The decision to pursue therapy isn’t always clear-cut, and it often raises questions about commitment, compatibility, and whether both partners are truly willing to put in the work.  In this episode, we’ll explore whether couples therapy is the right choice for your relationship. Whether you’re hoping to fix a specific issue or simply strengthen your bond, understanding the role of couples therapy can help you make an informed decision.

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Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

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Making your partner feel special is essential for a healthy, thriving relationship. Often, it’s the small gestures and thoughtful actions that speak the loudest, showing him that he’s valued, appreciated, and cherished. Whether you’re in the early stages of dating or have been together for years, taking the time to make him feel special can deepen your connection and set your relationship apart from the rest. In this episode, we’ll explore practical and meaningful ways to make your man feel like he’s on top of the world.

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Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Obsessing over an ex is something many of us experience after a breakup, but it's a habit that can keep you stuck in the past and prevent you from moving forward. While men and women often handle breakups differently, it’s common for women to replay what went wrong or check up on their ex’s social media. Is this behavior really helping, or is it keeping you from healing? In this episode, we’ll discuss whether or not it’s healthy to stay connected, and how to break free from the cycle of obsessing. We’ll cover tips for disconnecting emotionally and digitally, focusing on self-care, and getting back into the dating world. It’s time to take control of your healing and move on to better things.

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Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In every strong relationship, shared experiences play a pivotal role in building deeper connections. Engaging in activities together not only brings joy but also strengthens the bond between partners. In this episode, we'll explore why shared hobbies are more than just fun—they're a fundamental part of a thriving relationship. We’ll discuss how finding common ground can help you grow closer and keep the spark alive in your relationship.

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Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll dive into the big question: Should couples live together before marriage? Moving in together can be an exciting step, offering a glimpse into what life might be like long-term. However, it also comes with considerations that can significantly impact your relationship. In this episode, we'll explore the pros and cons of living together.  Whether you’re looking for a practice run at married life or simply considering the next step in your relationship, we’ll help you weigh the factors to decide if sharing a space is the right move for you.

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Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography