Our Love Sphere

Our Love Sphere

By Janis and Carly SpindelSociety & CultureRelationships
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Our Love Sphere episodes

  • Stop Wearing Black - Let Color Make You Pop!

    What you wear matters, and not just in a superficial way. Color has the power to shift your energy, elevate your confidence, and help you stand out in a sea of sameness. If you’re always defaulting to black, it might be time for a serious wardrobe refresh.

    In this episode, we’re talking about how color can totally transform your look and your mindset. From red lipstick to jewel tones to finding the perfect palette for your skin tone, let’s explore how dressing in color can brighten your energy, boost your confidence, and make you unforgettable.

    9 min
  • How to Stage a Photo Shoot for Your Dating Profile

    Let’s be honest—first impressions matter, especially on dating apps. Your profile photos are your digital hello, and if they’re outdated, dark, or just not reflective of who you are, you could be missing out on real connections. The good news? You don’t need a professional photographer—you just need a little strategy.

    In this episode, we’re sharing exactly how to stage a fun, flattering, and authentic photo shoot that highlights your personality, interests, and best self. From outfit changes to creative backdrops, we’re giving you the playbook to elevate your dating app profile—no filters necessary.

    8 min
  • Body Positivity

    Let’s be honest—loving your body isn't always easy. We live in a world that constantly tells us we need to change something, shrink something, or fix something to be enough. But here’s the truth: Your body is already worthy of love, appreciation, and respect—right now, as it is.

    In this episode, we’re talking all about body positivity—not just as a trend, but as a daily practice. From how you talk to yourself to what you choose to wear, these are the small, powerful ways to build a better relationship with your body and finally start feeling confident in your skin.

    8 min
  • From Business to Pleasure

    So you met someone at a conference… or maybe things started getting flirty at the office happy hour. Sparks are flying—but now what? Mixing business with pleasure can be exciting, but it’s also complicated. Workplace romance comes with a whole set of boundaries, and if you're not careful, it can impact both your professional reputation and your personal life.

    In this episode, we’re breaking down what to consider when dating someone you meet through work—whether it's a direct colleague, a client, or someone from a professional setting like a conference or work trip. Let’s talk about where the line is, when it’s worth crossing, and how to keep your job and your relationship intact.

    9 min
  • Do You Need a Prenup?

    Let’s talk about something that people don’t always want to talk about: prenups. They’re often seen as a sign that you don’t believe in the relationship, but in reality, a prenup can be one of the smartest and most respectful things two people can do before getting married. It’s not about planning for divorce, it’s about protecting both people, especially in today’s world where dating, assets, and life circumstances are more complicated than ever.

    In this episode, we’re diving into what prenups really mean and how to approach the topic in a way that protects your future, your finances, and your peace of mind. Whether you're for them, against them, or somewhere in between—we’re breaking it all down.

    11 min
  • How to Embrace Your Feminine Energy

    In a world that constantly pushes us to hustle, compete, and stay "on," embracing your feminine energy is about coming back to your softness, sensuality, and self-worth. It’s not about being weak or passive—it’s about being in tune with your body, your intuition, your beauty, and your emotional strength.

    In this episode, we’re talking about how to tap into your feminine energy—what it looks like, how it feels, and simple ways to bring more of it into your everyday life. If you’ve been in your head too much, operating in go-go-go mode, or just craving more softness, sensuality, and joy—this episode’s for you.


    11 min
  • Independence Is Attractive - Here’s How to Keep Yours

    Falling in love and building a relationship is beautiful, but that doesn’t mean you should lose yourself in the process. The strongest relationships are built on two whole, fulfilled individuals coming together, not one person revolving their life around the other.

    In this episode, we’re discussing how to keep your independence while still being in a happy, healthy, connected relationship. From maintaining your hobbies and friendships to having your own voice, freedom, and financial independence, here’s how to stay you while growing with someone else.

    12 min
  • He’s Just Not That Into You?

    You’ve been on a few dates, you think you like him, but there’s just something that makes you wonder… Is he really into me, or am I just hoping he is? Maybe he texts inconsistently, takes forever to make plans, or seems interested one day and distant the next. So, how do you know if he’s truly into you—or just keeping you around as an option?

    In this episode, we’re breaking down the signs that a guy is genuinely interested vs. the red flags that indicate he’s just not that into you. Plus, we’ll talk about what you can do if you’re stuck in that uncertain phase, so you don’t waste your time on the wrong person. 


    12 min
  • The Grass Is Greener Where You Water It

    We’ve all heard the saying “the grass is greener on the other side,” but here’s the truth: the grass is greener where you water it. In life, love, and everything in between, what you put in is what you get out.

    In this episode, we’re talking about how to stop comparing your life to others and start focusing on your own garden. Whether it’s your relationship, your personal goals, your sex life, or your self-growth—when you give it energy, love, and attention, it flourishes.

    9 min
  • How to Compromise Without Compromising Yourself

    Let’s get real—compromise is part of every healthy relationship, but that doesn’t mean you should settle. There’s a big difference between making space for someone else’s needs and completely giving up your own. So how do you strike the balance?

    In this episode, we’re talking about how to compromise without losing who you are. From relationships to career choices to life goals, it’s about knowing what truly matters to you—and what’s flexible. Let’s dive into how to navigate give-and-take while still honoring your standards, values, and self-worth.

    13 min

About Our Love Sphere

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Janis and Carly Spindel are an all-star mother-daughter matchmaking team who devote their lives to bringing love to the world. This podcast will bring you inside the minds of men and teach you how to land (and keep) the relationship of your dreams.

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