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Dealing with a partner who comes off as too needy can be tricky. On one hand, their constant attention and affection might feel reassuring at first, but over time, it can start to feel overwhelming or even suffocating. This raises important questions about compatibility. Is their need for closeness a sign of deeper insecurity, or are they simply more emotionally expressive than you? In this episode, we’ll explore when neediness becomes a dealbreaker and when it's something you can work through together. Should you address it head-on and have that tough conversation, or is it better to step back and walk away? We’ll talk about how to handle these situations, why they happen, and how to figure out what feels right for you moving forward.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

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Love it or hate it, Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. Whether you’re single, newly seeing someone, or in a long-term relationship, it’s one of those holidays that can bring a mix of excitement and pressure. The good news is, you can celebrate Valentine’s Day in a way that feels authentic to you. In this episode, we’re breaking it down: how to make the most of Valentine’s Day no matter your relationship status, avoid unnecessary drama, and focus on what’s really important—love in all its forms, whether it’s for yourself, your friends, or your partner.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When we think about relationships, there’s a lot of talk about what we want in a partner. But let’s flip the script today—what do you bring to the relationship? Whether it’s dating someone new or building a stronger connection with someone you’ve been with for years, this question is essential. Are you enhancing their life? Are you contributing to something bigger than just the day-to-day? 

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dating can feel like a job sometimes—one that’s repetitive and even a bit exhausting. But here’s the thing: dating is all about attitude. How we approach it changes everything. At the end of the day, dating may have ups and downs, but that’s just part of the journey to finding someone amazing. Staying inspired comes down to seeing it as an opportunity, even when things don’t go perfectly. A positive mindset can truly shift how you experience dating, making the search feel like an adventure rather than a chore. In this episode, we’ll help you back that spark, getting creative and adding a touch of excitement back into the process

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Food can be a major bonding experience in relationships, but when two people have different dietary preferences, it can add unexpected stress to dating. Think about it—if you’re a vegan and he’s ordering steak, or he’s a foodie, but you’re a picky eater, these differences may feel small at first. Over time, though, they can add up and create real friction, especially if food is something that brings him joy. Food can play a huge role in daily life. Whether it’s a romantic dinner, cooking as a couple, or trying new restaurants, food can bring two people closer—or it can drive them apart.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When it comes to dating, the question of age often comes up—how old is too old? The answer isn’t straightforward, as it depends on factors such as your stage in life, what you’re looking for in a relationship, and how flexible you’re willing to be. Age can play a role in compatibility, but it’s far from the only factor.  It’s important to recognize that the “right” age range isn’t one-size-fits-all—it’s something you need to personalize based on your own life circumstances. Whether you’re in your 20s, 30s, or beyond, your approach will naturally evolve over time. Expanding your dating pool by adjusting your age range might even open you up to new, exciting possibilities you hadn’t considered before.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In today’s dating world, it’s easy to feel like you're just another face in the crowd. But here’s the thing—standing out and becoming someone he genuinely wants to date isn’t about playing games or changing who you are. It’s about being the best version of yourself, living a full life, and making sure you bring something valuable and unique to the table. In this episode, we’ll discuss how to highlight your best qualities, show your true personality, and make a lasting impression that keeps him coming back for more.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When it comes to dating, we can sometimes find ourselves stuck in a routine, only saying "yes" to people who check off a narrow list of preferences. But what if expanding your horizons could actually bring you closer to finding the right person? In this episode, we’re going to explore how to step outside of your comfort zone in dating—whether that’s trying different backgrounds, locations, or even rethinking what you’re attracted to. By making small changes, you could be giving yourself more opportunities to meet your perfect match.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Sometimes, getting a second date can feel confusing, but it often comes down to a few key areas. From how you present yourself to how engaged you are during the date, these factors play a significant role in whether someone is interested in seeing you again. In this episode, we’ll break down the reasons you may not be getting a second date and what you can do to improve your chances.

Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠

Books:

- ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠

- ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Couples therapy can be a powerful tool for healing and strengthening a relationship, but it also comes with its own set of challenges and considerations. For many couples, the idea of seeking professional help might feel like admitting failure, while for others, it's an essential step toward growth. The decision to pursue therapy isn’t always clear-cut, and it often raises questions about commitment, compatibility, and whether both partners are truly willing to put in the work.  In this episode, we’ll explore whether couples therapy is the right choice for your relationship. Whether you’re hoping to fix a specific issue or simply strengthen your bond, understanding the role of couples therapy can help you make an informed decision.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography