In this episode, we’ll discuss the Dos and Don'ts of what to talk about on a first date. Filtering what you discuss is important to create a positive impression, avoid controversy, maintain mystery, and focus on genuine connection. You don’t want to have what we call diarrhea of the mouth Whether you're a seasoned dater or stepping into the dating scene for the first time, these insights will help you navigate the conversation minefield with ease. 

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss balancing dating with a hectic travel schedule. Whether you're jetting for work, exploring new destinations, or simply leading a fast-paced life, finding time for budding romance can feel like a challenge. 

From setting clear expectations to making the most of the time you have together, we’ll explore practical strategies and insights for navigating the early stages of dating with a crazy travel schedule or demanding commitments. If you're trying to find a meaningful connection, but often find yourself juggling a hectic schedule, we’ve got you covered!

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Have you ever experienced an intense whirlwind of affection in the early stages of a relationship, only for it to fizzle out just as quickly? What lies beneath the surface of this intense affection? In today's episode, we'll discuss love bombing, which is a manipulative tactic used to gain control over another person in a relationship.  Love bombing involves showering the person with excessive affection, attention, and praise, creating an intense emotional bond that can be hard to break free from. But behind the grand gestures and constant communication lies a calculated strategy to exploit vulnerability and fulfill the love bomber's own needs for power and validation. In this episode, we'll dive into the signs of love bombing, its impact on victims, and how to establish healthy boundaries to protect yourself from manipulation and emotional abuse. 

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss a scenario that many of us have experienced or even feared: bumping into an ex. Whether it's at the grocery store, a social event, or even unexpectedly on the street, these encounters can stir up a whirlwind of emotions and leave us scrambling for the right response. We will explore the art of gracefully navigating these encounters with maturity and dignity and guide you through the maze of navigating unexpected run-ins with former partners. From maintaining composure and setting boundaries to post-encounter reflections, we've got you covered.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the dynamic world of texting, which is a crucial part of courtship and sets the tone for budding relationships. We'll unravel the intricacies of pre-date communication and post-date etiquette and help you master the art of texting. Whether you're a seasoned texter or new to the dating game, we’ve got you covered!

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the concept of losing your list – and by list, we mean the rigid dealbreakers and non-negotiables that may be limiting your potential for meaningful connections. We will explore the benefits of adopting a more open-minded approach to love and why it’s important to reevaluate your dating criteria and be open to new possibilities if you’re looking for “the one.”

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

This episode is about the four seasons - and no, we are not talking about the resort… We’ll discuss the importance of dating for four seasons before getting serious and popping the question. As the seasons change, so do our moods, our fashion choices, and even our dating habits. In this episode, we’ll explore how to navigate the ups and downs of dating throughout the year and how to know if this relationship will last a lifetime.

Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠

Books:

- ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠

- ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we're diving into the crucial period before the first date – a time filled with anticipation, nerves, and endless questions.  Leading up to the first date sets the tone for what's to come. With the right preparation and mindset, it can be an exciting step toward building a meaningful connection.

Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠

Books:

- ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠

- ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the dreaded friend zone – that awkward space where one person wants romance while the other remains oblivious. Escaping the friend zone is not easy, but with the right strategies and mindset, you can shift the dynamic, making him see you in a new light, and ultimately, escape the friend zone.

Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠

Books:

- ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠

- ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where something just feels off, but you can't quite put your finger on it? Welcome to today's episode, where we'll be diving into the intricacies of doubt in a relationship. Doubts in relationships are common, but they can be navigated with self-awareness, communication, and introspection. In this episode, we'll explore how to navigate through these doubts and uncertainties, whether they're rooted in internal struggles or external pressures.

Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠⁠

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠⁠

Books:

- ⁠⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠⁠

- ⁠⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠⁠

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography