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Most comedians turn news cycles into punchlines — Caleb Zeringue takes it further, transforming chaos into award-winning theater that shouts queer stories from the rooftops. From viral musicals to hilarious history lessons about America’s most fabulous gay generals, Caleb's work challenges the norms and reclaims the past with wit, sass, and unapologetic honesty
In this episode, Caleb dives into his wild journey from Leesville, Louisiana, to the bright lights of New York and San Francisco, revealing how humor became his armor during turbulent times like military service and personal upheaval. You'll discover how he's turning rebellious history into bold stage productions, like the viral Luigi the Musical, and how comedy acts as a bridge for healing, activism, and cultural change.
We break down Caleb’s provocative takes on the founding fathers—and their orgies—plus his unique approach to blending standup with theatrical storytelling. You’ll hear about his fearless method of producing art independently when rejection is inevitable, and how he’s building a new kind of Broadway that embraces truth, absurdity, and radical queer history. Caleb shares why leaning into chaos—even in a conservative city like Colorado Springs—can unlock your authenticity and power.
This episode is perfect for anyone craving a fresh perspective on history, art, and identity. If you believe humor is the most revolutionary tool we have—whether in standup, theater, or activism—Caleb Zeringue’s story will inspire you to create fearlessly and speak loudly.
Caleb Zeringue, queer history, satire, theater, comedy, activism, Luigi the Musical, revolutionary history, LGBTQ+ art, storytelling
Caleb Zeringue Website: www.calebzeringue.com/
Caleb Zeringue Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/calebczeringue/
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Caleb Zeringue
00:55 Growing Up in the South
02:31 Military Background and Its Impact
05:49 Finding His Voice After Divorce
06:56 Using Comedy to Bridge Queer History
11:23 Balancing Humor with Serious Topics
12:59 Creating Your Own Platform
16:25 Comparing Queer Comedy Scenes
17:50 Nostalgia and Connection to New Orleans
20:21 Cultural Experiences and Family Traditions
23:51 This or That: New Orleans Edition
26:25 The Journey of a Leading Man
27:57 Closing Thoughts and Future Endeavors
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Most creators wait for the industry to give them a stage — but Alex Ringler built his own. From Broadway hits to provocative web series, this multi-hyphenate actor, dancer, choreographer, and writer reveals how he’s forging his own path in a world that often limits LGBTQ+ voices. If you're tired of waiting for opportunities to find you, this episode will inspire you to create them yourself.
Alex shares the raw, behind-the-scenes stories behind his high-energy drag performances in Provincetown’s Icons, where dance became a revolution for non-traditional performers in an industry too often rigid in its standards. He discusses how working in that environment reshaped his storytelling, pushing him to craft performances that are unapologetically bold and authentic. Plus, you'll get an insider look at how genres like dance, comedy, and drama intersect in his diverse projects — from self-produced COVID series Annoyingly Fit Neighbor to the nude resort drama Laid Bare. Discover how his ability to wear multiple hats—acting, writing, producing—has not only kept his career afloat but made him unstoppable.
You'll break down the mindset behind building your own stages: how to turn constraints into creative fuel, why self-produced content is more vital than ever, and how to navigate the physical toll of a life in performance while bAllancing mental health and personal growth. Alex's insights teach you that success isn’t linear — it’s about resilience, embracing your authenticity, and redefining what it means to be creative in today’s shifting landscape. Perfect for aspiring artists, LGBTQ+ creatives, and anyone feeling stuck in waiting mode, this episode will empower you to step into the spotlight on your own terms.
Plus, get Alex’s tips for maintaining peak physical and mental health as a performer, the truth behind industry expectations, and what it really takes to turn your passion into a sustainable career. Whether you're dreaming of Broadway, YouTube fame, or just carving out space for your unique voice, this conversation unlocks the mindset and tools needed to make it happen.
Follow Alex Ringler: https://www.instagram.com/alexringler/?hl=en
Alex Ringler Website: https://alexringler.com/
Alex Ringler, Broadway, independent filmmaking, self-production, dance, acting, LGBTQ+ representation, seeking series, Laid Bare, Provincetown
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Alex Ringler
02:00 The Birth of Icons in Provincetown
05:19 Creating Opportunities in Acting
08:37 The Freedom of Nudity in Performance
12:28 BAllancing Creativity and Personal Life
15:29 Navigating the Chaos of Creativity
18:51 Fitness and Aging in the Arts
21:10 The Pressure of Performance and Health
25:59 The Game: This or That
29:15 Creative Process and Writing Habits
32:05 Closing Thoughts and Future Endeavors
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Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM
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Most PR firms spin stories, but Matt Gross built Heart Spade PR from pure heart and grassroots hustle—centered on authentic queer voices in a crowded, commercialized landscape. Discover how he turned a passion for visibility and integrity into a thriving, values-driven agency that defies industry norms.
In this episode, Matt shares his remarkable journey from Brooklyn music blogger to a powerhouse in LGBTQ advocacy and entertainment PR. You'll learn how he navigates a busy career without losing his peace—protecting personal time amid the relentless demands of client work and social media. His story reveals the importance of staying true to your values, especially when the industry’s spotlight often favors superficial partnerships like rainbow washing.
We break down actionable insights: how to build a grassroots brand with heart, the pitfalls of corporate red tape, and practical tips for maintaining mental peace in a high-stakes world. Matt also discusses the shift in PR strategies—from traditional deep dives to viral moments—and why long-term relationships, authenticity, and community matter more than ever. His work with beloved LGBTQ icons like Jinx Monsoon and Isaac Mizrahi exemplifies a commitment to passion projects that truly make a difference, not just headlines.
Why does this matter? Because in a landscape filled with performative allyship, real impact requires courage, consistency, and a deep understanding of community needs. This episode offers a blueprint for anyone who wants to create meaningful change, whether you're a PR pro, an entrepreneur, or simply looking to amplify authentic voices in your world.
Matt Gross is the founder of Heart Spade PR, championing LGBTQ voices in entertainment and culture through strategic storytelling rooted in authenticity.
Get inspired by a founder whose hustle is fueled by heart, and learn how you can align your work with your values—making a difference from the grassroots up.
Heart Spade PR: https://www.heartspadepr.com/
Heart Spade PR Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heartspadepr/
Matt Gross, Gay PR, LGBTQ advocacy, PR, entrepreneurship, queer voices, entertainment industry, grassroots efforts, brand authenticity
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Matt Gross and Heart Spade PR
02:23 The Journey of Building a PR Empire
05:50 The Shift from Corporate to Personal
08:19 The Meaning Behind Heart Spade PR
12:11 Navigating Rainbow Washing in PR
14:56 Highlighting Grassroots LGBTQ Advocacy
17:16 Proud Projects and Long-Term Collaborations
18:17 Reflections on a Career in Entertainment
20:17 This or That: A Fun Game with Matt
25:31 Closing Thoughts and Future Connections
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Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM
Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9
Allan Broca is a trailblazer who’s reshaped queer storytelling with humor, heart, and unapologetic authenticity. From the groundbreaking Eating Out series to innovative animated projects, he proves that LGBTQ narratives can be bold, messy, and genuinely joyful—without compromise. In this episode, Allan shares the real stories behind his cult classics, the challenges of maintaining creative integrity in a commercial industry, and why representation matters more than ever.
Discover how a young boy in Guam became a visionary intent on creating stories that reflect the diverse, hilarious, and sexy truth of our lives. Allan dives into the origins of Rick and Steve, the importance of representation through animation, and how one naive film school joke turned into a cinematic revolution with legions of fans and dozens of festival awards. His candid insights reveal the delicate bAllance between artistic honesty and industry pressure—plus, how he fights to keep his voice loud.You’ll learn:
Q. Allan Brocka, Allan Brocka, queer cinema, LGBTQ representation, filmmaking, animation, Eating Out, Rick and Steve, queer stories, independent film, film festival success
Q. Allan Brocka Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allanbrocka/?hl=en
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Q. Allen Bracca
00:59 The Journey of Storytelling
04:40 The Impact of 'Eating Out' on Queer Cinema
10:32 The Transition to Animation with 'Rick and Steve'
17:05 The Journey of Rick and Steve
17:44 Representation in Media
18:46 Navigating Creative Integrity
21:12 Upcoming Projects and Innovations
23:06 Fun and Games: This or That
27:07 Advocacy Through Humor
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Most families have stories, but few are filled with the grit, love, and laughter of Bryan and John’s dad—an immigrant, public servant, and master fixer whose journey from Cuba to building communities in South Florida is nothing short of inspiring.
In this heartfelt and humorous episode, Bryan and John sit down with their legendary father, Tom Ruiz, to peel back the layers of a life defined by determination, culture, and unconditional love. Tom’s story is a blueprint for resilience—leaving Cuba with just twenty-seven dollars, working tirelessly in construction and public service, and ultimately building infrastructure that transformed entire cities like Miami Gardens.
Yet beyond the blueprints and project sites, it’s his unwavering family bond, hilarious anecdotes, and deep commitment to passing down a legacy of hard work that truly shine. From fixing broken steamers and flying tiny helicopters with his kids to embracing their truths with open arms, Tom’s life exemplifies how grit and heart create a lasting impact.
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YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1
Chapters
00:00 Family Ties and Cultural Roots
02:22 The Determination to Fix
05:09 Journey from Cuba to America
08:00 Creating Lasting Memories
10:43 Acceptance and Understanding
13:44 Pride in Public Service
16:33 Building a Legacy
19:52 Retirement and New Adventures
22:52 Fun and Games with Dad
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Most companies shy away from celebrating the full spectrum of LGBTQ+ joy—but advocate Brandon Wolf shows us why prioritizing laughter, pride, and resilience is the boldest act of protest.
In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, Brandon, a survivor of the Pulse Nightclub tragedy, shares his journey from rural Oregon to becoming a fierce national advocate. He opens up about growing up in a conservative town where identity felt out of reach, and how moving to Orlando became a pivotal turning point. Discover how the vibrant LGBTQ+ community there became his chosen family, providing the sanctuary and normalcy he longed for—especially in spaces like Pulse.
Brandon reflects on how finding joy in the face of ongoing legislative assaults is a powerful form of resistance, and why celebrating Pride is more vital than ever for our collective resilience.
Key Takeaways From This Episode:
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LGBTQ+ advocacy, Pulse Nightclub, Florida politics, community building, grassroots activism, Pride Month, resilience, equality, Brandon Wolf
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Brandon Wolf
01:07 Growing Up in Rural Oregon
03:05 Journey to Florida and Finding Community
06:12 Reflections on Pulse Nightclub and Pride Month
09:52 Brandon's Advocacy Journey
14:00 Community Organizing and Resilience
17:45 Celebrating Joy Amidst Challenges
22:01 Empowering the Next Generation
25:14 Fun Segment: This or That - Advocacy Edition
25:37 Florida Chaos and Personal Preferences
28:39 The Balance of Introversion and Extroversion
30:55 Grassroots Movements vs. Policy Wins
31:48 Honoring the Past While Fighting for the Future
33:29 Creating Community in Digital Spaces
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Most of us are stuck in a cycle of app swiping, instant gratification, and superficial small talk. But what if we told you that the secret to a deeper, more authentic gay life—and even better dates—lies in resurrecting the art of meeting in person? Johnny Lopez, a fearless cultural critic and queer commentator, challenges the obsession with digital dopamine rushes and reveals how returning to real-world interactions can transform your happiness and relationships.
In this lively episode, Johnny shares his journey from Queens to Miami, navigating cultural machismo and embracing his flamboyant identity. You’ll discover the unseen power of family acceptance, how intrusions of shame shape our early thoughts—and how breaking free from those stereotypes is the true gain of coming out. With stories that resonate, he exposes the quiet optimism behind the rise of the gay himbo and how playful masculinity signals societal evolution—not weakness, but liberation.
We break down provocative insights, including why straight men are increasingly adopting traditionally gay behaviors like fashion experiments and body culture. Johnny dives into the shift toward authenticity in masculinity—a move away from toxic stereotypes—and explores how the community is redefining strength, wit, and vulnerability. Plus, he shares the secret to being “mean with love,” balancing biting humor with deep affection for our culture.
Why does all this matter? The fast-paced digital age might tempt us to settle for fleeting app encounters, but Johnny reminds us that real connection—an honest “hello”—holds the key to happiness. By reclaiming in-person interactions, you not only reignite your confidence but also unlock a richer, more inspired queer experience. This episode is perfect for anyone tired of the instant gratification treadmill and eager to rediscover the joy of genuine human connection.
Johnny Lopez is a renowned writer at Queerty and a prominent voice in queer media, known for his sharp wit, cultural insights, and unapologetic honesty. With years of experience covering everything from celebrity culture to evolving masculinity, he champions authenticity and humor as tools for personal and community growth.
If you’re ready to challenge tired stereotypes, embrace your true self, and find humor in the chaos, this episode is your must-listen. Tune in for a masterclass in culture, connection, and getting back to the real world—one genuine conversation at a time.
Johnny Lopez, queer culture, queerty, gay himbo, masculinity, Cuban American, LGBTQ+, cultural critique, social commentary, Queer T, Out Loud and Laughing
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Johnny Lopez
01:45 Cultural Identity and Growing Up Cuban
03:54 Coming Out and Family Dynamics
08:42 The Rise of the Gay Himbo
12:38 Navigating Humor and Critique in Media
15:29 The Exhaustion of Modern Gay Life
19:41 Fun and Games: This or That with Johnny Lopez
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Most of us dream of blending raw talent with unapologetic authenticity—and Daniel Joseph Baker proves it’s possible to do both at once. Whether he’s captivating millions online, giving life on America’s Got Talent, or singing for the LGBTQ community at the UN, Daniel is here to show how embracing your true self can unlock extraordinary opportunities. But it’s not just about the stage—he’s navigated the struggles of childhood, industry pitfalls, and self-validation to become a powerhouse artist and influencer with a heart that beats just as loudly as his voice.
In this episode, Daniel shares the defining moments that turned singing from a hobby into his superpower—like singing the national anthem as a kid and using music to escape a toxic upbringing. We dive into how he navigates his dual identity as artist and influencer, revealing the liberating power of doing what feels good and rejecting industry pressures to conform. You’ll discover his unique approach to content creation that blends thirst traps with purpose-driven performances, and how he’s leveraging his platform to uplift the LGBT community—whether singing at the UN or performing in local pageants.
This episode is an essential listen for anyone craving realness, artistry, and the courage to live loudly. Daniel’s story reminds us that your greatest power lies in your authenticity—and that when you embrace it fully, everything else falls into place. Ready to be inspired to find your voice and own your shine? Hit play and step into the fabulous world of Daniel Joseph Baker.
Daniel Joseph Baker, LGBTQ+, music, influencer, authenticity, New York, AGT, dance music, mental health, personal growth
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danieljosephbaker/
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Daniel Joseph Baker
02:24 Recharge Days and Self-Care
04:58 Finding His Voice: Early Musical Experiences
08:03 Navigating Identity and Validation
11:01 The Transition to Digital Influencer
14:01 Upcoming Music and Artistic Direction
16:57 Rapid Fire Questions: Fun and Insightful
20:56 Closing Thoughts and Future Aspirations
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Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com
Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM
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Most creators get into podcasting for connection—fewer realize how deeply it reveals your true self. Ben Macdonald, a master of transformation from TV drama to behind-the-scenes director and podcast host, shares how making his voice heard has become his most authentic act yet. If you've ever felt stuck between your dreams and reality, Ben's story will inspire you to lean into your true voice and find success on your own terms.
In this candid conversation, Ben reveals how his childhood love for acting and creativity shaped his unconventional career path—moving from theater, to Los Angeles, to Texas, and beyond. You'll discover how his early experiments with filmmaking and storytelling laid the groundwork for his current success, and why control and authenticity are key in building a brand you love.
We break down Ben’s journey into the industry—his switch from acting to podcasting—and how this shift gave him creative freedom he never imagined. You'll get practical insights into balancing multiple passions, like photography, acting, and directing, while maintaining your identity. Ben also shares how his podcast became a vehicle for meaningful impact—changing perceptions on sensitive issues and even inspiring charitable donations.
Why does it matter? Because in a world where many feel pressured to conform, Ben’s story proves that carving your own path—embracing who you truly are—can lead to extraordinary opportunities and genuine connection. Whether you're an aspiring creator, actor, or anyone eager to live authentically, this episode guides you to embrace your unique voice and build your empire from the inside out.
This is essential listening for those looking to turn their passions into real influence—without sacrificing authenticity. Tune in, learn how to pivot with purpose, and start building your own version of success today.
Ben McDonald, podcasting, acting, creative control, career journey, authenticity, entertainment industry, Its Ben A Week
It’s Ben A Week Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Aa7s59LowEhAQXdCJczQA
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Ben Macdonald
01:44 Ben's Early Life and Passion for Entertainment
06:07 Navigating the Entertainment Industry
09:06 The Power of Podcasting
11:50 Personal Growth Through Podcasting
15:12 Directing and Acting as a Gay Man
16:50 Future Aspirations and Dream Roles
17:54 Remembering Icons
18:20 The Departing of the Parton
19:15 Balancing Multiple Identities
20:23 This or That: Fun and Games
24:10 Humor vs. Heart
24:45 Promoting Each Other's Work
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Most companies settle for being "tolerant." Scott Gatz, CEO of Q Digital, proves that true freedom comes from leading with heart, authenticity, and a fierce commitment to shaping a world where everyone can be their most genuine selves. After helping to build the digital future at Yahoo and creating a thriving media empire from scratch, Scott reveals how his journey from bullied kid to media mogul is about more than success—it's about making a real difference for queer communities and beyond.
In this powerful conversation, Scott shares his personal story of overcoming adversity, the evolution of queer media, and his vision for a world where acceptance isn't enough—it's about true freedom. You'll discover how stories are the backbone of a community, how innovative platforms like Gay Cities and LGBTQ Nation are safeguarding our history, and why digital media is so crucial to amplifying marginalized voices today.
We break down Scott’s lessons on resilience, leadership, and the importance of storytelling in transforming both individual lives and society. From navigating the challenges of decreased corporate sponsorship in queer media to embracing change in a fast-moving digital landscape, Scott’s insights offer clarity and hope for anyone fighting for inclusion and authenticity.
This episode is an essential listen for activists, creators, or anyone committed to making space for authentic expression. Scott reminds us that the legacy we leave isn't material—it's how we make others feel, how we inspire action, and how we create a future where everyone is free to be their true self.
Scott Gatz is the visionary CEO of Q Digital, responsible for some of the most influential LGBTQ media brands today. His lifelong dedication to storytelling, community, and family fuels his leadership and advocacy efforts, making him a beacon of hope and change in our community.
Tune in for a heartfelt deep dive into resilience, the power of stories, and the ongoing fight for true freedom—because this isn’t just about LGBTQ rights—it’s about everyone’s right to live without limits. Perfect for those looking to be inspired, challenged, and reminded that change begins with authenticity.
LGBTQ media, community building, storytelling, advocacy, tech innovation, leadership, personal growth, scott gatz, queerty, queer voices
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Scott Gatz and His Impact
03:03 Scott's Early Life and Journey into Media
05:57 The Birth of Gay Cities and Community Safety in Travel
08:56 Navigating Challenges in LGBTQ Media
11:41 The Power of Storytelling and Community
14:38 Fatherhood and Leadership Lessons
17:39 Balancing Short-Form and Long-Form Content
21:00 Future Innovations in LGBTQ Media
23:50 Fun and Games: This or That with Scott Gatz
26:55 Closing Thoughts and Call to Action
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Presented by Out.com / Out Magazine
Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious,…
Hosted by two proud queer cousins, our show uses laughter as a compass to navigate navigating identity, culture, and the unique challenges of the LGBTQ+ experience. Together with equalpride—the ultimate home for LGBTQ+ media—we are on a mission to build a community where identity and humor intersect. We’re here to inspire bold self-expression, deep connection, and plenty of side-splitting laughs.
With laughter as their guide, Bryan and Jon create a welcoming space that fosters connection, self-expression, and pure, unapologetic joy. Whether you are tuning in for the wild stories, the sharp humor, the deep relatability, or a mix of all three, this is the show that celebrates living life as your truest, most authentic self—out loud and laughing.

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