Perfectionism Rewired

Overachievers + Validaton


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Why do achievements feel empty? Tired of white knuckling it? Overachievers, this episode names what you couldn’t explain... until now.

Inside This Episode on Intrinsic Motivation You'll Learn:

  • How relying on external validation keeps you in victim mentality
  • The trap perfectionists fall into when they get into personal development
  • Steps you can do to start cultivating intrinsic motivation
  • Why it’s critical for overachievers to develop an internal sense of self (Mamba mentality) separate from achievements
  • The mistaken motivations perfectionistic people latch onto & how to redirect


Credible Sources & Citations for Ep. 66
  1. Huecker, M. R., Shreffler, J., McKeny, P. T., & Davis, D. (2023, July 31). Imposter PhenomenonNih.gov; StatPearls Publishing. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK585058/
  2. Burton, K. D., Lydon, J. E., D'Alessandro, D. U., & Koestner, R. (2006). The differential effects of intrinsic and identified motivation on well-being and performance: Prospective, experimental, and implicit approaches to self-determination theory. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 91(4), 750-762. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.91.4.750
  3. Deci, E. L., & Ryan, R. M. (2000). The "what" and "why" of goal pursuits: Human needs and the self-determination of behavior. Psychological Inquiry, 11(4), 227–268. https://doi.org/10.1207/S15327965PLI1104_01
  4. Deci, E. L., & Ryan, R. M. (2015). Intrinsic Motivation and Self-Determination in Human Behavior. SpringerLinkhttps://doi.org/10.1007-978-1-4899-2271-7
  5. Nepon, T. (2024). Perfectionism, Self-Image Goals and Compassionate Goals in Health and Mental Health: A Longitudinal Analysis - Taryn Nepon, Gordon L. Flett, Paul L. Hewitt, 2024. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/07342829241239997
  6. Ng, B. (2018). The Neuroscience of Growth Mindset and Intrinsic Motivation. Brain Sciences8(2), 20–20. https://doi.org/10.3390/brainsci8020020
  7. Milyavskaya, M., & Koestner, R. (2011). Psychological needs, motivation, and well-being: A test of self-determination theory across multiple domains. Personality and Individual Differences, 50(3), 387-391. https://doi.org/10.1016/j-paid.2010.10.029

 

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