Overcome to Become

In this episode, I sit down for a candid, behind-the-scenes conversation with bonus (step) and angel mom, Kisha Batsuli.  Kisha opens her heart as she shares lessons learned, the blessings, and how she handles the bittersweetness of motherhood. She also opens up about grief and handling triggers as she continues on the journey of having her first child.  Whether you are in a blended family, getting ready to marry into a blended family, or a friend or family member you know is in a blended family--- this episode is for you.   

About Kisha Batsuli:
Kisha Batsuli is the founder and owner of Blended on the Rock, an organization that provides tips and resources to strengthen relationships in blended families. She facilitates a monthly virtual Blended Mom Meetup for bonus and bio moms in a blended family. Kisha is a firm believer in Christ and how important it is for him to be the rock (foundation) in a blended family. 

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Mentioned in this episode:
How to Handle Mother's Day as a Stepmom Interview Thursday, May 6th- Save Your Seat 

Dr. Michelle Ami Reyes joins us today for a very transparent and thought provoking conversation around developing genuine cross-cultural relationships---How we can become all things to all people.  She is compelling believers to stop looking at ourselves as the standard, embrace change, and learn how to sit in discomfort and the tension for the sake of the gospel.  We also discuss: 

• The challenges and blessings of motherhood
• How she is teaching her kids to love the skin they are in and celebrate their culture
• Her passion for breaking cycles of injustice in our country
• Why it's so important to develop our own cultural identity
• Why the church needs to start considering culture and race as important topics to spiritual formation 

About Dr. Michelle Ami Reyes:
Dr. Michelle Ami Reyes is the Vice President of the Asian American Christian Collaborative and the Co-Executive Director at Pax. She is also the Scholar in Residence at Hope Community Church and is the author of Becoming All Things: How Small Changes Lead to Lasting Connections Across Cultures. Michelle lives in Austin with her husband and two kids.

Purchase her new book here: https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-All-Things-Connections-Cultures/dp/0310108918

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Mentioned in this episode:
Soul- https://movies.disney.com/soul

Creative God, Colorful Us by Trillia J. Newbell

ColorFull: Celebrating the Colors God Gave Us by Dorena Williamson

Being a silent killer, stress is diligent at gnawing away at our minds and our bodies when we don't even know it's happening. Board-certified Holistic Nutritionist, Rebekah Fedrowitz, is helping us understand the silent killer, the impacts it has on our bodies, and how we can manage it.  Listen closely to her wisdom and tips.  Yes, it is important to do the work and take care of others. However, in order to do those things, we need to be healthy and well. It's time to put yourself first. Share this episode with your friends-- it may save their lives and yours.   

About Rebekah Fedrowitz:
Rebekah Fedrowitz, MDN, BCHN is an integrative wellness speaker, author, and educator.  Rebekah helps women identify, combat & recover from adrenal overload, the stress-driven health syndrome that can lead to digestive, hormonal, and mental health challenges. Her desire is to see women living into the abundant life and purpose God created for them.

Rebekah completed her Master’s diploma in nutrition from the Edison Institute of Nutrition and is Board Certified in Holistic Nutrition. She is the founder of Restored: An Integrative Wellness Community, the host of the You Are Well Health Podcast, and a co-author of Sister, Walk in Truth.

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Mentioned in this episode:
https://rebekahfedrowitz.com/podcast/
https://www.amazon.com/But-Flourish-Learn-Thrive-Season/dp/0473561018
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0En6XOqXTMY

Never underestimate the power of a good swift kick in the behind when we are in a rut, feeling sorry for ourselves, and drowning in our excuses.  Our guest today, Alli Worthington, is bringing just that--- a swift loving kick to propel us forward into the dream that God has placed in our hearts. Her wisdom and practical advice are going to help us lean into hard things, embrace our failures, and move from our current situation into the new.

About Alli Worthington:
Alli Worthington is the author of Standing Strong, The Year of Living Happy, Fierce Faith, and Breaking Busy, she is a speaker, podcaster, and business coach.   Her goal is to help women reach the next level. Alli co-founded Called Creatives and has helped individuals, small business owners, and Fortune 500 companies reach new levels of success.   Alli’s no-nonsense, guilt-free take on business, family, and balance led to appearances on The Today Show and Good Morning America. 
Alli, her husband, Mark, and their five sons live outside of Nashville, TN with the only two golden retrievers who refuse to retrieve. 

Connect with Alli:
Website//Instagram// Called Creatives

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Mentioned in this episode:
Her Community: https://www.calledcreatives.com/
Her Books:
Standing Strong
Fierce Faith
Breaking Busy
You Keep on Getting Better by Maverick City Music
https://movies.disney.com/soul
https://www.wonderwomanfilm.com 

There is a lot of noise out there trying to define who we are and how much we are worth.  This noise (people, society, current circumstances, etc.) has made us feel like our voices don't matter.  Many of us have hidden our stories due to shame, guilt, or regret. Yet, there is a world out there in desperate need and waiting to hear our voices and our stories. Today is the day my guest, Csilla Muscan, is going to help set us free today---free to unapologetically be who God has called us to be. She is going to share her story as well as practical tips and wisdom on: 

• Why we need to show up
• The hindrances and excuses that keep us stuck
• Why our story matters
• How to overcome the desire to shrink back
• How to build confidence 
• Special bonus: Topic Trifecta (for aspiring and seasoned speakers)

About Csilla Muscan:
Csilla Muscan is an international singer, speaker, author, and founder of The Magnify Message {www.magnifymessage.com}. With over 20 years of experience as a performing artist and keynote speaker, she learned a thing or two about what makes for a powerful communicator. She's performed and presented on 1,000 + stages to thousands of people all over the world. Today, together with her team, she helps women find the clarity and confidence they need in order to become a dynamic and effective communicator. You can also find her on her CAPTIVATE - With Your Words podcast.

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Mentioned in this episode:
Humbling Kind (Tim McGraw)-https://youtu.be/awzNHuGqoMc

This "S" word is one that I have struggled with and fought with all my life.  Many times I have found myself at the bottom of a pit or knees scraped before I realized that I needed to lean into it.  Too many times I have done things my way and it only led to frustration and exhaustion.  Can you relate?  Maybe you are at a crossroads in your life or you feel like nothing is working out for you.  I want you to listen in closely to today's episode.  It may be time for a heart check.

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Mentioned in this episode:
Homework/Heart Work:
-Read the scriptures below. 
-Practice being still for 5-10 min.

• John 15:5 (TPT)
• 2 Corinthians 3:5 (NLT)
• Proverbs 3:5-6 (TPT)
• Matthew 10:39 (TPT)

Did you know that the first step to seeing God's plan unfold in our life is being willing to hold our plans loosely?  This was the underlying theme of the conversation I had with DIY Extraordinaire, Stacie Abadallah of Stacie's Spaces.  Stacie shares her amazing journey of transitioning from serving as a Professional School Counselor to an entrepreneur of two businesses.  This was only possible after she learned how to let go and allow God's dream for her life to become her dream. We also chat about: 

• Overcoming imposter syndrome
• The importance of stewardship
• Trusting God's timing
• Why we need to prepare for our next season
• What self-care looks like for her

About Stacie Abdallah:
My name is Stacie, I love Jesus, my husband Joseph, and my three sons. I live in the suburbs of Atlanta, GA and I run two online business, Stacie's Spaces a DIY blog focused on inspiring women to create homes that are both beautiful and functional, and Lunch Lady Check-In which shares daily inspiration for kids lunches in a charcuterie board style, along with bento-style lunch boxes. 

Connect with Stacie:
Website//Instagram// Facebook

Connect with Latasha:
Website// Instagram// Join the Community: We are Stronger Together
Email: [email protected]

Mentioned in this episode:
Maverick City Music--Man of Your Word (Chandler Moore)
We Will Worship--Like Oil
Anne with an E (Netflix)

Calling all my women leaders--- leading in your homes, leading in your career, leading your business, leading yourself: you don't want to miss this episode! My guest, Dr. Sasha Shillcutt, shares her story of burnout, how she found community, and how she stopped apologizing and started being her authentic self.  We also chat about: 

• The space between grit and grace
• Loneliness in leadership
• Why community is so crucial
• How women leaders can support one another
• How we can overcome the societal expectations of women leaders

You will walk away with a fire in your belly and the reassurance you need to be the unapologetic leader you were always meant to be.

About Dr. Sasha Shillcutt:
Dr. Sasha Shillcutt is a renowned cardiac anesthesiologist, TedX Speaker, Author of Between Grit & Grace, and CEO of Brave Enough, where she leads over 13,000 female physicians on living connected and courageous lives. 

Connect with Sasha:
Website//Instagram// Facebook//Twitter

Connect with Latasha:
Website// Instagram// Join the Community: We are Stronger Together

Mentioned in this episode:
Dr. Shillcut's Book: https://www.amazon.com/Between-Grit-Grace-Feminine-Formidable/dp/0757323472

Do you feel like motherhood has stolen your identity?  Are you waiting for your kids to get older or grown so you can finally pursue the dream in your heart? Are you worn out trying to carry the title of "Super Mom"?
If you are nodding your head yes, my conversation with, Christine St. Vil is going to set you free today.  Christine is sharing her story of how she started her blog--which has grown into a very successful business-- while being a stay-at-home mom of three kids under 3 years old after she left her job.  We also chat about:

• Why we need to step out now and do it afraid 
• How to get unstuck and move from idea to action
• How to create boundaries and start saying no
• How it is not about filling up our plates with more to do but only doing what is essential
• Why her kids are not her first priority
• Why we need to be flexible and willing to change with the seasons of life

and so much more.  Grab your notebook. You may have to listen to this twice to get all of the wisdom she is dropping--it's just that good.  Don't forget to share this episode with a friend.

About Christine St. Vil:
Christine K. St.Vil is a speaker, author, social media trainer, and homeschool mom of 3, as well as a wife of 15 years. 

She is the Founder of the Social Scoop® where she helps small businesses harness the power of social media to grow their business and brand. She has traveled to places such as Disney and the beautiful islands of Turks and Caicos to write about events and travel. And she has been behind the scenes on movies such as Lady and the Tramp (on Disney+), and interviewed the stars of Black Panther.   

As an award-winning content creator, she was also an instructor in the Steve Harvey Success Institute for 4 years (where she taught blogging and social media for entrepreneurs) & her work has been featured in numerous local and national TV and media outlets (including VOA, Fox 5 DC, ABC, News Channel 8, WBAL, WHUR, Madame Noire, Huffington Post, Huff Post Live, Black Enterprise, Sirius XM, RollingOut, and Essence Magazine amongst others). When she is not spending time with family or working, you can find her enjoying a good cup of caramel latte or playing Uno.

Connect with Christine:
Website//Instagram// Social Scoop Facebook Group

Connect with Latasha:
Website// Instagram// Join the Community: We are Stronger Together

Mentioned in this episode:
Brown Skin Girl by Beyonce
Whose Shoes Are You Wearing? 12 Steps to Uncovering the Woman You Really Want to Be by Christine St. Vil and Julian B. Kiganda

A looming cloud of "hurry and hustle" has been over me for the past couple of weeks.  Feelings of being late or I should be further along have been trying to haunt me.  In today's episode, I'm sharing my struggles with maintaining a rhythm of rest and a slower-paced life.  I'm also giving some practical tips that are helping me combat these thoughts and feelings.  If you're completely exhausted with running and chasing on the hamster wheel, this episode is for you. 

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Mentioned in this episode:
Be Still and Know by Travis Greene- https://youtu.be/ILK2vNeMwQI
Scriptures for the "Hurried Heart"

• Psalm 46:10
• Philippians 4:6-7
• Hebrews 4:9-11
• Matthew 11:28-30
• Proverbs 3:5-6

Give yourself the gift of Therapy this year:

Counseling Resources:
10 Ways to Find a Good Therapist
Databases that will help you find a counselor in your area: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us
http://www.betterhelp.com