Own Your Revival

Welcome back to Own Your Revival🔥

Have you ever been in a relationship where communication was emphasized as the primary solution, but it didn't lead to the improvements you hoped for? If so, have you found do you yourself questioning your own feelings or instincts in a relationship when someone suggests that as the key to resolving the underlying issues? If so, welcome to the nuance party on when (the focus on) communication can lead to more harm than good and 4 key questions (by way of Dr. Ramani's video, "Narcissistic relationships RUIN your COMMUNICATION SKILLS" to help determine when focusing on communication IS helpful.

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Doctor Ramani's Video

Andy Arbie, ICF Associate Certified Coach

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Welcome back to Own Your Revival🔥

Divorce can feel like open-heart surgery without anesthesia, a process cloaked in shame and guilt. It's crucial to recognize that, like Jesus on His road to Calvary, we need support to carry our crosses. On the other side of divorce, there is an opportunity to become a more integrated, whole, and healthy person by getting the right help and loving support. If you're going through a divorce or supporting someone who is, I hope this episode provides you with the permission and encouragement to seek the help you need. Remember, you're not alone on this journey.

📆 Podcast will pause for Advent after December 2nd episode and resume on January 6, 2025. Subscribe on your podcast app to not miss a beat. 🎄🥳

⏰ Timestamps: 00:00:57 - Admitting Limits and Asking for Support 00:03:18 - The Cross of Divorce 00:04:04 - Opportunity After Divorce 00:04:57 - Disclaimer: Not Legal or Therapeutic Advice 00:09:06 - Discretion and Support 00:10:20 - Spiritual Support and Prayer Warriors 00:11:05 - Legal Support: Hiring an Attorney 00:12:23 - Emotional and Relational Support 00:16:33 - Support for Children 00:20:25 - Meals and Practical Help 00:24:04 - Professional Accompaniment 00:27:32 - Coaching vs. Therapy 00:30:25 - Coaching, Mentoring, and Prayer

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Andy Arbie, ICF Associate Certified Coach

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What role do mentorship and community support play in shaping one's faith and journey through life? In this episode of the Own Your Revival podcast, Andy is joined by THREE special guests- Mike Czyz, Andrew Munger and Josh Fink- who will unpack the blessing of both in the creating of a transformative retreat experience for men. Hear from these three how the inspiration for the retreat became (in due time and with a little help from Matt Kleinschmitt) became an invitation to share the graces they received in service to other men in this unique experience for men: to be forged in faith together. Our hope is that this episode encourages you to follow the promptings of the Holy Spirit and if you feel led, to share this with others and encourage the men you care about to attend the retreat.

⭐️ Next Forged In Faith Retreat: November 8-9 in Lincoln, NE FREE registration. Space is limited. Want to give the guys a hand with some of the food? Click here for the signup.

📆 Podcast will pause for Advent after December 2nd episode and resume on January 6, 2025. Subscribe on your podcast app to not miss a beat. 🎄🥳

⏰ Timestamps:

[00:00:34] Building up men through retreats. [00:04:24] Men's identity in faith. [00:11:16] Conversion to Catholicism through marriage. [00:14:25] One faith household testimony. [00:16:37] Coffee club conversations and community. [00:22:21] Mark Bohaty's impact on community. 🙏🏼 ✝️ [00:27:00] Brotherhood and vulnerability in men. [00:30:39] The Genesis moment of the retreat. [00:32:47] Forged in Faith transformation. [00:38:08] Father and son experience. [00:42:40] Barbecue and personal healing journey. [00:47:14] Season of life decisions. [00:49:40] Food contributions for retreats. [00:54:04] Shroud of Turin presentation. [00:56:14] Forged in Faith retreat experience. [01:00:16] Brotherhood formed through shared experiences. [01:05:06] Dating question from a man's perspective [01:08:01] Taking risks for growth. [01:14:06] Men's retreat and spiritual growth. [01:16:14] Providing and protecting others.

🖥️ Links:

Help the fellas with food for the retreat- click here. 🥘

Forged In Faith Registration

Forged In Faith on Facebook

Mike Czyz on Instagram

Andrew Munger on Instagram

Josh Fink on Instagram

Andy Arbie, ICF Associate Certified Coach

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If you struggle to honor your intuition by following your gut, hang on to your Spanx because this episode might blow your mind….especially if you haven't learned the life changing magic of CHANGING YOUR MIND. 🤯 Changing your mind matters because it reflects personal growth, self-awareness, and the ability to adapt to new information or circumstances. When we encounter new insights or changes in our situation, it's essential to reassess our decisions. This process allows us to prioritize our well-being and make choices that align with our values and needs. Changing is not a sign of weakness. It can very be an important way to advocate for your well-being and live authentically. Join me today as I recount a personal experience highlighting this around decisions made with a speaking engagement out-of-state.

📆 Podcast will pause for Advent after December 2nd episode and resume on January 6, 2025. Subscribe on your podcast app to not miss a beat. 🎄🥳

🖥️ Links:

Betrayal and Beyond Support Group in Lincoln, NE with Rachael

Andy Arbie, ICF Associate Certified Coach

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Have you ever wondered what coaching is really like? Well, today's episode is going to give you a taste of it with my special guest and dear friend, Rachael Tvrdy, who is the Director of Family Life for the Diocese of Lincoln. On the heels of completing a Betrayal Trauma Religious Leader Training with the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists, Rachael graciously agreed to come on the show and receive coaching in support of her launching a ministry to serve women affected by betrayal trauma.

Coaching is a future-focused collaboration and this session was to help Rachael create more clarity and empower her to begin the work she has so clearly been called to. If you've ever had an idea for a personal apostolate or ministry within the church to one day help others, we pray this episode inspires and encourages you to begin in God's good timing.

Please join me in keeping Rachael and the women she will serve in this ministry in your prayers. 🙏🏼

⭐️ Note/Disclaimer:

APSATS (The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists) is a non-profit organization that provides professional training certification and research for partners of addicts and those who treat them. For the purposes of this podcast, the term sex addiction or sex addict is used synonymously with pornography or porn addict, or any compulsory sexual behavior. The model of APSATS differs from other sexual addiction models as it focuses on the traumatic impact of sexual addiction on the partner or spouse. As well, APSATS focuses on empirically researched theories and skills to effectively provide trauma-informed treatment for the partner or spouse.

🖥️ Links:

Betrayal and Beyond Support Group in Lincoln, NE with Rachael

To find a counselor who provides treatment for partners or wives of addicts, please search for CSATS (certified sexual addiction therapists) in your local area here.

Betrayal Trauma Religious Leader Training ✝️

Reach out to Rachael Tvrdy here 👋🏼

Andy Arbie, ICF Associate Certified Coach

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Andy & co.

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My motto: Don't let a good wildlife invasion go without turning it into a teachable moment. Well, it is now anyway as we dive into today's topic of boundaries using some unwelcome visitors to my home as the example. Contrary to popular belief, boundaries are not about getting other people to change which often gets lost in translation. Understanding what boundaries are and how to utilize them are the hallmark of healthy, happy relationships. Join me to learn a rather practical application of this important life skill.

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Andy Arbie, ICF Associate Certified Coach

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Waiting is not just a void; it serves a purpose in our spiritual and personal growth. God has a plan for us during these times, even when it feels like "nothing" is happening. This is particularly true when it comes to the significant life transitions we did not plan on or ask for in our lives. Drawing from a recent personal experience, Andy reflects on how patience and resilience can lead to growth and preparation for the next chapter of our lives.

🗣️ Quote:

"Pray, hope, and do not worry." ~ St. Padre Pio

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Andy Arbie, ICF Associate Certified Coach

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Today's episode is a heartfelt love note to those who struggle with receiving blessings. Whether it's accepting compliments, help, or even God's love, many of us find it challenging to receive without feeling the need to give back immediately or discount the blessing. Often, we can be so focused on giving that we forget to make space to receive. Yet it's so important for us to recognize and embrace the goodness when it flows our way (even when that "good" comes disguised in anything but what we asked for.). Join me for a real world application of integrating those graces hot off the press from this past weekend with an invitation for you.

Links:

🔥 S1, E12 10 things to take on a silent, Ignatian retreat

🔥 S1, E7 5 tips on finding a spiritual director

🔥 S1, E17 (guest) Scotty Sullivan on building up the domestic church: getting teens pumped about the faith.

⛪️ Our Lady of Good Counsel Retreat House

🎶 You Alone by Lauren Daigle

🏅Andy Arbie, ICF Associate Certified Coach

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➡️ Soulful Sunday Reflections: www.andyarbie.com/soulful-sunday

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Welcome back to Own Your Revival 🔥

Navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce often requires women to tap into a masculine energy to address the challenges that arise particularly in the legal arena. Gone is the person who stood with you on your wedding day promising to love you and honor you all the days of your life. At a time when you need to draw strength to stand emotionally, financially, and physically, how do you still hold on to your femininity? How do you understand the difference in how men and women are created? And how can understanding those differences allow you to embrace your feminine qualities such as receptivity, intuition, and nurturing? As well as meet the masculine while also protecting your inherent femininity to build greater resilience even in the upheaval of divorce? Come join me on my front porch this morning to hear all about it.

Links:

Ephesians 5:25-30

Feminine Genius

Andy Arbie, ICF Associate Certified Coach

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What happens when two friends don't agree on the issues of the day 🗳️🇺🇸? Today's episode WILL help you think about how you want to engage around the differences of opinion which inevitably come up between friends, family, and others when important things are decided every 4 years (hint-hint). Not from some stranger on the internet, but those you have laughed with, cried with and shared hopes and dreams with at one point or another IRL as the kids say (in real life). We'll dust off my old friend from business school, The Sunk Cost Fallacy, along with some juicy journaling questions to help in evaluating the health of relationships when conversations around the issues of the day threaten to steal your peace and joy.

Links:

Comedian John Heffron – "Old People" bit on IG

Andy Arbie, ICF Associate Certified Coach

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