Ownit! Powercast

In this episode, we’re tackling a form of anxiety that many of us experience but often don’t recognize: invisible anxiety. It’s that subtle, lingering feeling of stress that you can’t quite explain, but it’s always there. We’ll discuss how this form of anxiety might be connected to subtle behaviors from the people around you, behaviors that can quietly undermine your peace without you even realizing it.

Through thoughtful exploration, we’ll look at how this anxiety shows up, especially during big transitions or important moments in life. You’ll learn why it’s so important to listen to this inner tension and how identifying these subtle cues can lead to clearer decision-making and healthier boundaries.

Key Takeaways:

1.    Invisible anxiety can be a signal that subtle boundary-crossing behaviors are at play.

2.    This anxiety can have a ripple effect, impacting your ability to make clear decisions and stay grounded.

3.    Tuning into these subtle stressors can help you regain control, set boundaries, and restore peace of mind.

Invisible anxiety can make you

feel crazy on the inside,

 but it’s a sign that

the behaviors around you

aren’t as innocent

as they seem.

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Resources:

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In this episode, we explore the complex emotion of guilt and how it can interfere with our ability to maintain healthy boundaries and practice self-care. We dive into the crucial difference between earned and unearned guilt—understanding when guilt is a natural response to our actions and when it is misplaced, often stemming from external pressures or unrealistic expectations. 

We also discuss practical strategies for distinguishing between what we can control—our own reactions, decisions, and behaviors—and what we cannot control, such as the actions and decisions of others. Through real-life examples, we illustrate the importance of setting clear boundaries and embracing healthy detachment, allowing us to focus on self-responsibility and personal growth.

Three Key Takeaways:

1.    Understand the Difference Between Earned and Unearned Guilt: Learn to recognize when guilt is a result of your actions and when it’s misplaced or coming from external pressures, and how to address each appropriately.

2.    Identify Boundaries and Responsibilities: Understand the importance of distinguishing between what choices are yours to make and what belongs to others, helping to prevent taking on unnecessary guilt and fostering healthier relationships.

3.    Embrace Detachment for Growth and Well-Being: Practice letting go of control over others’ choices, focusing instead on self-responsibility and self-care, which supports both personal growth and healthier, more balanced relationships.

Real self-care means creating

 boundaries that preserve our peace,

rather than exhausting ourselves

to solve others' problems.

Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out:

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey! 

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour

Resources:

Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

Make sure you sign up for the bonus downloads at www.ownitpowercast.com.  Tribe members will receive them in their email each week.

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In this episode, we explore the complexities of detachment, especially when it involves letting go of outcomes that feel crucial to our sense of security and well-being. Letting go can feel incredibly challenging, particularly for those with a history of trauma, as it often triggers a deep-seated fear of losing control.

We also delve into the concept of the bargaining stage of grief, where we negotiate mentally and emotionally to escape the discomfort of uncertainty. This bargaining mindset can be a major barrier to healthy detachment, as it prevents us from accepting reality and moving forward.

Three Key Takeaways:

1.  Detachment is Challenging, Especially for Those with Trauma Histories: Fear of losing control is a natural response, particularly for those who have experienced trauma.

2.  The Bargaining Stage of Grief Can Hinder Detachment: When we fear letting go, we often engage in emotional bargaining, trying to negotiate our way out of uncertainty.

3.   Letting Go Means Accepting What We Cannot Control: Healthy detachment involves recognizing the limits of our control and focusing our energy on what we can influence—our own emotions and choices.

Detachment doesn’t

mean we don’t care.

It means we’re wise enough

 to recognize what

 we cannot change.

Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out:

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey! 

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour

Resources:

Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

Make sure you sign up for the bonus downloads at www.ownitpowercast.com.  Tribe members will receive them in their email each week.

Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!

In this episode, we explore the crucial role that trust plays in forming and maintaining meaningful relationships. Trust is the bedrock of any healthy connection, providing the emotional safety and mutual respect necessary for a relationship to thrive. We discuss how to identify trustworthy individuals by looking for key signs such as honesty, reliability, and consistency between words and actions. 

We discuss how to recognize subtle red flags that may indicate a person is not trustworthy, as well as the importance of self-awareness in breaking the cycle of choosing untrustworthy partners or friends. By understanding the underlying reasons for these patterns and learning to trust our intuition, we can make more conscious decisions about the people we allow into our lives, ultimately fostering relationships that are built on a solid foundation of trust and mutual respect.

3 Takeaways:

1.     Trust is the foundation of all healthy relationships, providing the emotional safety and mutual respect needed for meaningful connections to flourish.

2.     Consistency between words and actions, along with honesty and reliability, are key indicators of a trustworthy person.

3.     Recognizing and addressing underlying factors can cause us to place our trust in people who cannot be trustworthy.

Trustworthy people

don’t make excuses;

 they make things right.

Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out:

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey! 

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour

Resources:

Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

Make sure you sign up for the bonus downloads at www.ownitpowercast.com.  Tribe members will receive them in their email each week.

Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!

In this episode, we delve into the insidious nature of manipulation and its profound impact on self-perception and self-worth. Manipulation, particularly in close relationships, often goes unnoticed as it subtly undermines confidence, distorts reality, and erodes a person’s sense of identity over time. We explore how tactics like gaslighting, blame-shifting, and subtle undermining can make individuals doubt their own experiences, leading them to question their value and place within the relationship. As these manipulative behaviors become patterns, the victim’s self-esteem gradually diminishes, trapping them in a cycle of dependency and emotional confusion.

You will gain insights into how to recognize these patterns of manipulation and the long-term effects they can have on mental health and personal growth. By understanding the deep-seated impact of manipulation, you can take the first steps towards healing and fostering healthier, more authentic relationships.

3 Key Takeaways:

1. Recognizing Patterns: Manipulation often manifests as a pattern of subtle behaviors that erode self-confidence and self-worth over time. Identifying these patterns is crucial to breaking free from their grip.
2. The Impact on Perception: Manipulative tactics like gaslighting and blame-shifting can cause individuals to doubt their own reality and experiences, leading to confusion, dependency, and a loss of self-identity.
3. Reclaiming Self-Worth: Understanding the long-term effects of manipulation is the first step in rebuilding confidence and self-worth. By setting boundaries and seeking support, individuals can begin to reclaim their identity and foster healthier relationships.

Manipulation is a slow poison that erodes

your self-worth and distorts your reality,

 leaving you questioning your own

 mind, feelings, and boundaries.

Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out:

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey! 

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour

Resources:

Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

Make sure you sign up for the bonus downloads at www.ownitpowercast.com.  Tribe members will receive them in their email each week.

Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!

In this episode, we explore the crucial role boundaries play in maintaining emotional well-being and reducing stress. We delve into common scenarios where boundaries might be lacking, such as overcommitting to tasks, neglecting self-care, and engaging in people-pleasing behaviors.

By identifying these boundary issues, we can better understand the sources of our frustration, resentment, and anxiety. Through practical advice and real-life examples, this episode provides you with strategies to recognize and address missing boundaries, both in your personal and professional life.

Key Takeaways

1.   Identify the Signs of Missing Boundaries: Recognize when feelings of stress, resentment, or anxiety indicate that boundaries are being overstepped or ignored, either by yourself or others.

2.   Set and Communicate Boundaries Clearly: Learn to assertively communicate your boundaries to others and practice self-discipline to respect your own limits, ensuring you prioritize self-care and personal well-being.

3.   Understand the Role of Self-Boundaries: Realize that setting boundaries isn't just about managing others' behavior but also involves regulating your own actions and reactions to maintain a healthy balance in life.

Self-sabotage is the

 invisible force

that separates you

 from the life

 you envision.

Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out:

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey! 

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour

Resources:

Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

Make sure you sign up for the bonus downloads at www.ownitpowercast.com.  Tribe members will receive them in their email each week.

Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!

In this episode we explore the concept of embedded boundaries – the subtle yet powerful limits we set in our interactions to protect our mental and emotional well-being. These invisible boundaries are crucial for maintaining balance and respect in our relationships, allowing us to manage our responses and protect our energy without imposing on others. We explore various examples of embedded boundaries, such as setting limits on sensitive topics, avoiding interruptions, and managing emotional labor

Embedded boundaries emphasize self-responsibility and the importance of keeping the focus on our own actions and reactions. By practicing these boundaries consistently, we can navigate daily interactions with confidence and grace, avoiding defensiveness and conflict. This episode provides listeners with actionable strategies and real-life scenarios to help them implement embedded boundaries effectively, ultimately enhancing their mental and emotional well-being and improving their relationships.

1.     Self-Focused Boundaries: Embedded boundaries are about managing our own responses and behaviors to protect our well-being without imposing on others. This approach helps maintain control over our emotional health and fosters mutual respect in relationships.

2.     Practical Techniques: Learn practical strategies for setting embedded boundaries, such as steering conversations away from sensitive topics, politely preventing interruptions, and managing emotional labor. These techniques enable you to assert your needs subtly and effectively.

3.     Consistent Practice: Consistency in practicing embedded boundaries is key to making them a natural part of your behavior. By regularly implementing these boundaries, you can navigate interactions with confidence, avoiding defensiveness and ensuring your mental and emotional needs are met.

Effective boundaries are set

 with confidence and clarity,

 focusing on mutual respect

 and understanding.

Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out:

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

Need coaching? Just contact me here to set up a free consult! [email protected]

Resources:

Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

Make sure you sign up for the bonus downloads at www.ownitpowercast.com.  Tribe members will receive them in their email each week.

Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!

In this episode, we delve into the crucial role that setting boundaries plays in protecting your time and energy, allowing you to stay focused on your personal goals. We explore how establishing clear limits helps minimize interruptions and avoid unnecessary commitments, which can otherwise derail your progress and lead to burnout. By creating dedicated work times, saying no to non-essential requests, and prioritizing tasks that align with your aspirations, you can maintain a clear path toward achieving your objectives.

 Boundaries Minimize Interruptions:

• Setting boundaries around work time and creating a conducive environment help ensure uninterrupted periods to focus on your goals, enhancing productivity and progress.

  Avoiding Unnecessary Commitments:

• Boundaries enable you to evaluate and decline requests that do not align with your priorities, preventing overcommitment and allowing you to dedicate time to what truly matters.

  Personal and Professional Success:

• Maintaining strong boundaries is essential for achieving both personal and professional goals, as it helps manage stress, prevent burnout, and ensure consistent progress towards your objectives.

Boundaries protect

your time and energy,

allowing you to focus on

 what truly matters.

Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out:

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

Need coaching? Just contact me here to set up a free consult! [email protected]

Resources:

Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

Make sure you sign up for the bonus downloads at www.ownitpowercast.com.  Tribe members will receive them in their email each week.

Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!

In this episode, we explore the often-intimidating journey towards self-love, self-care, and prioritizing our own needs. Many people struggle with these concepts due to deeply ingrained beliefs and fears, often stemming from childhood experiences of emotional neglect or invalidation. We delve into how these early experiences shape our adult behaviors and perceptions, making it challenging to establish genuine boundaries around our well-being. By understanding the roots of these fears, we can begin to challenge and reframe our negative beliefs, paving the way for healthier self-care practices and a stronger sense of self-worth.

We also discuss practical strategies for recognizing and addressing these deep-seated issues. Listeners will learn how to identify and confront the fears and insecurities that hinder their ability to care for themselves. The episode provides actionable steps for setting and maintaining boundaries, reframing negative self-talk, and seeking the support needed to embark on this transformative journey. Through self-compassion, consistent practice, and a supportive network, anyone can begin to build a foundation of genuine self-love and care.

Key Takeaways

1.     Understanding the Roots of Self-Care Challenges:

Childhood experiences of emotional neglect or invalidation can significantly impact our ability to prioritize self-care and self-love as adults.

2.     Practical Strategies for Change:

Implementing small, consistent self-care practices, challenging negative beliefs, and setting clear, firm boundaries are crucial steps towards building self-worth and well-being.

3.     Importance of Support and Self-Compassion:

Seeking professional help, building a supportive network, and practicing self-compassion are essential components in the journey to genuine self-love and self-care.

Our ability to care for ourselves

 is shaped by our childhood.

 Emotional neglect or invalidation

 can leave lasting scars that hurt our

 self-worth and boundaries.

Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out:

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

Need coaching? Just contact me here to set up a free consult! [email protected]

Resources:

Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

Make sure you sign up for the bonus downloads at www.ownitpowercast.com.  Tribe members will receive them in their email each week.

Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!

Our core values play a vital role in shaping our daily interactions and communication, acting as a guiding force that influences our behavior, decisions, and relationships. Values like honesty, respect, and empathy are essential in building trust and fostering meaningful connections. When we consistently align our actions with our values, we create a foundation of reliability and authenticity, which strengthens our relationships and enhances our ability to connect deeply with others. For example, valuing honesty encourages open and transparent communication, fostering trust and reducing misunderstandings, while empathy leads to compassionate interactions that show genuine concern and support for others.

1.      Values as a Guiding Force: Our core values influence our behavior, decisions, and interactions, shaping the way we communicate and relate to others. Living in alignment with these values fosters authenticity and strengthens our relationships.

2.      Everyday Moments Matter: It's in the small, daily interactions where we have the opportunity to live out our values and truly show up in our relationships. Being present and authentic in these moments builds trust and deepens connections.

3.      Impact of Core Values: Values like honesty, respect, and empathy are crucial in fostering meaningful and supportive relationships. Consistently practicing these values enhances our ability to connect, understand, and support others effectively.

Authenticity shines

in how

we handle

 everyday situations.

Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out:

https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

Need coaching? Just contact me here to set up a free consult! [email protected]

Resources:

Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

Make sure you sign up for the bonus downloads at www.ownitpowercast.com.  Tribe members will receive them in their email each week.

Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!