Anger has been treated as something dangerous—something to avoid, fix, or suppress, especially for women. We were taught to be kind, accommodating, and to keep the peace, even when something inside said "this is not okay." But anger is not the enemy. It's one of the most intelligent emotions we have—communication, information, a signal that something matters, hurts, or needs attention.

In this episode, Perry explores why women were taught not to feel anger, what happens when it goes underground, and how listening to anger can become one of the most powerful acts of self-care and self-respect.

So many women are trying to heal by being hard on themselves—judging their patterns, criticizing the parts of them that learned how to survive. But here's the truth: You don't heal by rejecting those parts or versions of you. You heal by understanding her, by listening, by honoring, and by offering her the safety and compassion she probably didn't have. If you've ever felt ashamed of your coping mechanisms, confused by your reactions, or frustrated that you're still stuck in patterns you thought should be past, this episode is for you. Perry explores why survival patterns aren't character flaws, why compassion isn't optional, and how to finally step out of self-attack and into healing.

This episode explores something incredibly important and profoundly disruptive to how most of us were taught to relate to ourselves: the way you speak to your body. This isn't woo-woo—it's based on decades of research from neuroscience, neuroimmunology, and behavioral medicine.

This episode tackles a question many women carry quietly and privately, often with shame: "I love my partner and my family, but I feel invisible. I'm on autopilot in my own life. I'm forgetting myself. Why do I feel resentful and empty when I have so much to be grateful for?" Perry explores the invisible pattern of self-abandonment that capable, caring women fall into, and offers a pathway back to yourself—without blame, confrontation, or leaving. If you've ever felt like you're living around your life instead of inside it, this conversation is for you.

Have you ever been told you're "too sensitive"? This episode is for every woman who has heard those words from a partner, parent, boss, colleague—or from that critical voice inside her own head. Perry dismantles the myth that sensitivity is a flaw and reframes it as intelligence, attunement, and sacred power. If you've been taught to numb, minimize, or apologize for feeling deeply, this conversation will remind you that your sensitivity is not something to fix—it's something the world desperately needs.

In this first Thursday Q&A episode, Perry tackles one of the most common questions she hears in her therapy practice: "How do I ask for what I need from my partner without triggering defensiveness or feeling like my needs are too much?"

This episode explores the nervous system dynamics behind communication breakdown, offers practical body-based tools for regulation, and provides a clear framework for expressing needs in ways that invite connection instead of conflict.

Welcome to the relaunch of Oxygen for Women! After pausing during the pandemic, Perry Jansen returns with a renewed mission: to remind women they are not alone in their struggles. This pilot episode explores the hidden epidemic of loneliness, the healing power of community, and why connection is literally medicine for our bodies and souls. If you've been giving more than you've got and are ready for revolutionary self-care, this is your invitation to breathe, restore, and reclaim your inner oxygen.

Welcome to Oxygen for Women — the space to finally exhale the pressure, reconnect with your truth, and remember who you truly are in the midst of life’s challenges.

Hosted by Perry Janssen, psychotherapist, author, emotional intelligence and somatic expert, this podcast is your weekly breath of renewal — where psychology meets spirituality, and healing meets real life.

Here, we explore what women are really facing today: stress, burnout, people-pleasing, perfectionism, emotional exhaustion, relationship challenges, the menopausal festival, and the longing to live with more ease, vitality, and self-connection. Each soulful episode offers inspiration, emotional insight, and critical tools for revolutionary self-care - the kind to restore your energy, lighten the challenges, and remember that your Self is sacred.

If you’ve been giving more than you’ve got, this is your invitation to breathe, restore, and reclaim your inner oxygen.

Keywords: women’s empowerment, somatic healing, mindfulness, emotional intelligence, burnout recovery, self-care, self-love, women’s psychology, healing, spiritual growth