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In this episode, Chad and Scott discuss the power of words and how they can impact our lives. They emphasize the importance of using positive and empowering language, especially when it comes to parenting. They highlight the phrases "I am" and "I can" and the impact they have on our mindset and actions. By avoiding negative words and replacing them with more empowering phrases, parents can help their children develop a positive relationship with money and success. The hosts also share advice on how to ensure that the words we use encourage and uplift our children, ultimately propelling them towards success.

• Importance of using empowering words with children
• The impact of words on mindset and behavior
• Reframing negative stories and narratives
• Teaching gratitude and the power of positive language
• The significance of staying calm and composed during conflicts with children

Mentioned in this episode 

gravystack.com/smart

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smartmoneyparenting.com

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Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott 

Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

In this episode, Chad and Scott delve into the topic of how the story we tell our kids about money can have lasting effects on their financial mindset. They emphasize the importance of recognizing the influence our own childhood experiences have on our attitudes towards money and how we unknowingly pass them on to our children. They discuss the potential negative impacts, such as entitlement, anxiety, and trauma, that can result from not being aware of the stories we are telling about money. By understanding the power of the narratives we create, we can avoid driving our kids over the potholes of financial missteps and instead foster a healthy and empowered relationship with money for future generations.

Mentioned in this episode 

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smartmoneyparenting.com

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Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott 

Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

In this episode of Smart Money Parenting, Scott and Chad discuss the importance of having your money work for you rather than working for your money. They emphasize the distinction between assets and liabilities, with assets being defined as something that generates income. They provide insights on how to escape the job trap and share practical tips for getting your money to work for you. Tune in to learn how to raise amazing kids while achieving financial freedom.

1. The difference between assets and liabilities.
2. Assets are defined as things that pay you money, while liabilities are things that cost you money.
3. Focus on buying and investing in assets.
4. Financial freedom is achieved by having your money work for you
5. Teach children about setting goals to accumulate assets for financial security.

Mentioned in this episode 

gravystack.com/smart

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smartmoneyparenting.com

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Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott 

Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

In this episode of Smart Money Parenting, Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss the challenges and transitions that come with becoming a parent. They acknowledge the immense responsibility and hard work that parents carry, comparing them to superheroes. From the simple act of going to the beach to planning a short getaway, they highlight the shift from a life of "me" to a life of "we" when you have kids. They emphasize the importance of changing your perspective and adapting to prioritize the needs of your children.

• Importance of instilling positive beliefs in children
• The power of words in shaping a child's identity
• Examples of how positive reinforcement can lead to positive changes in behavior
• The impact of negative comments on a child's self-perception
• The role of parents and adult figures in providing a sense of identity and belief in children

Mentioned in this episode 

gravystack.com/smart

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smartmoneyparenting.com

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Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott 

Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

In this episode of Smart Money Parenting, Scott and Chad discuss the importance of instilling the right beliefs and mindsets in children. They emphasize that children will believe what their parents say about them, and share personal stories to illustrate this point. They highlight the need for parents to encourage their children's gifts and make them feel supported. Tune in to learn more about shaping your child's beliefs for success. 

• Importance of instilling positive beliefs in children
• The power of words in shaping a child's identity
• Examples of how positive reinforcement can lead to positive changes in behavior
• The impact of negative comments on a child's self-perception
• The role of parents and adult figures in providing a sense of identity and belief in children

Mentioned in this episode 

gravystack.com/smart

gravystack.com/igniter

smartmoneyparenting.com

smartmoneyparenting.com/followus

Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott 

Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

• The podcast episode discusses the concept of boot camps as a way to teach discipline and training to children.
• The hosts emphasize that all discipline issues in a family can be attributed to a lack of training.
• They provide a list of boot camps for different age groups, ranging from zero to five years old, six to nine years old, and 10 to 13 years old.
• The boot camps cover various skills and values, such as proper behavior in public, household chores, time management, mental toughness, and financial responsibility.
• The hosts highlight the importance of teaching children practical skills and fostering a love for learning outside of school.

In this episode of Smart Money Parenting, the hosts discuss how to master money without losing your identity. They are joined by Financial Expert and Writer of "Investing is your Super Power" ; Empowered Planning, Shinobu Hindert, who shares her insights and expertise on the topic. The conversation explores the importance of not tying money to one's identity and focusing on underlying values. They also discuss the hurdles that parents face in managing their own finances and teaching their kids about money. This episode offers valuable advice and guidance for parents seeking to navigate the world of personal finance.

• Biggest hurdles for parents in managing finances: lack of time and decision fatigue
• Advice for parents who are intimidated by personal finance: start with the basics, be transparent about current financial situation, and set future goals
• Importance of automating financial decisions and creating a roadmap for financial planning
• Teaching kids about money: explaining the impact of money in everyday life, encouraging open conversations about money, and answering their questions
• Success story of a client who gained confidence and paid off debt through empowered planning
• Importance of understanding one's money story and money mindset
• Having conversations with spouses about money: understanding each other's values and financial priorities, avoiding conflict, and finding common ground
• Removing identity from money and focusing on underlying values and goals

Mentioned in this episode 

https://www.empoweredplanning.com/ 

gravystack.com/smart

gravystack.com/igniter

smartmoneyparenting.com

smartmoneyparenting.com/followus

Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

Shinobu Hindert on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shinobu-hindert

Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott 

Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

In this podcast episode, the Scott & Chad discuss their mission of financial education and success building in young people. They talk about the overwhelming response they receive from people who want to get involved and help. They also mention their upcoming event where they plan to break a world record for the most kids learning about financial literacy live on a livestream. They then shift the conversation to the importance of setting goals for kids and how it can help them think about something bigger than themselves. They mention a book called "Be Your Future Self Now" that inspired discussions with their own teenagers about setting goals and becoming the person they want to be in the future.

Bullet Point Break Down;

• Breaking a world record for the most kids in history participating in a live stream to learn financial literacy skills.
• Mention of notable guests and influencers participating in the event.
• Discussion on the importance of setting goals and thinking about a future version of oneself that matters enough to take action today.
• Reference to the book "Be Your Future Self Now" by Dr. Benjamin Hardy and its impact on teenagers.
• Explanation of the MAP (Motivation Ability Prompt) system for taking action on goals.
• Examples of using the MAP system for flossing teeth and doing push-ups.
• Importance of setting up prompts and reminders to support goal achievement.
• Mention of the "Start Your Day" habit and the concept of working backwards to set goals.
• Introduction to the concept of a strategy circle for kids and families to overcome obstacles and reach goals.
• Encouragement to make goals simple, measurable, and attainable.

How to Keep your Kids Accountable; 

• Emphasize the importance of setting goals that are simple, measurable, and attainable.
• Discuss the concept of SMART goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound).
• Encourage kids to think about their future selves and what they want to achieve.
• Teach kids to work backwards from their desired outcome and set smaller, actionable goals.
• Introduce the idea of creating vision boards or I am statements to visualize and reinforce goals.
• Use prompts and reminders to help kids stay motivated and accountable.
• Encourage kids to identify and overcome obstacles that may hinder their progress.
• Discuss the concept of perseverance and the importance of taking action towards goals.
• Highlight the benefits of having an accountability partner or support system.
• Encourage kids to celebrate milestones and successes along the way.

Mentioned in This Episode:

Elevate Experience 2023

Empower Over 15,000 Kids in a record Breaking Financial Literacy Event 

https://www.elevate.kids

gravystack.com/smart

gravystack.com/igniter

smartmoneyparenting.com

smartmoneyparenting.com/followus

Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott 

Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

In this episode, both Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss the right mindset for back-to-school season. They emphasize the importance of bringing one's best self, making a good first impression, and approaching challenges as opportunities for personal growth. The hosts also share advice on how parents can support their children in developing a positive attitude towards school.

• Encourage your child to embrace new opportunities and make new friends.
• Shift their mindset from focusing on being with their best friends to creating value for their classmates.
• Teach them to think about how they can serve and add value to others in the classroom.
• Emphasize the importance of bringing their best self and making a positive first impression.
• Help them develop a mindset of growth, positive energy, and serving others.
• Focus on the value they add to others' lives rather than just their own achievements.
• Prepare them to be a powerful force in the world by instilling traits of success and leadership.

Mentioned in This Episode:

gravystack.com/smart

gravystack.com/igniter

smartmoneyparenting.com

smartmoneyparenting.com/followus

Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott 

Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell

Stop doing things for your kids, just do things with them

• The Importance of Quality Time with Your Kids
• Making Memories with Your Children
• Prioritizing Family Time over Work
• Parenting with Peace of Mind
• Doing Things Together: The Key to Strong Parent-Child Relationships
• Parenting Beyond Providing: The Power of Shared Experiences
• Creating Lasting Bonds with Your Kids
• The Value of Presence in Parenting
• Building Connections through Shared Activities
• Making Every Moment Count with Your Children 

In this episode of Smart Money Parenting, Scott Donnell & Chad Willardson discuss the importance of focusing on doing things with your kids rather than just for them. They emphasize that while parents often work hard to provide for their children, what truly matters is the quality time spent together. By prioritizing activities and experiences with their kids, parents can find peace of
mind and strengthen their relationships. Tune in for practical tips and advice on how to make the most of your time with your children.

"When I look back, I don't remember a lot of things that my parents even really taught me, but I do remember the times we were together."

Mentioned in This Episode:

gravystack.com/smart

gravystack.com/igniter

smartmoneyparenting.com

smartmoneyparenting.com/followus

Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott 

Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell