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  • The Future of Education is Online?
    Podcast: Smart Money Parenting (LS 40 · TOP 1.5% what is this?)
    Episode: The Future of Education is Online?
    Pub date: 2023-06-27

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    What does the future of education look like? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss how education is slowly moving online and ways parents and kids can use the internet to learn skills necessary for succeeding in the real world.

    • Chad and Scott start the discussion by describing how the internet will change education as we know it.
    • For Scott, education should be about kids learning practical skills that they can use to succeed in the real world.
    • It’s so unfortunate that modern education focuses primarily on good grades and memorizing theoretical concepts instead of equipping kids with practical life skills.
    • Scott reveals the reasons most parents don’t believe in online education.
    • Scott talks about the critical thinking and practical skills kids and adults can earn online.
    • Scott and Chad discuss the things parents can do to ensure their kids don’t become addicted to technology use and social media.
    • As a parent, you must have rules in your home where your kids use technology for education, not entertainment.
    • Chad and Scott agree that the world is a classroom, and you can learn anything you want to learn for free online.
    • Chad is convinced that education has moved online, and it doesn’t matter whether we’re ready for it or not.
    • According to Scott, education needs to be ranked and prioritized based on how it creates value in the real world.
    • Scott talks about online safety and consuming the right online content.
    • You must be careful online because if you don’t know what ‘they’re selling,’ then you are the product they’re selling.
    • Chad describes the effectiveness of online learning and why it only makes sense when the acquired knowledge leads to action.
    • For Chad, you can’t run away from technology. Your kids will be on screens, so always ensure that what they are consuming online is productive.

     

     

    Mentioned in This Episode:

    gravystack.com/smart

    gravystack.com/igniter

    smartmoneyparenting.com

    smartmoneyparenting.com/followus

    Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

    Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

    Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott

    Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

    Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

    Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

    Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell



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    27 min
  • Proven Strategies for Raising Future Rockstars
    Podcast: Smart Money Parenting (LS 40 · TOP 1.5% what is this?)
    Episode: Proven Strategies for Raising Future Rockstars
    Pub date: 2023-06-23

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    What is the secret to raising exceptional kids? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss the necessary parenting skills to raise Rockstar kids. From fostering a supportive environment to cultivating discipline, creativity, and resilience, the duo uncovers the secrets behind empowering young minds to shine like true stars.

    • Chad and Scott start the conversation by describing the joys of raising super successful kids.
    • Chad shares how his eldest daughter is winning in almost all aspects of her life.
    • Chad talks about the power of patience, persistence, and discipline in raising rockstar kids.
    • The one thing you want as a parent is to have kids whoknow they can try new things, and if they put in the work, the results and the rewards will follow.
    • Chad reveals the power of setting high expectations for your kids and giving them the resources they need to succeed.
    • Scott and Chad agree that the excitement and enthusiasm to try something new is something all parents must foster in their kids.
    • Scott reveals how consistent little wins can yield big results.
    • As parents, we often underestimate our kids. We don't give them enough credit or think they are incapable of anything.
    • According to Scott, your kids can do things you never thought possible - from learning new skills to solving problems and taking initiative.
    • For Chad, the biggest mistake parents make is labeling their kids and putting them in a box where they cannot try new things.
    • Chad shares things parents can do to help develop their children's curiosity.
    • Chad talks about children taking risks and the mindset your kid needs to develop to succeed in the real world.
    • Scott describes how parents can nurture creativity in their kids by encouraging curiosity and allowing them to try new experiences.

     

     

    Mentioned in This Episode:

    gravystack.com/smart

    gravystack.com/igniter

    smartmoneyparenting.com

    smartmoneyparenting.com/followus

    Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

    Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

    Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott

    Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

    Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

    Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

    Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell



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    18 min
  • Five Nightmares All Parents Struggle With
    Podcast: Smart Money Parenting (LS 40 · TOP 1.5% what is this?)
    Episode: Five Nightmares All Parents Struggle With
    Pub date: 2023-06-20

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    What are you most afraid of when it comes to raising your kids? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson go through the five nightmares all parents have with their kids. They cover the foundation of healthy parent to child relationships, what it takes to raise self-sufficient kids, and why deep down, all kids crave independence.

    • Scott and Chad start the conversation by describing the incredible journey to getting GravyStack online.
    • For Scott, there's no better feeling for a parent than when a kid stops asking for money.
    • Scott and Chad go through the five nightmares all parents have with their kids and how to deal with them.
    • According to Chad, no matter how busy you are, you must create time for real conversations with your kids.
    • It's so unfortunate that many parents see their kids as liabilities.
    • However, Scott is convinced that when you make your kids self-sufficient, they will become valuable contributors in the home.
    • Chad shares how you can effectively prepare your kids for the real world.
    • Scott and Chad discuss ways parents can create a system where kids can learn how to cover their own expenses.
    • For Scott, giving your kids money they did not work for is a lose-lose situation.
    • If you give in, you'll feel guilty for raising entitled kids. If you don't, then your kids see you as the bad guy.
    • Scott and Chad agree that the biggest win for parents is when their kids are motivated to do stuff on their own.
    • The best businesses in the world are solving the customer's deep needs and pain points.
    • Fear just shows that you're unprepared and haven't done the work ahead of time.
    • Did you know that 93% of shared time between parents and kids happens before their 18th birthday?
    • According to Scott, you shouldn't feel guilty when your kids take ownership of their lives. Your goal is to raise accountable kids that don't think the world owes them anything.
    • As your kids grow older, Scott believes you need to move from parent-guardian to coach-friend if you want to maintain a strong relationship into adulthood.
    • Have you ever felt like time is ticking and your kids are growing up too fast? Scott shares how you can build a better relationship with your kids before it's too late.
    • Chad talks about the dilemma most parents experience: I want to be a friend to my kids, but I cannot neglect my duty as a parent.
    • Deep down, all kids want to be independent. You do not want nagging and the constant push-pull between parents and kids in your home.
    • Scott reveals a stress-free system parents can use to maintain a healthy home - a system kids willingly want to follow and enjoy following. 

     

     

    Mentioned in This Episode:

    gravystack.com/smart

    gravystack.com/igniter

    smartmoneyparenting.com

    smartmoneyparenting.com/followus

    Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

    Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

    Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott

    Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

    Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

    Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

    Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell



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    30 min
  • Tuttle Twins Guide to Good Money Skills - Guest Connor Boyack
    Podcast: Smart Money Parenting (LS 40 · TOP 1.5% what is this?)
    Episode: Tuttle Twins Guide to Good Money Skills - Guest Connor Boyack
    Pub date: 2023-06-16

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    Do you know about the Tuttle Twins? If not, what resources are you using to help your kids develop critical thinking skills about real-world concepts? In today's episode, Scott Donnell and Connor Boyack discuss ways parents can explain economics, money subjects, and political principles to kids of all ages.

    • Connor Boyack is the founder and president of Libertas Institute, a free market think tank in Utah. He is best known for The Tuttle Twins books, a children's series introducing young readers to economic, political, and civic principles.
    • Scott and Connor start the conversation by talking about the Tuttle Twins Series and how it is impacting kids worldwide.
    • If you want to teach your kids anything, you must find a way to make it engaging; otherwise, it won't stick.
    • Scott explains what most parents don't realize about raising kids - anything you teach them today is a seed planted for their future success.
    • Connor reveals the things parents should focus on if they want to raise super successful kids.
    • Connor breaks down a survey where more than 50,000 parents were asked about the school system and why they send their kids to school.
    • From the survey, the researchers found that parents primarily wanted their kids to learn practical skills and critical thinking, which are, unfortunately, not emphasized enough in today's curriculum.
    • Connor and Scott agree that parents will get greater results if they learn financial literacy alongside their kids.
    • Scott highlights the two main reasons parents avoid talking about money to their kids.
    • According to Connor, learning doesn't have to be inside a classroom to be effective. Your kids can learn just as much at the dinner table.
    • For Scott, life is your playground as a parent; you can make everything an incredible lesson for your kids.
    • Connor does not believe we can pass some law and fix the issue of financial illiteracy. If we're going to save the future generation, it has to start at the dinner table.
    • The best messages in the world are so easy that a 5-year-old can understand them.
    • Scott reveals that kids learn by having fun and through real-world experience. The fun makes it motivating and the real-world experience gives them capability and confidence to succeed.

     

     

    Mentioned in This Episode:

    gravystack.com/smart

    gravystack.com/igniter

    smartmoneyparenting.com

    smartmoneyparenting.com/followus

    Tuttletwins.com

    Connor Boyack’s LinkedIn

    Download the Angel App Here: Angel.com

    Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

    Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

    Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott

    Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

    Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

    Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

    Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell



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    26 min
  • Chase Purpose, Not Money
    Podcast: Smart Money Parenting (LS 40 · TOP 1.5% what is this?)
    Episode: Chase Purpose, Not Money
    Pub date: 2023-06-13

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    Is having a purpose in life more important than chasing money? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss why you need to help your kids find their purpose and the financial rewards of chasing purpose instead of money.

    • Chad and Scott start the conversation by talking about their life's mission and why it has never been about making money - all they want is to help parents raise amazing kids.
    • According to Scott, purpose is greater than money. People need a purpose more than they need money.
    • For Chad, if you're chasing money without a purpose, you're going to be empty, unfulfilled, and unsuccessful.
    • Chad and Scott agree that when you chase purpose and get people on board with that mission, the abundance and financial rewards are unlimited.
    • Giving your kids an allowance without making them work for it makes them grow up thinking they deserve a bunch of free stuff from the world.
    • Scott describes how money cannot make you happy. He knows many rich people who are wealthy but too miserable to enjoy life.
    • It's easy to spot someone who is just chasing money without purpose; they don't care about impact and don't care about people.
    • Chad is convinced that throwing money at people's problems will not solve anything. They are not going to be happier, and they're probably going to spend their way back to being broke.
    • The point of life is not just to get rich. The point of life is to find purpose and find ways to love.
    • According to Scott, you have to chase purpose more than you chase financial rewards. Financial rewards come after you find your purpose and become valuable.
    • Chad and Scott agree that it's hard to make money. You can only do it through hard work, discipline, and creating value.
    • Chad talks about finding your mission and how doing what you were born to do will ultimately lead to financial rewards.
    • Scott reveals the trilogy of finding your purpose - these are the things you love, the things you're good at, and finding ways to solve other people's needs.

     

     

    Mentioned in This Episode:

    gravystack.com/smart

    smartmoneyparenting.com

    smartmoneyparenting.com/followus

    What's in It for Them?: 9 Genius Networking Principles to Get What You Want by Helping Others Get What They Want by Joe Polish

    Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

    Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

    Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott

    Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

    Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

    Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

    Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell



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    25 min
  • Mirror the Environment that Your Children Will Mature Into
    Podcast: Smart Money Parenting (LS 40 · TOP 1.5% what is this?)
    Episode: Mirror the Environment that Your Children Will Mature Into
    Pub date: 2023-06-09

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    How can you prepare your kids for the real world after leaving the nest? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss why you must create a home environment similar to what your kids will find in the real world.

    • Scott starts the conversation by describing when and how parents should start preparing their kids for the real world.
    • Chad reveals the most important lesson he learned growing up.
    • As a parent, your kids need to know that play never comes before work. We work first, and the rewards come later.
    • For Scott, the worst thing you could ever do as a parent is to raise your kids in a bubble.
    • Scott and Chad explore ways parents can create a home economy that mirrors the real world.
    • Give your kids love and show them that you care, but don't protect them from struggle and sacrifice.
    • Scott and Chad agree that we need to raise kids two years older than they are. Teach them the future and give them responsibility earlier than what society says their age deserves.
    • Scott describes how mimicking the environment of the real world at home will do your kids a lot of good in the future.
    • According to Scott, you're not loving your kids more by cuddling and pampering them. You're just preparing them for shock and failure once they leave the nest.
    • For Scott, your kids will become entitled when they get whatever they want without working for it.
    • Shockingly, 80 to 90% of parents never make their kids pay for anything. According to Scott, kids need to start covering some of their expenses from age six to eight. 

     

     

    Mentioned in This Episode:

    gravystack.com/smart

    smartmoneyparenting.com

    What's in It for Them?: 9 Genius Networking Principles to Get What You Want by Helping Others Get What They Want by Joe Polish

    Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

    Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

    Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott

    Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

    Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

    Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

    Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell



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    18 min
  • Why Coachability is Critical for Success, for Both Kids and Parents
    Podcast: Smart Money Parenting (LS 40 · TOP 1.5% what is this?)
    Episode: Why Coachability is Critical for Success, for Both Kids and Parents
    Pub date: 2023-06-06

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    What is the key to developing coachability in your kids? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss why coachability is crucial for success for both kids and parents.

    • Chad and Scott break down the concept of coachability and why it’s important for a family’s success.
    • The most successful people have coaches. According to Chad, high performers have coaches and view them as a crucial cog in their path to success.
    • Parents should never match their kid’s emotions. If your kid is going wild or getting angry and frustrated, the worst thing you can do is sink to their level.
    • For Chad, the biggest compliment you can ever receive as a parent is that your kids are coachable.
    • According to Chad, coachability sets apart the winners from those who don’t want to learn how to win.
    • Scott explains the benefits of your kids being part of a competitive team.
    • If you want your kids to be financially competent and ready to succeed in the real world, they need to be coachable, and so do you.
    • For Scott, how kids react to coaches says a lot about how you raised them and their view of life and personal improvement.
    • Solve problems together. It’s not you versus your kid; it’s you and your kid versus the problem or the challenge at hand.
    • Scott explains why you need to teach your kids that not all situations are win or lose - sometimes you learn.
    • Scott breaks down the First Time Follow Rule and how it can help you raise coachable kids.
    • Does good cop/bad cop work with children? Chad and Scott go through the pros and cons of this type of parenting strategy.
    • Scott and Chad reveal what parents can do to become more coachable and learn to cultivate coachability in the home. 

     

     

    Mentioned in This Episode:

    gravystack.com/smart

    smartmoneyparenting.com

    Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

    Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

    Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott

    Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

    Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

    Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

    Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell



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    23 min
  • Firm Plus Kind Equals Success
    Podcast: Smart Money Parenting (LS 40 · TOP 1.5% what is this?)
    Episode: Firm Plus Kind Equals Success
    Pub date: 2023-06-02

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    Should you be firm with your kids? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss how being firm and kind to your kids creates mentally strong and successful kids. They cover the best way to say no to your children and how letting your kids solve their own problems turns them into confident, resilient, and well-rounded individuals.

    • Chad starts the conversation by describing how being firm but kind creates mentally strong and successful kids.
    • Scott describes the foundation of being a firm but kind parent.
    • Scott and Chad agree that relationships without rules equals rebellion. However, relationships with rules equals bonds that last a lifetime.
    • Having rules is not about turning your kids into little robots. Allow room for creativity but have guidelines that keep them in check.
    • Scott outlines the benefits of allowing your kids to solve their own problems.
    • For Scott, when a leader is too firm, they become like a tyrannical dictator. Everyone’s scared of them, and that rarely creates the best results.
    • Will your kids hate you if you have rules that they must follow? Of course not. Kids need structure to develop into secure, happy adults.
    • If you have a consequence laid out for your kids, you better follow through with it.
    • Understand that there is no substance to kindness without firmness to back it up.
    • Chad explains why sticking to what you say is crucial for successful parenting.
    • Scott describes how parents can learn to say no with kindness.
    • Scott believes the best relationships are built when your kids understand and agree with the why behind your decisions.

     

     

    Mentioned in This Episode:

    gravystack.com/smart

    smartmoneyparenting.com

    Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

    Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

    Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott

    Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

    Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

    Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

    Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell



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    20 min
  • Let Your Kids Scrape Their Knees
    Podcast: Smart Money Parenting (LS 40 · TOP 1.5% what is this?)
    Episode: Let Your Kids Scrape Their Knees
    Pub date: 2023-05-30

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    Scott and Chad sit down and discuss how letting your kids scrape their knees is key to their long-term success and overall resiliency in life. Find out why small struggles and overcoming difficult challenges is important to building confidence and how parents that coddle their children prevent them from growing into all they are meant to be.

    • Kids need to run into small obstacles and challenges like scraping their knees.
    • Scott tells the story of making mistakes as a new and exhausted father. Babies and children have no concept of their mortality and often attempt things that result in them getting hurt. The trick is in providing an environment where they can make mistakes, get some bumps and bruises, but while not risking anything really dangerous.
    • The more you coddle your children, the harder it is going to be for them to learn on their own.
    • Children will look to their parents in some situations to figure out how to respond to a situation. We have to be careful with our reactions.
    • No parent wants their kid to get hurt, but if the kid can learn and succeed through the struggle, there is incredible capability and confidence on the other side.
    • We tend to jump in as parents and fix our kid’s problems, but that doesn’t help them grow at the end of the day.
    • The greater joy is seeing your children overcome and get back up.
    • There is no losing as a kid, there is winning or learning.
    • The resiliency that a kid builds by trying over and over again, and breaking through barriers, is the resiliency that creates success long-term.
    • A great question at the dinner table is, "What have you learned today by trying something new?" Reward your kids for trying new things instead of just succeeding at something they’ve already done before.
    • It’s better to make small mistakes when you’re young than big mistakes when you’re much older.
    • Let your children go through the struggle and celebrate them when they get to the other side.
    • Little mindset shifts as a parent make a big difference.
    • Let’s let our kids fail, make mistakes, learn, get up, get better, and keep going. Praise the effort and their persistence.

     

     

    Mentioned in This Episode:

    gravystack.com/smart

    smartmoneyparenting.com

    Grit by Angela Duckworth

    Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

    Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

    Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott

    Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

    Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

    Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

    Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell



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    18 min
  • Ambiguity Creates Anxiety, but Clarity Creates Confidence
    Podcast: Smart Money Parenting (LS 40 · TOP 1.5% what is this?)
    Episode: Ambiguity Creates Anxiety, but Clarity Creates Confidence
    Pub date: 2023-05-26

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    How do you set and communicate expectations to your kids? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss the importance of clarity and setting expectations for kids. They also reveal how ambiguity around expectations creates anxiety and chaos for your kids.

    • Ambiguity creates anxiety, but clarity creates confidence in kids.
    • For Scott, you need rules and systems to run a functioning home.
    • However, when you're rigid and structured with your rules, you risk killing your child's creativity.
    • Chad explains why the first time you set up expectations for your kid, you must do it with them and show them what "done" looks like.
    • Scott talks about the do’s and don'ts of raising value-creation kids.
    • Scott and Chad agree that delegating tasks to your kids may take extra effort upfront but will pay off in the long run.
    • Chad compares an ambiguous home to a city with no stop lights and no speed limits - it's dangerous and chaotic.
    • According to Chad, you'll have a much calmer and happier home when you communicate clearly with your kids.
    • Be very clear with how you want things done in the home. 85% of the results come from the first 15% of the process. That is true in business and family.
    • For Scott, smart money parents see their kids as an incredible asset in the home. They're not just a blessing; they are a benefit and can really help you with your life.
    • Chad describes why you must set up your home where everybody is part of the team and working towards the same goal.

     

     

    Mentioned in This Episode:

    gravystack.com/smart

    smartmoneyparenting.com

    Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson

    Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson

    Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott

    Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson

    Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell

    Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson

    Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell



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    22 min

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