Parenting By Design

S2 Episode 47: Pondering Relationships Through Astrology Part 2

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with compatibility through astrological terms. There are so many variables that play a role in who we are as humans and Astrology is one way people explain our design. And while there are some answers that make us feel good, they are all just a story. Now we know ”it’s not about compatibility, it’s about recognizing why we’re so triggered by the relationships.”

Listen as we discuss:

• Tangie’s Experience With A Controlled Substance
• Recognizing And Naming Feelings
• Just The Tip Of Posthumanism

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S2 Episode 46: Pondering Relationships Through Astrology Part 1

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with compatibility through astrological terms. There are so many variables that play a role in who we are as humans and Astrology is one way people explain our ways of being. Tangie gives us some insight on what she knows. Stay tuned for Part Two!

Listen as we discuss:

• The Evolution Of Adapting To Our Environment
• Problem Solving To Adapt To Our Current Environment
• Just The Tip Of Posthumanism

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S2 Episode 45: Five Simple Words That Shifted My Perspective On Relationships!

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences supporting their authentic selves. We bring all the buzzwords in this episode while Alicia gets candid about feeling unworthy of friendships and turns to Tangie for support in growth. Tangie extrapolates the narrative Alicia has told herself about herself. And now we know “asking for what you need” is a simple hack into the present moment and works with adults and kids alike!

Listen as we discuss:

• The Return To The Authentic Self
• The Purpose Of Triggers
• Setting Boundaries Without Emotion
• Tools Kids Can Use To Stay True To Themselves

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S2 Episode 44: Why Do We Internalize Our Kids' Words And Behavior?!

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with the stories we tell ourselves about our children’s words and behaviors. We lead ourselves to believe they are “pushing our buttons” or ”testing our boundaries”. This helps us justify the behavior and feel better about the guilt we feel in our frustration with our kids. Now we know, young kids are being their authentic self trying to make sense of the world around them.

Listen as we discuss:

• Behavioral Triggers

• Personality Differences For Capacity

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S2 Episode 43: I Been Workin’ On My Body! Postpartum Workouts

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with their postpartum bodies. Women’s bodies do a miraculous thing in nurturing and caring for a human in the womb. And getting to a place of acceptance and comfort in our bodies after delivery can be hard. Maybe redefining what our bodies mean to us can help the process along. Now we know we can look good and feel good with our own unique workout protocol.

Listen as we discuss:
• Our Postpartum Bodies
• Lifestyle Changes For Overall Health
• Redefining What It Means To Workout

Resources:
Body Types according to Ayurveda
https://www.ayurveda.com/2021/08/24/ayurveda-a-brief-introduction-and-guide/

Song Credits:
Body-Megan Thee Stallion
https://open.spotify.com/track/0A1hoCfMLkiAgvhWkkucJa?si=7r2-WDDURRyGYMLvmyAa2w&context=spotify%3Aplaylist%3A37i9dQZF1DXbmCTvLQy5AO

SCOOP-Little Nas X, Doja Cat https://open.spotify.com/track/6bpq1jGkVz66Q3LYeoXdjZ?si=4VbiecT4SCeQx6YK8mXrkA&context=spotify%3Aplaylist%3A37i9dQZF1DXaPCIWxzZwR1

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S2 Episode 42: The Developmental Stage Of Justice

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with their kids demanding justice. Whether it be treating each child equally or giving a fair shot, our children are simply trying to figure out the world around them. Now we know fair doesn’t mean equal and we wouldn’t want it to.

Listen as we discuss:

• Validating The Need For Justice
• Problem Solving Verses Focusing On The Problem
• Playing Your Way Through Justice

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S2 Episode 41: What Do You Do To Cultivate Perseverance With Your Kids?

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with pushing their kids to overcome self doubt. We want to help our kids when times seem tough or uncomfortable. It’s part of the nature of being older and having experienced more of life than they have so far. And what’s the harm in giving them a little nudge? For us, we want to honor who and where our kids are in that moment and have the ability to use their internal compass. We now know, perseverance is simply one value in which there is no rush to conquer.

Listen as we discuss:

• Tangies Perspective On The Difference Between Beliefs And Values

• How Values Play A Role In Pushing Through Tough Circumstances

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S2 Episode 40: How Do You Hold The Vision For Your Kids Without Validating Them?

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with giving space for their children to navigate their internal compass. We believe our internal compass is driven by our intrinsic motivation and our intrinsic motivation is self validating through experiences over time. We now know by validating our kids' emotions and perceptions, it allows them to form their internal compass for who they are and want to be.

Listen as we discuss:

• Validating Emotions Without Judgement

• Kids Can Access Their Internal Compass When They Feel Safe In Having Feelings And Emotions

• When Kids Are Connected With Their Internal Compass, They Are Intrinsically Motivated

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S2 Episode 39: The Challenges Of Drop Off On The First Day Of School

In this episode, Tangie shares her experience with dropping off kids at school. Separation can be hard for some kids and parents too! And while we know we can’t avoid all challenges (and we don’t want to), we want our kids to know they are safe in feeling an array of emotions that come up with new experiences. Hang in until the end through all the pauses and “hmmms” while we discover what we know now.

Listen as we discuss:

• When Our Values Don’t Align With Our Best Efforts

• The Narratives Attached To Traumas And Challenges

• Focussing On Solutions Rather Than The Problem

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S2 Episode 38: How Do We Foster A Sense Of Community In Today’s Time?

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia question how we have lost our sense of community in the hustle and bustle of today’s time. And not only do we personally long for a community, our children are seeking one too. Is it in our nature to desire a sense of belonging? What are the benefits and risks in a community? We have a lot more questions than answers, but we now know community makes space for freedom.

Listen as we discuss:

• How Living In Our Own Bubbles Gives A Sense Of Control
• What Is Desirable About A Community
• How Our Kids Eventually Naturally Shift From Home To Community

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