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S2 Episode 37: Religious Privilege Part 2

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with religion and the idea of religious privilege. There is clear division created with religious beliefs. And while it can be a challenge to discern through the information, at minimum we believe in the power of love and light. We go through the ups and downs in religion from our own childhoods to now, our children’s experiences. Now we know we can have a spiritual experience without the pressures of following a religion.

Listen as we discuss:

• Tangie’s Take On Reincarnation

• Why Revenge Only Hurts The Revengeful

• The Empowerment Behind Choosing Your Life Verses Being A Victim Of Life

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S2 Episode 36: Religious Privilege Part 1

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with religion and the idea of religious privilege. There is clear division created with religious beliefs. And while it can be a challenge to discern through the information, at minimum we believe in the power of love and light. We go through the ups and downs in our experiences with religion from our own childhoods to now, our children’s experiences. Now we know we can have a spiritual experience without the pressures of following a religion.

Listen as we discuss:

• How Religion Can Use Fear To Control Children

• The Idea That Religion Can Be A Self Directed Experience Versus Inherited

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S2 Episode 35: Trusting The Human Biological System Including Our Intuition

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with our whole body integration system. It’s easy to believe if we just fix the one part of our body that is imbalanced, we will feel better or healed. Fortunately our body is a very intricate and intelligent system that works to harmonize our entire system. And when given the environment, it will do just that. We now know our entire biology including mind and soul is interconnected and always working to stay balanced.

Listen as we discuss:

• Our Biology As A Whole System

• Alicia Shares An Intuitive Story Of Body Healing

Resources:

REGROW Remineralizing Tooth Powder - Stop Sensitive Teeth and Gums - Whiter Teeth Naturally - Cleans, Heals, & Protects Teeth and Gums - All Natural - 4oz Glass Jar https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071X363FT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_J5SS8Y8XQPJV8HZBVCVK

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S2 Episode 34: Keep Your Cool And Your Power By Making Neutral Statements - Part 2

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with making neutral statements instead of placing judgement or shame on an action or person. It’s easy to get caught in a cycle of ordering our kids around, but that usually leads to feelings of frustration and anger for everybody! Making a factual statement takes the pressure and judgment out of the equation and allows space for awareness and cooperation. And it usually takes much less words and energy! Now we know that simple, factual statements are powerful and empowering.

Listen as we discuss:

• Making Neutral Statements Specific To Cleaning And Chores

• Being Unattached To Our Children’s Future By Keeping Experiences Neutral

• Fostering Intrinsic Motivation Through Neutral Statements

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S2 Episode 33: Keep Your Cool And Your Power By Making Neutral Statements - Part 1

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with making neutral statements instead of placing judgement or shame on an action or person. It’s easy to get caught in a cycle of ordering our kids around, but that usually leads to feelings of frustration and anger for everybody! Making a factual statement takes the pressure and judgment out of the equation and allows space for awareness and cooperation. And it usually takes much less words and energy! Now we know that simple, factual statements are powerful and empowering.

Listen as we discuss:

• What A Neutral Statement Is

• The Contrast Of Neutral Statements Versus Command, Demand And “Be Careful”

• The Shift From Our Attachment To Our Kids’s Response To One Of Collaboration

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S2 Episode 32: Follow Their Biology- Part Two

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with odor, food choices and sleep habits for themselves and their children. While there is much evidence to support the average human’s biological capacities, we believe we each have a knowing within that is ideal for our own bodies. We know now that our children have access to this knowing and can trust them to follow their biology.

Listen as we discuss:

• The Pivotal Moment Alicia Questioned Her Body’s True Needs

• What Do Our Children’s Food Preferences Tell Us About What They Need?

• Why Don’t Tangie’s Kids Sleep?!

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S2 Episode 31: Following The Body’s Biology: How Often Do Your Kids Shower?

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with body cleanliness. Are the products we’re led to purchase actually all that good for our bodies? We don’t claim to have the answers, but it is definitely something that we ponder and in the meantime (if the truth is ever revealed), we are product conscious. From good ol’ soap to deodorant, products are abundant and intriguing. Some products claim simple cosmetic perks while others justify safety for our bodies. Now we know, when we treat our bodies with love, our bodies can do great things, odor and all! Stay tuned for Part Two!

Listen as we discuss:

• Shower Routines For Ourselves And Our Kids

• The Idea That Our Bodies Are Self Cleaning And Healing Verses Our Bodies Needing Support For Our Overall Well-Being

Resources:

Where Alicia Gets Soap
https://healthytraditions.com

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S2 Episode 30: Making Agreements: Apartment Life With Kids

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences with making agreements. Living in an apartment can be challenging with kids because kids will be kids! Tangie shares an impactful story of making an agreement with her neighbor. Not only did this agreement impact her children personally, but it also gave space for modeling conflict resolution. Now we know making agreements is a useful skill for conflict resolution and can help stop the perpetuation of anger or frustration to come to a place of peace.

Listen as we discuss:
• How Tangie Uses Making Agreements In Conflict Resolution
• The Perks Of Apartment Living With Kids
• Practicing Making Agreements With Our Kids
• Making Agreements With Ourselves

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S2 Episode 29: The Importance of Adult Emotional Regulation

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia chat about adult emotions. Poor or lack of sleep, hunger and stress can all create a way for emotions to feel overwhelming for adults. And throw kids in the mix and it can feel unbearable. The beautiful thing is kids watch and listen to everything we do, even when we’re learning to manage our own adult emotions. We’re not afraid to tell our kids how we feel and model how we manage emotions in healthy ways. Now we know when we’re mindful of allowing space for our kids’ emotions, they internalize the space and have access to it when others need space to express their emotions.

Listen as we discuss:

• Tangie Shares A Revelation She Has About Her Child’s Ability To Regulate His Emotions

• Alicia Shares A Time When She Held And Let Be The Emotions Of Her 5 Year Old

Resources:

How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self by Dr. Nicole LePera https://www.amazon.com/dp/006301209X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_350J0K5T6KXY18QP4HGB

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S2 Episode 28: What Do You Do When Your Kids Lie?

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share stories about stories! Saving our kids from potential rejection of society is the story we’re telling ourselves when we’re concerned with them lying. I’ve never met a changemaker who couldn’t tell a good story and stories start as early as a baby’s first word! Stories are a beautiful way to connect and feel heard. Now that we know lies are stories in practice, we join our kids so we can create together!

Listen as we discuss:

• Shifting The Ideology Of Lies To Storytelling
• The Creativity In Stories, Even The Real Ones
• “The Power Of The Mind And The Stories That We Tell” -Tangie

Resources:
Storyworthy: Engage, Teach, Persuade, and Change Your Life through the Power of Storytelling by Matthew Dicks https://www.amazon.com/dp/1608685489/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_QSMFT51ZHKAAMZBSSG82

Stories That Stick: How Storytelling Can Captivate Customers, Influence Audiences, and Transform Your Business by Kindra Hall https://www.amazon.com/dp/140021193X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_S3J9DZ6E2EAK96XEE9ZM

How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self by Dr. Nicole LePera https://www.amazon.com/dp/006301209X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_350J0K5T6KXY18QP4HGB

Universal Human: Creating Authentic Power and the New Consciousness by Gary Zukav https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982169877/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_9DGDGESCM00KDHWZ2ECT

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