Parenting By Design

S2 Episode 27: Thinking Beyond Our Past And Anticipation Of Our Future To Be In The Present

In this episode Tangie and Alicia chat about making the conscious choice to be in the moment. Parent or not, life is a cascade of challenges and sometimes we feel unequipped to overcome. As a society we tend to look ahead, create storylines and try to overcome the moment before the moment even happens! What if we could trust the moments as they come so our children can see that even when life gets challenging, our innate abilities allow us to overcome?

Listen as we discuss:

• Alicia Describes A Noteworthy Moment That Flashed In Front Of Her Eyes

• Tangie Recounts A Beautiful Metaphorical Story From Her Past Life Regression Of Letting Go Of The Past

• The Virtue Of Love Radiates From Within

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S2 Episode 26: What To Do When Your Kids Challenge You: The Beauty Of Giving Power Back To Our Children

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia talk about how fear can show up in challenging times with our kids. And when we approach those moments with the fear front, that can perpetuate a lack of skill in living to our fullest potential. Now we know we can choose to approach those moments as practice to exemplify coming with a love front. If we can practice showing up with love when we are challenged by behaviors our children exhibit, our children can show up with love in due time.

Listen as we share:

• Alicia Shares A Proud Moment For Herself And Her Child
• Tangie Describes An Incredible Way She Gives Power Back To Her Children

Resources:

Organ Attack! Tabletop Card Game - Pop Bunny https://www.amazon.com/dp/B099J3V384/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_JCA52QXTVGVHQSEMG5RN

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S2 Episode 25: Everything is A Season!

Welcome back to Season 2! We’re excited to be back and share stories about knowing a new truth!

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia chat about truly understanding that all situations and emotions are temporary. We recognize this not only for our kids, but for ourselves as well! Coming to this knowing has allowed space for grace and self compassion.

Listen as we discuss:

• Tangie’s adventurous moves, yes with an “s”
• Tangie’s shift in providing value for money
• The physical apparent messages from the body
• Letting go of control so we can show up in the present moment with authentic feelings


Resources:
Messages from the Body: Their Psychological Meaning by Michael J. Lincoln Ph.D. https://www.amazon.com/dp/1939020816/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_3G7CX6PJ7BF6E9S18ZY4https://www.amazon.com/dp/1939020816/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_3G7CX6PJ7BF6E9S18ZY4

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S1 Episode 24: Surpassing the Surface of Transitions, Small and Large

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia chat about how transitions impact our emotions and our experiences, transitions such as our children going from one activity to another to adults transitioning in relationships. We discover when we can identify our transition style, we can honor what we need to move on with greater intention. And, when we are mindful of how our kids transition comfortably, we can honor what they need and give space for them to trust in who they are.

Listen as we discuss:

• When Alicia Learned Her 8 Year Old Transitioned Differently Than Her
• Tangie Gets Very Raw and Vulnerable About a Huge Transition in Her Life
• What We Can Do To Help In Times of Transition to Honor Ourselves and Our Children
• A Closing to Season 1 of The Parenting Philosophy Podcast

Resources:

https://konmari.com

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S1 Episode 23: Empathy Beyond Identity From Cultural Privilege

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia chat about what it means to have empathy, even when we don’t understand others’ experiences. Imagine a generation of people who can accept and honor the deep, deep history of the American culture. We come to realize this isn’t our story to tell, but it’s damn well our duty to uplift and give way to those who are willing to share.

Listen as we discuss:

• Tangie’s Experience with Attachment to Her Identity and Using it as Protection
• How Detachment Can Lead to Freedom
• Somehow We Relate Poop to Repressed Emotions
• Tangie’s Experience with White Privilege

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S1 Episode 22: Expressive and Explicit Words in Music and Life

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia chat about kids using explicit words. What would grandma, auntie or your neighbor think if they heard your child saying a “bad” word - especially if it were in context? We believe in the importance of holding space for expression and allowing our kids to explore words within each environment. Trust us, grandma will let them know if she’s uncomfortable with a certain word and these interactions will give kids a much deeper understanding of how all words work.

Listen as we discuss:

• Our Perspective of Music as an Expression of Art and Poetry
• Meaning of Words From Our Own Experiences as Children
• Spiral of Conditioning From Childhood to Adulthood
• Tangie Unravels of A Very Specific Word from Alicia’s Childhood

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S1 Episode 21: A Chat with Sivanne Lieber, The Joyous Parent: How to Raise A Changemaker

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia chat with Sivanne Lieber, The Joyous Parent! With almost twenty years in the classroom under her belt, she is now a parent coach, progressive educational consultant and most importantly a play enabler. While our intention was to bring awareness to the importance of play, we shifted into a beautiful conversation about “changemakers”, why we need them and how to raise them. Don’t fret, we’ll be back soon with Sivanne to chat about play! Check out her bio below to register for an upcoming webinar!

Listen as we discuss:

• Bringing Back Play in Childhood to Adulthood
• Sivanne’s Recipe for Raising “Life Ready Kids” for Parents, Caregivers and Educators
• Raising Changemakers with an Awareness of Social Justice and Equity

Resources:

Sivanne is a parent coach, progressive educator, mama and early childhood specialist. But most of all, she is a PLAY enabler. Following nearly two decades in the classroom she now supports children through her work as The Joyous Parent, Sivanne guiding parents to be confident they are raising creative, resilient LIFE ready kids...through the art of play! Check out her work at www.thejoyousparent.com and join the joyous journey on @thejoyousparent on FB and Instagram. Get ready to join the play revolution!

A free, loving container for shifting your parenthood:

From Painful to Playful Parenting: The Recipe for Raising Life Ready Kids
Tues, May 18th @5pm est
Sat, May 29th @8pm est
Highly interactive, live on zoom

REGISTRATION:
https://play.thejoyousparent.com/painful2playful

Ezra Jack Keats
https://www.ezra-jack-keats.org/ezras-life/

Heidi Wood
https://www.bravelittlesteps.com/aboutme/

Trans Student Educational Resources, 2015. “The Gender Unicorn.” www.transstudent.org/gender

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S1 Episode 20: Self-Directed Learning and Lifestyle in Action

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia chat about what self-directed means to them. While self-directed is one of the oldest forms of learning (think Agricultural Age) it is making a comeback for today’s ever changing Technological Age, more broadly, the 4th Industrial Revolution. How on Earth has our educational system not evolved in the past 100 years, yet we’ve had four industrial revolutions?!

Listen as we discuss:

• Grit is Only One Method of Valuation for Drive and It’s Not for Everyone
• Challenges in Being a Parent of Self-Directed Kids
• The Innate Nature of Learning in Humans
• Never Interrupt Play!
• Communication and Conflict Resolution for the Win!

Resources:

https://www.amazon.com/Grit-Passion-Perseverance-Angela-Duckworth/dp/1501111108/ref=nodl_

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S1 E19: Reimagining Education with Educational Consultant, Komal Shah

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia chat with Educational Consultant, Komal, about bringing consciousness to the current educational system so our children can reap the rewards of fulfilling, conscious living. Komal is an author, educational consultant, child relationship advocate and former teacher. Pre-order her book to receive special perks and join a community committed to educating a generation with permission, tools and skills to change the world!

Listen as we discuss:

• The Dismantle of the Current Educational System
• The Shift the Education System Needs for Children to Thrive
• Bringing the Mind, the Body and the Spirit to Education
• Looking Inward to Connect and Collaborate for a Conscious System
• Creating a System That is Inclusive and Gives Choice Based on Values

Resources:

Pre-order Bringing Consciousness to Education by Komal Shah!
https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/bringing-consciousness-to-education-by-komal-shah#/

https://thekomalshah.com

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S1 Episode 18: Power of Affirmations-Rewiring Your Brain to Align with Your Fullest Potential

In this episode, ours truly, Tangie, The Queen of Affirmations gives us the inside scoop on the power of affirmations! While doing research for her children’s books, Tangie expanded her knowledge of the role of thoughts and words in our conscious and subconscious and how they relate to life’s outcomes.

Listen as we discuss:

• How and why affirmations work
• Affirmations for parents
• 5 steps for creating affirmations
• A challenge from Tangie to create a day of positivity!


Resources:
Tangie’s Books
https://www.tangienadimi.com/books

Every Little Cell in My Body is Healthy
https://youtu.be/9JOTK-6Jb0M

Atomic Habits by James Clear
https://jamesclear.com/habits

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