Parenting By Design

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences around providing space for their kids to discover their own identity. Listen as we discuss:

• The potential identities imposed by social media
• How allowing kids to show up as their truest self sets them up for the confidence to stand their ground
• Why moving beyond judgement allows our kids to fully express who they really are
• How allowing our kids to experience their internal compass provides them with the tools to know how to get back to their truest self
• Why supporting and honoring our kids’ paths even when it’s a path full of failures can set them up for self love

Resources:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/theconversation.com/amp/how-parents-psychological-control-may-lead-to-young-adult-students-fear-of-failure-131714

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SEASON 1 EPISODE 6:
What do you do when your child has a tantrum?

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences around tantrums and the expectations we have for our children and their big emotions. Listen as we discuss:

•Reasons for Tantrums
•Managing Emotions
•4 Things You Can Do

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SEASON 1 EPISODE 5: How do you Detach from Outcomes as a Parent?

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences detaching from their perceived identities in order to be more present as their true and authentic selves and as parents.

Listen as we discuss:

• How Alicia detached from her previous identity as a teacher
• Pros and cons of attaching to the identity of “mother”
• How to show up as your authentic self without being attached to a particular identity
• An empowering excerpt from The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav

Resources
The Stay at Home Mom Capsule Wardrobe by Corina Holden
https://nowthaticando.com/

Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason by Alfie Kohn https://www.amazon.com/dp/0743487486/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_HEIcGbTNW0NCQ

The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav
https://www.amazon.com/dp/147675540X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_5FIcGbNS96T4Y

Journey of Souls: Case Studies of Life Between Lives by Michael Newton PhD
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1567184855/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_FGIcGbKJHQWK0


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SEASON 1 EPISODE 4:
Expectations and Attachment to Outcomes in Parenting

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experience with expectations with small examples like brushing teeth to big stuff such as the adults their kids will become. Listen as we discuss:

•How modeling for and playing with our kids works for meeting expectations
•How to deal when the expectations of others interfere with parenting
•How Source can guide our purpose and purpose can expand our consciousness

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SEASON 1 EPISODE 3.5 bonus:
How Values Apply to Parenting

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share how their personal values guide their parenting. Listen as we discuss:

-The process in determining our top 5 values
-How values can guide decisions
-How values can keep us in balance
-The difference in values that reside within us and outside of us

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Resources:
The Desire Map: A Guide to Creating Goals with Soul by Danielle LaPorte https://www.amazon.com/dp/1622032519/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_wF2aGbBC0A5D8

Values Based 1-on-1 Coaching with Tangie

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SEASON 1 EPISODE 3:
Foundations in Parenting: The Child to Parent Perspective

In this episode, Tangie and Alicia share their experiences of childhood and the roles they play in their parenting. Listen as we discuss:

-The foundations set up in our childhoods
-The role values play in our parenting
-Accepting our childhoods to be the parents we want to be

Resources:
Between Death and Life by Dolores Cannon
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1940265002/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_77o-FbPK9EB32

How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Fabre and Elaine Mazlish
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1451663889/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_e-o-FbDJ6VW06

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/compassion-matters/201507/7-ways-your-childhood-affects-how-youll-parent%3famp

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SEASON 1 EPISODE 2:
What’s it Like to be a Self-Directed Family?

In this episode, Tangie shares her family’s journey in self-directed learning, adults and kids alike. Listen as we discuss:

-What self-directed learning looks like from adulthood to toddler
-What happens in a self-directed community
-What to consider when thinking about alternative education
-How to trust the process
-Why humans are inherent learners
-How self-directed learning is fulfilling

Resources:
https://www.self-directed.org/

Free to Learn by Dr. Peter Gray
https://www.amazon.com/Free-Learn-Unleashing-Instinct-Self-Reliant/dp/0465084990/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?dchild=1&hasWorkingJavascript=1&keywords=free+to+learn+by+peter+gray&qid=1609462342&sprefix=free+to+learn&sr=8-3

Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn
https://www.amazon.com/Unconditional-Parenting-Moving-Rewards-Punishments/dp/0743487486/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=unconditional+parenting&qid=1609462452&sprefix=+unconditional&sr=8-1


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SEASON 1 EPISODE 1:
What does a typical day of unschooling look like?  

In this episode, Alicia shares a day in her life - unschooling 3 children under the age of 9. Listen as we discuss:

-Misconceptions of unschoolers
-How to consciously allow kids to create their own path in life
-Unschoolers, college and attachment to future outcomes

Resources:
Leo Babauta (sorry for botching your last name!) on unschooling
https://zenhabits.net/unschoolery/

Let’s Read: A Linguistic Approach-Barnhart and Barnhart
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0814334555/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_boa6FbZ26K195

Peter Gray-Free to Learn
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0465084990/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_qna6FbCMPVCRD

John Holt-Learning All the Time (This book is where I learned about Let’s Read)
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0201550911/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_2oa6Fb4X6DT4F

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Welcome to the Parenting Philosophy Podcast! In this episode you will meet Tangie and Alicia, find out why they started this podcast and what their own parenting philosophies are. Thank you for joining us and for your patience while we improve our audio!