Having a teen is as hard as having a newborn! All the firsts and all the angst, let’s face it, the stakes are really high, and we parents worry tremendously about our children, and the teen years can really exacerbate our worry and stress. What I know works is connection, but many times, parents pull away from their teens because the teens are trying to find their own way too. When I lean into being with and understanding my teens, they respond with more kindness and the ability to self-regulate more readily. Listen in as I give you ten ways to do this.

 

This episode originally aired February 2022

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Is Your Toddler Testing Your Limits? Here’s How to Turn No into Cooperation.

Have you ever resorted to reverse psychology just to get your strong-willed toddler to brush their teeth? What if there were a kinder, more effective way to gain their cooperation? In today’s episode, I share some practical strategies to foster a harmonious and cooperative relationship with your little one.

Today, I connect with Lauren, a mom from Indiana who is facing the very relatable challenge of dealing with a strong-willed three-year-old. We explore why some classic parenting tactics like bribes, threats, and punishments might feel like short-term wins but can backfire in the long run. 

In this Episode:

• Navigating a strong-willed toddler's defiance
• The dangers of bribes, threats, and punishments
• The importance of deep, connected relationships
• Utilizing empathy, special time, and play
• Practical play ideas for tough moments

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Is your approach to restricting electronics actually fostering sneaky behavior in your child? What if instead of wrestling over electronics, we focused on fostering genuine moments of togetherness? In today’s episode, we venture into the intricate relationship our kids have with their devices and discover practical, connective ways to navigate this modern challenge.

I’ll dive into the ever-present issue of electronics in our children's lives, and contrary to popular advice, I argue against outright bans and restrictions. Instead, I emphasize connection as the core solution. 

How can we foster a healthier relationship with electronics without making them the forbidden fruit? How can we create meaningful interactions that make gadgets less appealing? Join me as I explore this nuanced approach and provide you with actionable strategies to integrate connection over control in your daily lives. 

In this Episode:

• Importance of modeling good electronic habits
• Offering opportunities for connection
• Discussing over-usage pitfalls openly
• Maintaining safety online
• Avoiding electronics as punishment or reward

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Are you caught in the cycle of correction and control in your parenting journey? Today, I am joined by Nadia, a parent who bravely shares her journey from a place of control to discovering the impact of connective parenting.

Nadia candidly shares her experiences of shedding the instinct to correct and control and embracing empathy and connection instead. Through her journey, she unveils her challenges in stepping away from conventional parenting methods and the profound shifts she witnessed in her family dynamics. Tune in to discover the profound impact of prioritizing connection over control in creating a more peaceful and harmonious family dynamic.

In this Episode:

• The Awakening: From Correction to Connection
• Embracing Change: Letting Go of Control & Shame
• The Impact of Connection: Transforming Family Dynamics
• A New Way of Parenting: Grace and Empathy
• The Journey Ahead: The Road to Peaceful Parenting

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Can we truly control our children, or are we simply deluding ourselves? Imagine a world where we don't force our kids to do things, but instead, they genuinely want to cooperate because of the loving relationship we share. Today, I explore why letting go of control can lead to a more harmonious and joyful parenting journey.

Many believe that trying to control our kids through threats, bribes, or even physical punishment will produce the desired behavior. However, in the long run, these tactics are unsustainable and damaging. In this episode, I’ll share insights on how coercive methods can fracture the parent-child relationship, hindering long-term influence and true cooperation.

In This Episode:

• The pitfalls of parenting through control
• Shifting focus from behavior control to connection
• How coercion severs parent-child relationships in the long run
• The power of influence over manipulation
• Redefining discipline as a form of teaching

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Araminta was struggling with her child's behavioral issues when she discovered Peace and Parenting, which proved to be a lifesaver for her. After signing up for personal coaching the most important lesson she gained was that her son understood the difference between right and wrong, but lacked the ability to regulate his emotions. With this knowledge, Araminta is now better prepared to deal with her son's tantrums and intense feelings without becoming upset herself. She has discovered a method for remaining calm and collected in difficult circumstances.

This episode originally aired July 2023

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What if the everyday moments with your kids held the secret to building a stronger bond? Imagine transforming those challenging instances of whining, fighting, or acting out into opportunities for deeper connection and understanding. Today, I’ll share with you some subtle yet powerful ways to enhance connection with your children without adding extra tasks to your already busy day. 

Connection doesn't always require special time set aside or grand gestures; it's about how we engage with our children in the little moments. Whether it's handling social issues, whining, defiance, or sibling rivalry, the key lies in how we respond. By embracing empathy, play, and affection, we can create an environment where our kids learn problem-solving and emotional resilience.

In This Episode:

• Using play to address whining and sass
• Affection as a tool for managing aggression
• Turning sibling conflicts into connection moments
• Avoiding actions that erode relationships

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What happens when a teen’s risk-taking behavior leads to serious injuries? Balancing safety and freedom is a challenge many parents face, especially when dealing with sports-loving teenagers. Today, I sit down with Kelli, a mother from Utah, who navigates this tricky landscape after her son suffered a string of concussions. How do you keep your kids safe while respecting their need for independence?

Together, we explore the power of empathy, the nuances of setting boundaries without triggering rebellion, and the struggle to connect with teens coping with setbacks. I share with Kelli how fostering open conversations and acknowledging our children's emotions can transform our approach to parenting in challenging times.

In This Episode:

• Striking a balance between safety and freedom
• Using empathy in parenting tough decisions
• Navigating sports-related injuries with teens
• Encouraging kids to express their feelings
• Implementing small, incremental changes for better outcomes
• Alternative activities during recovery periods

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What happens when you choose not to engage in a fight with your child? Can you handle a power struggle with your child without losing your temper? We all want to navigate those heated moments with grace, empathy, and understanding, even when your child is completely offline.

In this episode, I discuss the multifaceted approach to maintaining a harmonious parent-child relationship, even amidst conflicts. We'll explore how stepping back, listening actively, and regulating our own emotions can turn potential blowouts into opportunities for deeper connection and understanding. Drawing from some of my personal insights, I hope to show you that while holding our ground is important, doing so from a place of empathy and calm can make all the difference.

In This Episode:

• Why you can't have a one-sided power struggle
• Recognizing the signs your child is offline
• The art of active listening during arguments
• Strategies for your self-regulation
• Using empathy to defuse tension
• Encouraging your child's emotional self-regulation

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Are your children constantly fighting and you’re at your wits' end on how to handle it? What if the key to resolving sibling rivalry doesn’t lie in punishments but in fostering deeper connections? Join me today as I welcome Sandra, a mother from Egypt who seeks advice on improving her two daughters' tumultuous relationship.

In this episode, we dive into Sandra’s experience as a mom of two constantly quarreling daughters. Through a heartfelt conversation, we uncover the challenges of maintaining harmony and the tendency to use punishments or let kids "fight it out." Sandra shares her journey from using punishments and consequences to struggling with a hectic lifestyle that leaves little room for meaningful connection. Join us as we discuss the importance of making space for connection amidst a busy routine and how empathy and consistency play pivotal roles in cultivating peaceful sibling relationships.

In This Episode:

• Fostering connection over punishment in parenting
• The significance of empathy in resolving fights
• Why daily special time is essential
• How a busy life impacts family dynamics
• Supporting kids to solve their own conflicts

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